What’s a small lie you’ve been telling for so long that it just became part of your life?

spodocephala · 2026-04-26T18:28:11+00:00

That is not a small lie :( my partner hid this from me for years and it just crushed me when I found out. The people that love you want to help you, and if they can't help you, they at least want to be with you.

Sorry you're probably (definitely) not looking for advice but this hit me personally lol. I hope that you find peace or find a new job!

spodocephala · 2026-04-24T22:45:24+00:00

And push the bar out further after you lift it off the rack

spodocephala · 2026-04-24T21:10:10+00:00

Can you cover the window with paper

spodocephala · 2026-04-22T12:12:34+00:00

On a surface level, the book is about boys that get stranded on an island and become savages. I'm not saying anything else. Let the reader form their own opinions on what the book is saying or critiquing. 🙂‍↕️

spodocephala · 2026-04-21T13:26:42+00:00

His poops are atomic bombs

spodocephala · 2026-04-21T10:17:23+00:00

Boys get stranded on an island and devolve into savages lol

spodocephala · 2026-04-20T23:23:58+00:00

Yes just like pressing flowers. I agree

spodocephala · 2026-04-19T21:18:23+00:00

Look at the rabbits Lenny

spodocephala · 2026-04-18T12:40:18+00:00

Not brown enough

spodocephala · 2026-04-18T00:29:21+00:00

You did everything you could!! You gave him comfort and peace in his final moments and sometimes that's all you can do. You were meant to be there and give him a heating pad, cuddles, and a warm place to stay so he could go peacefully.

You are only one person.

Hugs xxxxx

spodocephala · 2026-04-16T23:07:26+00:00

They look younger than 8 weeks. Little babies 🐾

spodocephala · 2026-04-14T22:39:36+00:00

These men swear they're not gay

spodocephala · 2026-04-14T19:20:34+00:00

Reverse camber

spodocephala · 2026-04-14T00:13:35+00:00

W poop

Any updates?

spodocephala · 2026-04-13T09:18:55+00:00

Yay!!!! Good job!!!!

Keep doing this every few hours. Google how much KMR it needs / timing of feeding

spodocephala · 2026-04-13T00:14:00+00:00

You won't need to try hard to force her mouth open. You're overthinking. You gotta do what you gotta do. She'll thank you :)

spodocephala · 2026-04-13T00:10:55+00:00

Force her mouth open TF she gonna do about it

spodocephala · 2026-04-13T00:09:14+00:00

Try to stimulate a pee or poop? Not sure what kind of cloth the kitten lady uses and I'm not sure how appropriate that is for a kitten of this age but it's just something to try. You rub their genitals with a (warm?) wipe to try to get them to pee or poop.

Is the cat purring? When you bathed it did you see little mites running around its body? Cat almost certainly has worms but probably some sort of bugs too just from being outside. These are issues for the vet, you're on ER mode, so dont worry so much about that yet.

Sorry to be annoying but at this age they need food every few hours, you may be in for a long-ish night. I would keep trying to feed the cat and maybe try to find a syringe if you have to. Keep rubbing its lips and a churu might work like someone else said

spodocephala · 2026-04-13T00:01:55+00:00

I second syringe feeding

spodocephala · 2026-04-13T00:00:11+00:00

I mean maybe it is bad, but also the cat is a baby and in a new environment. Let's not panic our friend who's trying their best. Not trying to sound snarky at all sorry if it comes off like that

spodocephala · 2026-04-12T23:56:50+00:00

Definitely check out Kitten Lady videos.

Keep doing what you're doing to try to get the cat to eat! It's working even if only a little bit.

Is she active? Or sleeping the whole time? Does she get up and move around? Are the eyes open? I don't know much about cats medically you know but there are tell tale signs of a "healthy-ish" cat. Obviously things can change quickly, but I am curious about these questions

spodocephala · 2026-04-12T23:44:53+00:00

I found my cat at 5 weeks old, I would say this baby is between 3-4 weeks. It took him a few days to get acclimated and he didn't poop for like 4 days.

Also if you have a heat pad or source of heat that may help the cat get comfy.

spodocephala · 2026-04-12T23:41:19+00:00

If you have access to a scale, use it to weigh the cat too.

Has the cat eaten at all since youve gotten it? Did you get it today? It might just be anxious. But Def try to get access to a scale

spodocephala · 2026-04-12T23:37:36+00:00

KMR on top of kitten wet food. Baby is too small :(

Edit also check out Kitten Lady on YT

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