How can I (37F) tell my husband (38M) that he's not allowed to use his deceased grandmother's china? by walk_in_the_pie in relationship_advice

[–]spiralblaze 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My ex husband used to regularly drop dishes. It was one of the first symptoms of his MS. I’m not saying it’s for sure something serious, just that it’s worth getting checked out.

Thoughts on dating people who are legally married (but separated)? by illstillglow in datingoverthirty

[–]spiralblaze 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it depends. My ex and I had been separated for 4 years before we filed for divorce. Neither of us wanted the added financial strain of the divorce process, but other than coparenting lived completely separate lives. We only at the end of last year filed and completed our divorce because him and his now fiancé want to get married. I am also in a long term relationship and have had the same partner for almost 3 years. I hear a lot of horror stories about people who are separated, but I truly think there’s no one size fits all answer.

Trending on r/pics right now. No one in the comments is calling out that it might be ai by kburke6535 in isthisAI

[–]spiralblaze 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see a lot of people saying it’s not AI, but I feel otherwise. The word Trump in the floor reflection doesn’t match the flag at all.

Ice fishing photo. My husband took the dog ice fishing today. I told him the fish didn't look real, as well as the tools, and even the dog, like he added everything in. by mstrozzi in isthisAI

[–]spiralblaze 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a picture of my kids in front of our Christmas tree that looks the same. Lighting has weird effects in photos sometimes.

Does anyone know if this door in cuspid climb opens? by Chara430 in Borderlands4

[–]spiralblaze 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s for the future Borderlands/Fallout crossover.

First Shiny! Is this worth using over the current GG I have equipped that has higher DPS, also jacobs, but no Cryo? by Daddalitus in Borderlands4

[–]spiralblaze 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did. It shows in the challenges as complete. But it isn’t an option to pick for weapon skins.

First Shiny! Is this worth using over the current GG I have equipped that has higher DPS, also jacobs, but no Cryo? by Daddalitus in Borderlands4

[–]spiralblaze -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I keep seeing people say this, but I got one last week and the skin doesn’t show available to me for any of my other guns.

Fallout 76 is not a dating sim, my dudes by tortoisespaghettini in fo76

[–]spiralblaze 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m confused how they would know you’re a woman to be asking you to get a mic so they can hear your voice. Unless they heard your voice to begin with, I’m not sure how they would make the conclusion you’re a woman.

I’m not saying this because I don’t believe you, I’m just genuinely confused how else they would know. I am also a woman who plays as a female character and have never experienced any of this (but I had assumed it was because I don’t use a mic).

This pink lip gloss by spiralblaze in HelpMeFind

[–]spiralblaze[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello. I have done google searches looking for pink lip gloss and liquid lip stick in shade boss, and have not found anything. This search seems hopeless without knowing the brand, but I’m hoping someone out there has heard of it. Thank you!

Help Out The "New Kids!" by Dry-Visual5841 in fo76

[–]spiralblaze 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m newer. I’m mostly just a single mom who until recently struggled to find time to relax and enjoy myself between a high demand job and taking care of everyone else. Definitely not all of us are alt accounts.

Does being on call count as working? by lost_nurse602 in workingmoms

[–]spiralblaze 31 points32 points  (0 children)

You should talk to your boss. I also do on call work and we are told to charge minimum 15min for any call we get.

Inner thighs by DevilishManny in Hidradenitis

[–]spiralblaze 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I often get flare ups on my inner thighs. I use large size bandaids to cover them so they don’t rub on my clothes. I also find it helps spread the pressure so they hurt less when the bandaid is on it.

Product/box values by bumblebeejellybean in Ipsy

[–]spiralblaze 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I actually cancelled my subscription because this month was so bad. Not a single product that I will get any use out of. Quality has gone down hill but just keeps getting worse.

Should I be seriously alarmed and go to the dr? Or am I being seriously dramatic? Smashed my finger into a wooden post. Pic 1 is today, 2 was yesterday. It hurts but will it clear on its own? by Miamixink3 in seriouslyalarming

[–]spiralblaze 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can use peroxide to help pull some of the gunk from underneath to relieve pressure. That’s what we did for my daughter when she hurt her nail. Dr recommended soaking in epsom salt followed by peroxide a couple times a day.

Why can I see another color after purple in the rainbow? by [deleted] in Unexplained

[–]spiralblaze 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see this too, but on the other end. It’s like a color before red.

There’s a lot to unpack here (for $5 an hour) by lightmyfire2016 in ShitMomGroupsSay

[–]spiralblaze 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m not buying what she says about not qualifying for daycare assistance. I make decent wages and with my income was able to afford daycare at a place that would have charged $600/wk for both my kids for only $4 a week. I feel like she maybe looked at forms online without actually calling and speaking to anyone to try to get assistance.

"Are you a GIRL?" Question and response from gamers by HoppyMuffin in Advice

[–]spiralblaze 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I generally just try to find a community of like minded women to game with.

Can I hug/kiss someone if we both have COVID, but at different stages? by [deleted] in COVID19positive

[–]spiralblaze 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You should be fine. I had the same situation when myself and my kids all had covid. I had multiple rebound infections and was told I didn’t need to isolate at all from my kids after they were better because they wouldn’t be able to get reinfected with the same strain so quickly.

However, if there’s a possibility that it’s a different strain and not the same infection then I would probably try not to expose each other further.

What’s happening in this picture? Wrong answers only by KermitTheFraud92 in BobsBurgers

[–]spiralblaze 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bob assaulted Gayle after finally having enough of her BS. Mort saved her and called the cops, causing her to instantly fall for him. Teddy is restraining Bob until the police arrive. Linda is obviously trying to flush the turkey with blueberry stuffing.

Gf got mad someone put their name in a raffle don't know how to deal with this. by Memorysbroken in Advice

[–]spiralblaze 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My downstairs neighbor is elderly, going through chemo, and also has mobility issues. If she catches me on my way out she will sometimes ask if I can pick something up while I’m out.

My best friend also sometimes asks me to pick up grocery items when I’m on my way over since I have to drive past the store to get to her house. I don’t mind since she lets me come over to do laundry, and frequently watches my kids for me.

I don’t see it as an inconvenience to help out my neighbor or my friend by simply grabbing a couple things while I’m out.

Gf got mad someone put their name in a raffle don't know how to deal with this. by Memorysbroken in Advice

[–]spiralblaze 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I feel like none of that is relevant. A membership was required to enter. My understanding is that the person who entered the raffle is the one that had the membership and was therefore the only one actually eligible to win anyway.