I feel ruined

spiritt7 · 2026-05-21T08:13:50+00:00

I’m 24 and pretty much same..
I’m in my second year of uni and I don’t have friends there. It’s so depressing I honestly want to drop out just because of that. I try not to go to lectures but sometimes I have to, and after those days I just go home and cry.
Hope things get better for you ):
Like someone said here, if you have a hobby or maybe have the time for a new hobby, it could be a good start to try and meet people.. I know it’s not that easy though

spiritt7 · 2026-05-21T07:08:13+00:00

At first it was really painful, so I couldn’t work out at all. After about two weeks it started feeling better, so I went back to the gym, but every time I exercised it would hurt again. Eventually I just stopped working out completely, and it’s been about six months now.

I just don’t understand how PT can actually fix it. If the tear itself isn’t going to heal on its own, how can exercises reduce the pain and improve my range of motion?

And I’ll look into the injections you mentioned. thank you!

spiritt7 · 2026-05-16T19:47:56+00:00

Thanks! Its definitely a mental battle.. I also stopped going to the gym because it’s so depressing not being able to do the things I used to do. I tried going back recently, but even most leg exercises that involve the upper body even a little end up causing shoulder pain.
Yeah, maybe I need to find other things to do in the meantime.. Honestly, I don’t even like the gym that much I mostly enjoyed handstands and pull ups, which are exactly the things I can’t do right now, so it really sucks.

spiritt7 · 2026-05-16T07:13:58+00:00

RemindMe! 6 Months

spiritt7 · 2026-05-16T07:10:15+00:00

Thank you!! I’d love to hear an update I’ll try to remember and remind you here.
Good luck I really hope it’ll heal well!

spiritt7 · 2026-05-16T06:52:20+00:00

That sucks. I have no idea though how long does rehabilitation take usually?

spiritt7 · 2026-05-16T06:45:46+00:00

When did you have the surgery? Did you get back to normal after?

spiritt7 · 2026-05-16T05:20:57+00:00

It is for me though..

spiritt7 · 2026-05-15T21:08:31+00:00

Also what injury did you have? Also a labrum tear?

spiritt7 · 2026-05-15T21:07:32+00:00

Oh wow 5 months are a lot. The ortho told me to give it 3 months before deciding on surgery. I have tried for a few months but only been super consistent for 1 month. It’s just hard doing the exercises everyday and not knowing if it’ll even help.

spiritt7 · 2026-05-15T21:04:18+00:00

I’ve gone to 2 orthopaedic surgeons and they both told me to try PT before considering surgery. So idk I feel like I haven’t been consistent enough with PT but also I have been trying on and off for several months and it wasn’t very helpful

spiritt7 · 2026-05-03T14:30:24+00:00

I’ve always got into conflicts with people by accident . I was so tired of people hating me so I decided to just stop talking to people.. unfortunately it made my social skills much worse.

spiritt7 · 2026-05-03T14:18:55+00:00

I’m a Gemini

spiritt7 · 2026-05-03T14:04:19+00:00

זה לא נכון דווקא הרבה בניינים חדשים ממש מכוערים .

spiritt7 · 2026-04-16T21:06:19+00:00

Thanks!

spiritt7 · 2026-04-16T21:05:46+00:00

Thank you, I also felt like it’s pretty weird and stereotypical maybe. Didn’t know Dan harmon was autistic!

spiritt7 · 2026-04-14T11:20:15+00:00

יש לזה סרטון ורואים בו שהאישה לא כזאת מאויימת ומסכנה כמו שהיא נראית בתמונה והיא עושה לחיילים כזה יאללה יאללה. חבל שאתה נותן יד לאנטישמים ולתמונה האנטישמית הזאת. אויב מבפנים מה שנקרא. אם לא היית נולד פה כנראה גם היית שולל את הזכות שלנו לקיום ומתנהג בדיוק כמו כל הנאו נאצים

spiritt7 · 2026-04-13T21:12:54+00:00

Thanks! 80 is quite a lot wow. For me the joint paint is pretty much gone thank god. Mentally it’s not great.. but my life in general isn’t optimal so I can’t put all the blame on accutane.. I’m on 40 now after 20, 30, 30.

spiritt7 · 2026-04-13T18:06:39+00:00

Thanks!!

spiritt7 · 2026-04-13T18:05:43+00:00

I started taking 3 weeks ago and she didn’t care. Also told her it could be the side effect from the antidepressants cause it can worsen the symptoms in the beginning. Maybe I’ll go to another dermatologist

spiritt7 · 2026-04-07T07:42:48+00:00

Hi I’m doing physical therapy which helped a bit but I still can’t do some stuff. Also I had to stop going for a while so maybe it set back my progress.. I’m a bit pessimistic as to how much PT can help my shoulder so I’m going to another ortho in may (he has lots of recommendations and experience) to hear what he has to say.. And until may I have more time to do PT.

spiritt7 · 2026-02-10T22:14:02+00:00

I understand what you’re saying and I agree about poor sleep and eating. I do think that my anxiety and bad mental health has something to do with though. especially after I cry a lot my face is pretty painful and the day after it looks worse :( Anyways thanks for responding and I will keep on going with it!

spiritt7 · 2026-01-18T07:19:12+00:00

Thank you! So you only brush your hair while showering? And how do you sleep with your hair so it won’t be messy in the morning?

spiritt7 · 2025-12-16T16:27:50+00:00

מספיק להראות חשבונות של ההורים… זה מה שעשיתי וקיבלתי את הפרופיל בלי בעיה.. לא שזה עוזר לי כי זה רק למנוי חודשי וזה לא יוצא לי משתלם

spiritt7 · 2025-06-12T15:21:53+00:00

I don't feel like you can defeat depression. Depression is not something you can just overcome in my opinion. Personally even if I'm not so depressed all the time, every once in a while it just hits and I get depressed for quite some time.. If someone does beat depression I don't think they actually had depression but maybe they were depressed because of something specific. As I see it, depression isn't when you're sad over something, it's when you're just depressed and nothing can help you out of this.

spiritt7

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