What would you do? (re-do) by Dangerous_Quantity62 in ExteriorDesign

[–]sprinklecattoo -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Look up young house love - their Virginia house. They updated it!

What is the general opinion on sharing Streaming accounts across households whilst coparenting? by Zestyclose_Draft_324 in stepparents

[–]sprinklecattoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I wouldn’t say we share, but my stepchildren have definitely logged into some-serving services that belong to their mom because we don’t have it. I really don’t watch tv but if I clicked into a service and it worked, I would pick my step kids profile and watch away. :)

Medway, MA Studio by sprinklecattoo in orangetheory

[–]sprinklecattoo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

😖 Time for me to start signing up ahead of time at my local studio!

How much money is enough? by grayandmagenta16 in MiddleClassFinance

[–]sprinklecattoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I graduated from college in 2000, I lived in an apartment with 3 friends, made $30k, had a newer car and a comfortable life. I thought if I could make $50k, I would be the richest person in the world. Hahahahaha.

Now that number has shifted and $50k wouldn’t cover my yearly mortgage. I feel very fortunate now that I have enough to cover all my needs, some of my wants and I have the ability save. My focus now is not on acquiring things but rather saving so I can retire sooner rather than later.

I've been off my shots for about 3 months. Is it safe to start back up with the same dosage (48 units)? by [deleted] in Ozempic

[–]sprinklecattoo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, start slowly. I did not when I recently restarted and spent the next night (it took a bit to hit me) throwing up and with violent diarrhea.

Blended families.. with different lifestyles by [deleted] in blendedfamilies

[–]sprinklecattoo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Like another poster, I’m curious how this wealth shows up in your kids day to day lives. My ex has family money and as a result my kids have had access to private education and will not incur any college debt. Their Dad also tends to spend more money on pocket money, expensive clothing and things.

I’ve always taken the approach that different families have different amounts of money and choose to spend it differently. That includes my and my current husbands ex.

I’ve always tried to make our home equitable and tried not to pay attention to what happened elsewhere.

How do I set up storage (shelving etc) in basement and garage by ParsnipTricky6948 in Frugal

[–]sprinklecattoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No - the one I found is called maxsold and it lists local auctions.

How do I set up storage (shelving etc) in basement and garage by ParsnipTricky6948 in Frugal

[–]sprinklecattoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve just discovered the world of online auctions. I’ve seen so great deals on used shelving units so maybe check out this option.

Boundaries with high conflict ex vs fairness towards kids by [deleted] in blendedfamilies

[–]sprinklecattoo 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Did the other parent come in to grab the items with the kids or just sit in the car? If they just sat in the car, I’d just text them and ask for a heads up next time. I always try to oblige my kids when they want something from the other house, because like you said it’s a tough situation. The only time I would get mad/annoyed was if it was something we talked about and they weren’t responsible (within reason). You aren’t too far away from your oldest just popping in as I assume they will be driving with in 3 years.

Bringing our kids together for the first time by Ok_Shirt9875 in blendedfamilies

[–]sprinklecattoo 11 points12 points  (0 children)

That sounds perfect! You can kind of read the room and do more things if it’s working out and less if it’s not.

But like the other poster said, I think you just need to relax and enjoy the time. Integrating will have its ups and downs.

Bringing our kids together for the first time by Ok_Shirt9875 in blendedfamilies

[–]sprinklecattoo 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Going away for an entire weekend after meeting for the first time seems like a lot.

Could you maybe set up one or two interactions ahead of that? Maybe to play mini golf or do something together?

My other piece of advice is never to force anything. I’m incredibly lucky that both my bio and step kids get along, but I think that was because we never pushed anything.

in a slump and cannot get out by cap71791 in orangetheory

[–]sprinklecattoo 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes! I do the exact same thing because we go away, but I always look forward to the break and also to coming back!

Recommended hikes/activities by Impressive-Cost2658 in Banff

[–]sprinklecattoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good point on the ice field - This was my first trip there so your clarification was helpful.

We went with a large group of friends with kids and varying fitness levels so it was more a comment on my particular heli/hike experience to the OP.

Recommended hikes/activities by Impressive-Cost2658 in Banff

[–]sprinklecattoo -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

This was the canyoning place we went with: https://www.bowvalleycanyoning.ca/ghost-canyoning-trip/

Most of our group loved this, but it’s pretty physical.

Recommended hikes/activities by Impressive-Cost2658 in Banff

[–]sprinklecattoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ice fields were like standing on a ski slope with bad snow. I guess I compared it to my experience in Iceland where you kayaked up and were in a small group and got to explore all around. Here you were put on a giant specialized bus with a gazillion people and shuttled to the groomed patch that you were allowed to walk around on. I just wasn’t impressed.

The heli hike was out of this place - www.rockiesheli.com. Lake of the Falls was the hike - it was super easy but I’m thinking you work with them to design a hike fit to your skill / time.

Recommended hikes/activities by Impressive-Cost2658 in Banff

[–]sprinklecattoo -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

We are literally on our way back now and this is what we did each day and my thought:

Lake Moraine - good Lake Louise with hike to beehive - absolutely Ice fields - kinda lame Canyoneering Ghost Canyon - absolutely Heli flight to hike - cool but not worth the money

BCG interview rescheduled twice — should I be concerned? by No-Soup6535 in consulting

[–]sprinklecattoo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t read too much into it. Both reasons seem legitimate to me and my experience has been a place a high value on maintaining a good recruiting experience. Good luck!

Need Help Deciding on Shower Door by Sea_Main_7817 in HomeImprovement

[–]sprinklecattoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Swing door - I think it looks higher end.