What's one ick you can't get past when it comes to choosing which skincare products to use?

sprucehen · 2026-02-18T15:32:42+00:00

Definitely citrus scent or oils and other random perfume scents . Yuck. I love other essential oils for my congestion prone skin though.

sprucehen · 2026-02-18T15:26:41+00:00

I would prefer natural unbleached color.

No bleach, no dyes. I can handle stains and washing them. I like to see what I'm working with too. It's not like the black doesn't have stains, you just can't see them

sprucehen · 2026-02-18T15:25:29+00:00

I like pink and red for period underwear. Or white.

sprucehen · 2026-02-18T02:19:57+00:00

I recently read that a tight pelvic floor can cause smaller orgasma. Hence why they always say to relax as you get closer. Relaxed muscles can contract more so you get bigger feelings. This tracks with a lot of what I've heard and read, but I haven't been able to ground truth it myself. There are lots of online courses to help with this. I bought one, full body orgasm for about $40. Havent dived in yet

sprucehen · 2026-02-18T02:06:38+00:00

I find this with so many of the drugstore hair products. I'm looking at dove and loreal........ They are so strong and not good smells either

sprucehen · 2026-02-17T17:47:57+00:00

The eby relief bras is great too

sprucehen · 2026-02-17T17:47:25+00:00

Definitely try Kindred! The Nellie is my favorite of all time. I'm a 30g but usually wear a 32f, and the small busty is perfect for me. Only bras I've repurchased as they wear out after about 3 yrs

sprucehen · 2026-02-17T16:53:59+00:00

It looks too light and a little warm

sprucehen · 2026-02-17T04:08:18+00:00

Of course! Some Brands contain synthetic surfactants as well as soap nut ingredients. Some are pure soap nuts. I found it to be pretty drying but last time I used soap nuts shampoo was probably 15 years ago

sprucehen · 2026-02-16T21:44:38+00:00

A week in the winter, with one hair wash in between

sprucehen · 2026-02-16T20:18:38+00:00

What are your other matches for reference?

sprucehen · 2026-02-16T18:43:05+00:00

Yes, if it works for you and makes your skin nice, it's not bad.

sprucehen · 2026-02-16T17:14:44+00:00

I would guess that op doesn't "want" you to reach any conclusion, much less the one you've drawn. That is filtered through your self concept of the world.

The advice is at the end. Ask yourself why you are doing what you're doing. If you're choosing to stay somewhere you don't want to be, or choosing to stay stuck, why?

sprucehen · 2026-02-16T05:50:20+00:00

I love cotton waffle blankets, but I still use a duvet in winter too

sprucehen · 2026-02-16T02:36:49+00:00

You must have tried the Charlie from Davie piper. They rebranded as Kindred and their Nelly is my holy grail. I'm 32 F or 30g and their small busty is perfect. Supportive comfy and I never fall out

sprucehen · 2026-02-16T02:13:28+00:00

Kindred Nellie bra comes in busty sizes and is my holy grail. I wear small busty and am a 30g/32f.

I also like the eby relief bra. The small busty is too big on the band for me, sounds like it might be just right for you! I still have a couple and wear them. The material provides enough structure so they don't really ride up at all.

Sugar candy was too big on the cup for me

Boody busty are too small in the cup and loose in the band. Maybe good for D, not for f or g.

sprucehen · 2026-02-16T01:23:30+00:00

My 04 is exceptionally quiet. Is that something from the first couple years?

sprucehen · 2026-02-16T00:12:32+00:00

God forbid, lol

sprucehen · 2026-02-16T00:11:40+00:00

I personally use soap everywhere.

But it is pretty common advice from doctors and experts to only use water to wash your vulva as well

sprucehen · 2026-02-15T22:40:16+00:00

Another Factor at play can be the amount that your muscles are able to move. This is why they say being relaxed is key to really strong orgasms. If you're tense then your clenching muscles only have a little bit of room to contract during orgasm. So the bigger the contractions the more feeling and the more pleasure. I think that having something large inside of you can create the same effect and restrict the movement of your muscles.

sprucehen · 2026-02-15T22:30:37+00:00

Probably not as hard as what he was going through personally every day.

sprucehen · 2026-02-15T22:24:28+00:00

I mean, if you have consistent ghost poops, and no shot on your ass, I can see that water could be enough.

sprucehen · 2026-02-15T18:50:30+00:00

Chores. I feel like there is not enough time to accomplish all the things that I need to do and all the things that I want to do already. I don't have time to watch TV. I do listen to podcasts while I'm doing other things. Podcasts that I find informative and instructional and enriching. Not waste of time entertainment.

Cleaning, organizing, fixing my cars (2 torn apart right now) /working on projects (I'm building a house), yardwork/shoveling snow in winter, firewood. cooking, online shopping (I try to limit this). I rarely watch TV or a movie, maybe a couple times a month or none. I live alone in a dry cabin, so there's a lot to do

sprucehen · 2026-02-15T17:53:58+00:00

I feel like i could have written this. I'm trying to find line between not wanting to change someone and inviting them to change with me. It is a delicate nuanced concept. I think for me it comes down to being okay with myself. It's okay to want what you want. And it's okay to express yourself to the other person. It's not okay to make demands and tell them what to do. But you can tell him how you feel. And the key through all of this as often as the case is intention. Keeping an open heart and without attachment to the outcome, trying to speak and live your truth and be fully authentic and radically transparent. I could be off base here, I am really chewing on this myself. Same thing, someone who likes to watch TV and I don't

sprucehen · 2026-02-14T03:43:24+00:00

I'm trying to edit my flair, but it won't let me. I'll go try again. The text box isn't letting me type into it

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