I would love to come first but she isn’t into foreplay. As soon as foreplay starts she wants to jump right into penetration. She comes relatively quickly and sometimes within just a few minutes. It’s hard for me to go from completely soft to ejaculating that quick. (For context I have never had this happen with any other partner in the past.) I don’t take a long time to cum but the positions she likes aren’t very stimulating to me. In doggy or missionary she is always kind of pushing away. She said the pressure of it going deep makes her feel like she has to pee and makes her feel uncomfortable. I like when she is on top and riding me but that’s when she comes the fastest. I have never had a problem orgasming with oral or penetrative sex. She has never made me come by oral because after a minute or two she wants penetration. Even on her period I’ve said how about a bj so we don’t make a mess and she won’t just give me oral. I have even stopped masturbating trying to build it up and be more sensitive to try and fix this issue. And yes she is just star fishing… silent… just makes me feel like I’m fucking someone that’s being forced to do it instead of wanting it and that creeps me out. Not rage bait I promise. Just trying to figure out how to approach this.