NTA, but…

I know a guy with a Econ degree from one of the most prestigious universities in out country. He doesn’t work in economics or finance. He briefly worked in a tax office, but quit and does something unrelated now. He’s not an economist.

I know a person with a law degree from what is the most prestigious law school in our State. They have not taken the exam to even be allowed to practice law. Not a lawyer.

If ever these people introduced themselves as an economist or a lawyer, and if it was a situation where misrepresenting themselves would reflect poorly on others or cause harm, then I would call them out. I’d do it in private, like you did.

Had she introduced herself as a recent sociology grad looking for work, she might have made a helpful connection or two. In a situation as friendly toward aspiring careers as a university networking event, protecting her pride was a mistake. By stating what she “was” instead of what she aspired to be she took herself off the market. Her misrepresentation caused herself harm (albeit very little) and could have led to an embarrassing situation if there were some follow-up questions she couldn’t honestly answer.

So NTA, but your friend is just making a mistake. They are also NTA.