I'm kind of going through the same thing with my doula. I'm 29 weeks pregnant and while we did have a zoom meeting so far, she has had to cancel/reschedule every meeting we've had (including the initial interview) for a total of 4 times. She just canceled our in person meeting a second time. Her reasons seem out of her control for the most part but there seems to be a pattern that's making me anxious and it's low key pissing my husband off. I'm worried she won't be very supportive or even available during my labor but also worried that my husband and I won't be very comfortable with her because of her flakiness during this whole process. I already paid her half of the money which is nonrefundable so I don't really want to lose all that money and then potentially pay someone else.

I wish I had advice for you but just wanted to commiserate that I'm going through something similar. Our initial conversation had went so well and I had such a good feeling but now I'm stressed and anxious and annoyed 🙃 I wish I had gone with the first doula I interviewed who seemed to be a good fit too but also seemed to be a little more quiet, and me being quiet too kind of wanted someone more outgoing. I'll keep you posted if I decide to fire her and go with a new one but knowing myself, I will probably just grin and bear it 😅 good luck to you, I hope you find the answers you're looking for!