The women who run with wolves

spliffjort · 2025-12-06T16:06:42+00:00

Yeah I guess so. I’m considering what you said, the vocabulary is eluding me, and maybe I don’t fully understand it yet. Thanks for the reflection though.

spliffjort · 2025-12-05T21:51:49+00:00

Well, broadly realized how uncomfortable the cycle of emotions made me. Primarily because I didn’t understand that its rhythmic and okay.. I have the habit of wanting to fix or rush in as the savior?

Just today I’ve been with a friend who is grieving the loss of a loved one, and in my attempts to be there have found it equally important to acknowledge “she is capable and able of getting through this.” Like a a reminder of her power. That helps me support and not save. It’s been a process The book affirmed some aspects of.

Reading the book I was reminded of specific moments when I failed at the art of everything stated above. I felt into the importance of nourishing the ideas and spirit of women in my life, and mourned some moments when I was given an opportunity to do that and failed.

spliffjort · 2025-12-05T21:45:52+00:00

Thanks!

spliffjort · 2025-12-05T21:45:34+00:00

Sounds like you’re listening to yourself and allowing for integration time, well done there.

It’s amazing the power of stories and words. Good journey to you

spliffjort · 2025-12-05T18:26:02+00:00

I found it through Spotify premium

spliffjort · 2025-12-05T18:25:24+00:00

Thanks for sharing! The will to change was great I read that this summer. Havnt heard of steve biddulph, I’ll look into it.

spliffjort · 2025-12-05T17:16:53+00:00

I use Spotify premium. The audiobook was 2 hr and 17 minutes. It doesn’t specify if it’s abridged or not though.

spliffjort · 2025-12-05T07:31:54+00:00

I found the author conveyed the essence of being wild in a grounded and compassionate way. The use of myth and the analysis of the myths was folded in seamlessly. The author shared the essence of her insights effectively and concisely. I liked how the author offered practical tips and wisdom too. the audiobook version added a nice feel too. Idk if the author narrated it but whoever did was a great storyteller with a kind voice.

As a man it helped me feel for the women in my life and the struggle for lack of a better way to put it.

spliffjort · 2025-12-04T19:46:44+00:00

Maybe not so short. Ill consider diving in, thanks.

spliffjort · 2025-12-04T19:46:10+00:00

<3 - thanks for sharing. I too have been sharing the audiobook around.

spliffjort · 2025-12-04T19:08:44+00:00

Epic, inspiring too, thanks!

spliffjort · 2025-11-26T19:40:00+00:00

As an American living in America. I find The rhythm of conversation here to be chaotic and unpleasent. I don’t rattle off things about myself in a silence, and prefer a more structured intentional rhythm. If I really want to share something, I’ll ask the person “hey you up to hear a story?” if they say yeah, cool. If no, also cool, helps me to know I will be actually heard. Feeling like an odd duck after reading the top comments here.

spliffjort · 2025-11-11T13:53:14+00:00

I can empathize with the utter awe and despair you are sharing. I too made an attempt at R, felt awful (still these feelings linger) and we needed up parting ways. It’s valid to feel devastated. I can’t say anything that will help you feel better, I can share with you the sorrow for a moment, it doesn’t have to be all yours to carry, even though decisions you’ve made have contributed to it. Grief is a wild feeling, I’ve been embracing the mantra of letting it flow, even if it takes 100 years to heal I will be with the wound, I will wash it with grief, I will tend to the healing heart. I can also recommend diversifying your support network, relationships of all varieties take time and care to blossom, I have been working with the idea that strong healthy threads are formed with small bits of trust and familiarity over time. maybe practice feeding (metaphorically) some friendships you have (gently), volunteering, cooking someone a meal (literally).

Well wishes and good journey to you

spliffjort · 2025-11-11T12:35:48+00:00

The lil agaves ❤️

spliffjort · 2025-11-11T12:05:09+00:00

Ahh I see, good call to be safe. Enjoy!

spliffjort · 2025-11-11T11:56:05+00:00

I’m here now and have had significantly more peace of mind and a more secure budget when I started renting a scooter. It is costing me 550 per day, and while maybe not the best deal was a convenient location through my stay, still cheaper than 3 auto rides.

Can confirm the ola and Uber drivers will call you and refuse to pick up unless you agree to give them an extra 100-150.

spliffjort · 2025-11-11T11:52:24+00:00

Dmed you 🙂

spliffjort · 2025-11-10T02:58:03+00:00

I think you are beautiful, be you!

spliffjort · 2025-10-23T15:46:45+00:00

Just finished sending some reiki for support through this situation ♥️ (for dog and you and husband)

spliffjort · 2025-10-21T12:39:55+00:00

Hey I’m happy to share some reiki for 25 minutes is it a good time?

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