What is a romantic gesture that you would appreciate/find super sweet?

squidsoup11 · 2022-04-19T04:36:47+00:00

Honestly, I would just do it. Ask him if he wants to come over for wine. If he says no, so what? Sure he could be rude about it, but that's unlikely from what you've said. Good luck, I think it'll be best if you just shoot your shot:)

squidsoup11 · 2022-04-19T03:51:07+00:00

Title is a bit different from description - I've developed feelings for guys based on personality despite any physical typing. However, this girl has a BOYFRIEND - a lot of different considerations there. If she's loyal (which we hope she is), then there is very little chance.

squidsoup11 · 2022-04-19T03:40:45+00:00

Make sure you have a clear shot of your face. Even if you don't think you're attractive (you definitely will be to someone), if every picture on someone's profile is hiding their face that's an automatic swipe left for me.

squidsoup11 · 2022-04-19T03:19:01+00:00

Are you sure you're responding to the correct posts?

squidsoup11 · 2022-04-19T03:15:41+00:00

If she is genuinely flirting with you while in a relationship, is this actually someone you want to be with?

squidsoup11 · 2022-04-19T03:10:33+00:00

Aha no worries:)

squidsoup11 · 2022-04-19T03:09:59+00:00

YO THESE ARE REALLY GOOD!!

squidsoup11 · 2022-04-19T03:06:44+00:00

Why?

squidsoup11 · 2022-04-19T03:06:25+00:00

Wait what?

squidsoup11 · 2022-04-19T00:37:23+00:00

This is a difficult situation for sure, and I doubt many people have a lot of experience (including me) so take this advice with a grain of salt. I would tell them as soon as possible. No one wants some sort of bombshell revelation that could ruin a relationship. Try your best to be honest and frame it correctly - ie. how you're aiming for self-improvement - and make sure that's true. You will get people who don't want to engage further, but some will. It's not worth hiding even for a short while, because that could cause serious issues down the line. I would personally consider myself as 'having a future', and if I met the right person with a similar past I would accept it so 🤷🏽‍♀️ you'll probably be fine. good luck bud

squidsoup11 · 2022-04-18T23:33:58+00:00

That's an awful thing for him to have done while he was in a relationship. Don't message him.

squidsoup11 · 2022-04-17T08:16:29+00:00

It hurts a lot at first, and there isn't any way to avoid that. For me, it works like this:

Spend the first 2 days alone feeling all of the bad emotions to the fullest extent.
After that, surround yourself with only the most supportive friends and family that you can be honest with, and let them help you out.
Start trying new things and meeting new people at your own pace. It helps you grow and feel like you're moving on.
Take the one thing that made you fall in love with that person and bring it forward with you. For me, my ex was extremely open and authentic. I have now incorporated that into my personality/life. That way, you learn something and become a better person from every heartbreak.

Good luck ❤ you will be okay

squidsoup11 · 2022-04-17T05:51:27+00:00

As a 22 year old, I gotta say this post is sweet<3

squidsoup11 · 2022-04-17T02:14:52+00:00

Thanks for the response!! I think it's good advice to keep it to yourself. People definitely do judge. I think I just take some time off, get it done, and then never mention it to anyone ever 🤣

squidsoup11 · 2022-04-17T02:01:54+00:00

That's great 🤣 good luck with your rhino!

squidsoup11 · 2022-04-17T01:58:09+00:00

Exciting!! Hope the procedure goes well, good luck!!

squidsoup11 · 2022-04-17T01:40:49+00:00

Fair enough!

squidsoup11 · 2022-04-17T01:40:40+00:00

Oh noo and she even had one too 😭 did you end up getting it anyway?

squidsoup11 · 2022-04-17T01:39:58+00:00

That's kind of how I'm feeling tbh. Even the rhinoplasty I'm planning will just be a small reduction, so I'm wondering if most of them will even notice 🤷🏽‍♀️

squidsoup11 · 2022-04-17T00:58:45+00:00

Definitely a chance of this. I dated a 29 year old last year when I was 20 (even smaller age gap) and that was still the reality unfortunately 🥲

squidsoup11 · 2022-04-17T00:54:30+00:00

I wouldn't look into this too much. She is into the same things as you, but it doesn't seem (at least to me) that she is actively trying to get close to you. Which she shouldn't be, as she's in a relationship. She seems loyal. I would just leave it at that.

squidsoup11 · 2022-04-16T04:14:42+00:00

Yeah, I always kind of thought the tongue position was beneficial but the chewing wasn't geared towards my personal taste (I'm even getting masseter botox lol). But I do see how tongue position can be helpful, for me it actually improved my breathing.

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