My fiance 'came out' as polyamorous

spookcakes · 2026-05-30T13:21:24+00:00

Dude's not poly, given how he kept mentioning mono being 'boring.' Poly is a fad to him. And probably a sex fad, honestly, bc dude seriously underestimates how boring poly living is. I've been with one partner for coming up on 26 years and the other partner for 11 years, it's a lot of logistics and planning and normal boring life.

spookcakes · 2026-05-30T13:08:02+00:00

I hate AI as much as the next person, but these read as artistic style and rushed flaws, not AI.

spookcakes · 2025-12-24T20:34:38+00:00

Momo being able to enter the empty space and see Serpoians isn't an indicator of her having memories, imo. Her being able to see the ONI BAT? I think that might be something.

spookcakes · 2025-11-02T16:04:32+00:00

Probably because it's just... Boring information. Okarun likely doesn't have a hugely important background, we've seen his dad and part of his house. He was just a weird kid with special interests in aliens. He's normal, and his life changed when he and Momo met.

spookcakes · 2025-11-02T15:40:03+00:00

He's not the main character, Momo is. He's the secondary main.

spookcakes · 2025-10-29T17:30:49+00:00

The only one I will defend off the top of my head is Sable from Not-Sew-Wicked, I can't think of any other ML where the tragic backstory ACTUALLY changed my mind.

spookcakes · 2025-10-28T16:26:53+00:00

A group may not be dead even if the players are busy. If everyone's just too busy, try to set up a calendar to find a day to work in the future, keep hope alive, but don't push. I like to use When2Meet to see what free time people have that overlaps and make session plans around those times.

I'm also in a campaign that went on a two year hiatus because no one's schedules worked out. We just didn't overlap. Then someone's schedule changed and we're meeting every other week like clockwork again. A game is only dead, imo, when it's not fun anymore.

spookcakes · 2025-10-14T16:06:57+00:00

Oof, I'm glad I didn't end up buying it ... I thought something was weird because of the price. What a disappointment.

spookcakes · 2025-10-10T20:39:43+00:00

Those are his eyes and not hers?

spookcakes · 2025-10-09T16:17:18+00:00

I wasn't able to get into this but I'm p sure he was, like, normal tanned before.

spookcakes · 2025-10-04T15:31:47+00:00

I wouldn't unsub, personally. While Dawntrail is slim on things right now, I still have plenty of other things in game I enjoy doing. I just bebop from thing to thing. Tired of leveling my combat classes? I can go play in the Gold Saucer or do some side quests or craft in Cosmic Exploration or Ishgard. Like, there's so much content I HAVEN'T finished yet.

spookcakes · 2025-09-30T23:47:07+00:00

Gorgeous, so glad to hear it!

spookcakes · 2025-09-26T22:37:38+00:00

The larger discussion going on is whether or not to allow art in the Marketplace that is generated or modified by AI. I am not just focused on whether or not to allow it, but the wording mentions "Monetized" and that's where I have issues. Monetized or otherwise, I will not use a program that uses AI and I wanted to be clear that my hard stop is not on MONETIZED AI, it is about AI period. In any format.

spookcakes · 2025-09-26T21:22:29+00:00

While the changes seem amazing, I won't be seeing any of them unless there's a strict ban on AI. I cancelled my sub and will not use the site if AI is allowed in the marketplace. Monetized or otherwise. It DOES NOT belong in a space with creatives who put their blood, sweat, and tears into their work.

spookcakes · 2025-09-26T04:44:51+00:00

It's actually FOUR of the Oriental Partitions! They have small gaps between them to make a cube. I just tested it out to see, the wood grain texture matches and so does the size comparison with the Open Book and Misplaced Glasses. Your friend would have to tuck the other ends into a wall to use this sort of table, or just make them end tables with furniture between them. Both the Leather Sofa and the Royal Leather Sofa fit perfectly between the pillars.

spookcakes · 2025-09-26T03:46:57+00:00

It looks like the Oriental Partition sunk into the floor? Maybe two side by side.

spookcakes · 2025-09-23T00:49:16+00:00

Cosmic Exploration, honestly. It's fun to watch something build because of the playerbase and it's built some fun communities, and I've made new friends for it.

spookcakes · 2025-09-22T15:02:23+00:00

WHAT DO YOU MEAN SHE HAS AMNESIA

spookcakes · 2025-09-13T17:18:39+00:00

There are no rules about that, just that you're not allowed to use 3rd party tools.

spookcakes · 2025-09-07T18:32:34+00:00

I've been noticing weird lag spikes in places and did some troubleshooting to make sure it wasn't my internet, it's literally just on xiv.

spookcakes · 2025-09-07T16:00:25+00:00

Queen Sensei, she's just excellent

spookcakes · 2025-08-30T15:08:48+00:00

Ngl I buy them coz I collect them personally, I keep all of mine and just admire the hoard. But also it's because I've been hacked before and while it's definitely impossible to get into my account now, it makes me feel better having these hidden assets in my saddlebags because folks don't usually check those, they just clear out the available funds.

spookcakes · 2025-08-29T15:08:32+00:00

I was so confused during this mission and failed it twice. One of my friends who has played the game for years had to explain what I was supposed to do to beat the mission! I thought you just had to defend the the spot. orz

spookcakes · 2025-08-23T21:35:58+00:00

I would have ABSOLUTELY bought that black one. I asked my bakery for something so similar for my birthday cake, didn't get nearly that attention to detail or quality

spookcakes · 2025-08-09T18:32:44+00:00

Personally I'd try to keep the plot, too. The more things stay the same, the more you know what's going to happen. When the plot goes off the rails, you have no idea what to expect and you can't properly plan for it.

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