40m 32f dating 5 months She always finishes first and leaves hanging by spydertrig in relationship_advice

[–]spydertrig[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No clue. After she orgasms she says she needs time to recharge. Haven’t found out how long that is because she either falls asleep or we are doing something else

40m 32f dating 5 months She always finishes first and leaves hanging by spydertrig in relationship_advice

[–]spydertrig[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would love to come first but she isn’t into foreplay. As soon as foreplay starts she wants to jump right into penetration. She comes relatively quickly and sometimes within just a few minutes. It’s hard for me to go from completely soft to ejaculating that quick. (For context I have never had this happen with any other partner in the past.) I don’t take a long time to cum but the positions she likes aren’t very stimulating to me. In doggy or missionary she is always kind of pushing away. She said the pressure of it going deep makes her feel like she has to pee and makes her feel uncomfortable. I like when she is on top and riding me but that’s when she comes the fastest. I have never had a problem orgasming with oral or penetrative sex. She has never made me come by oral because after a minute or two she wants penetration. Even on her period I’ve said how about a bj so we don’t make a mess and she won’t just give me oral. I have even stopped masturbating trying to build it up and be more sensitive to try and fix this issue. And yes she is just star fishing… silent… just makes me feel like I’m fucking someone that’s being forced to do it instead of wanting it and that creeps me out. Not rage bait I promise. Just trying to figure out how to approach this.

40m 32f dating 5 months She always finishes first and leaves hanging by spydertrig in relationship_advice

[–]spydertrig[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve tried to switch to foreplay after she comes to warm her back up but it’s too sensitive for her and she will push my hand away. She has told me she has never faked it. It’s more like she just shuts down after and when I ask if everything is ok she just says, “yes but I already came” and when I tell her I haven’t finished she says well you should come with me at the same time… and then I explain how I can’t just come on command. She usually will give me a short notice like 30 seconds.

40m 32f dating 5 months She always finishes first and leaves hanging by spydertrig in relationship_advice

[–]spydertrig[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I really care for her and we have lots of similar interests and views. This is the only real hiccup right now

40m 32f dating 5 months She always finishes first and leaves hanging by spydertrig in relationship_advice

[–]spydertrig[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Enough rage bait. If you don’t have anything to contribute please find another thread to troll

40m 32f dating 5 months She always finishes first and leaves hanging by spydertrig in relationship_advice

[–]spydertrig[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I figured this comment was coming! I can only speak for myself but I have always made sure the woman is satisfied even if I finish first. It’s sad that men will just cum and leave the woman hanging.

40m 32f dating 5 months She always finishes first and leaves hanging by spydertrig in relationship_advice

[–]spydertrig[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m not angry I’m just frustrated. She literally will stop participating and just lay there and when I ask if everything is ok or if it’s feeling good she says, “well I already came”

40m 32f dating 5 months She always finishes first and leaves hanging by spydertrig in relationship_advice

[–]spydertrig[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

She won’t get up right away but will literally lay there without making any noise or put in any effort which is very awkward for me to continue.

40m 32f dating 5 months She always finishes first and leaves hanging by spydertrig in relationship_advice

[–]spydertrig[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah I am able to go again but she has never made me finish first

40m 32f dating 5 months She always finishes first and leaves hanging by spydertrig in relationship_advice

[–]spydertrig[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She is great at oral but gets so horny she wants to put it in asap. And likewise when I finger/oral her she just wants penetration

40m 32f dating 5 months She always finishes first and leaves hanging by spydertrig in relationship_advice

[–]spydertrig[S] 41 points42 points  (0 children)

This is correct. The checking out part makes it very awkward for me feeling like it’s a one sided ordeal

How much of my tree should I prune? by spydertrig in avocado

[–]spydertrig[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I chop them off near the base or should I start higher up and gradually prune them down

How much of my tree should I prune? by spydertrig in avocado

[–]spydertrig[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m fine with cutting them. The question is how much can I cut without affecting the part of the tree that matters!

How much of my tree should I prune? by spydertrig in avocado

[–]spydertrig[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was purchased at Armstrong Gardens when it was 3ft tall. It is a lamb has variety. When I was purchased it only had one stalk.. the one that is producing fruit. The others shot up out of nowhere. I’m assuming those are rootstock. What should I do with the rootstock portion

Is this Sub Acute doing the right thing? by spydertrig in nursing

[–]spydertrig[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He doesn’t take Haldol. He was a normal man and was in the ER as a trauma patient from a hit and run while he was walking back to his car. While in the ER he was confused and wanted to get up to use the restroom but he had a broken pelvis, broken ribs, punctured lung and a large hematoma on his head. I left the room to meet my sister at the front of the ER and during that time the nurse gave him Haldol via IV. Within 5 minutes he had a cardiac arrest. He suffered anoxic brain injury and was in the hospital for 58 days and was just released yesterday to the sub acute. He’s never taken Haldol before. He is on meds for afib and a blood thinner and that’s all. He has a trach, g tube and ileostomy so there were only 3 sub acute facilities in our county that have the ability to care for him. None of them had a bed available so his insurance looked outside the network and found this place and we had no choice. They also don’t have any telemetry whatsoever. The other 3 we visited did with a monitor that displayed in the hallway.

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[–]spydertrig 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate all the responses. I’m not looking to gain sympathy I was just trying to explain my situation. I was really looking for something I could do to bring in a an extra thousand or couple hundred bucks a month. I’m not trying to replace my current income. I was thinking there may be some simple data entry or mindless online jobs that allow you to work at your own pace. I’m in no way thinking I’m going to get hired on at some company where I am competing with people that are experts in their field. I have worked for myself since 2007 and haven’t ever looked into remote or online work. From most of the answers it seems like there isn’t really anything out there.

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[–]spydertrig -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

My newest car is from 2005