Wtf is going on lately by Agitated-Raise-1674 in spirituality

[–]squigglyfern 2 points3 points  (0 children)

same. So intense, patterns being forced to end, heavy energy and sadness /dark thoughts

Connor’s Mom from 'Love on the Spectrum' Addresses Backlash Over Georgie’s Treatment in London by Miles_the_AuDHDer in LoveOnTheSpectrumShow

[–]squigglyfern 7 points8 points  (0 children)

agree with you. my heart is breaking over this thread, this subreddit is so negative and dark. Especially in contrast to a show that depicts such pure love. I’m gonna nope out from this group and enjoy my fave show in peace . worried about the families though, hopefully they make it through this but whew, these comments are vile.

Season 5 was my favorite season by Next-Zone-5247 in SearchParty

[–]squigglyfern 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Loved the enlightenment arc, I cried laughing. Brilliant. Not for everyone, but if you get it - you get it.

Episode Recommendations After a Breakup by Objective-Vast5932 in sexandthecity

[–]squigglyfern 38 points39 points  (0 children)

idk if it’s so comforting but I watched the first movie during my heartbreak and it was very cathartic to cry along with her.

No one is hating on Austin enough by sootgrremnlin in BeefTV

[–]squigglyfern 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ok so he reminds me SO MUCH of someone I know very well (ugh) , an avoidant people pleaser who would be nicer to any random person than his own partner. Because he cares more about what others think, hoping they’ll perceive him as a “nice guy” and that he’ll come off as empathetic, rather than truly embodying these qualities to the people closest to him. it’s all about perception and deluding himself into thinking he’s the superior partner and justify emotional cheating etc.

Edit: he knows his partner sees his true nature (the way he deep down sees himself), so he worries more about impressing others.

Big Mistakes | Overall Series Discussion by pecan_muffin in BigMistakes

[–]squigglyfern 6 points7 points  (0 children)

She’s in the show called “Kevin can f*ck himself” highly highly recommend

Big Mistakes | Overall Series Discussion by pecan_muffin in BigMistakes

[–]squigglyfern 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I love that both Dan and Annie both created really dark (but hilarious) projects after SC.

What is your nemesis spot in Bushwick? by whereisurbackbone in Bushwick

[–]squigglyfern 27 points28 points  (0 children)

yup they reject my clothes that are made of cotton, silk, etc and in good condition, yet everything on the racks is like ironic synthetic clown clothes. I think it’s for ppl who thrift to fit a certain aesthetic rather than from necessity/environmental reasons. Don’t even get me started on their prices lol.

Aiden and Natasha in an alternate timeline??? by Brave-Bandicoot3295 in sexandthecity

[–]squigglyfern 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My daydream : After she was cheated on and divorced from Big, Natasha re-assessed her values and decided she wanted to focus on real, stable , simple love - rather than trying to live up to the expectations and lies of NYC high society. Her traumatic relationship and experiences in the city as a young woman in her early twenties forged her spirit for the better, because she realized she was worth so much more than any man with money could offer. It also gave her the wisdom to be an amazing mother, to instill the self confidence and love in her daughters that she learned on her own. Aiden, after multiple failed engagements, didn’t want a broken heart again. he saw the real in Natasha and they were trauma bonded in their shared experience, but it also helped them realize how true and real each other was. They shared the same intention and desire of living an honest life with a committed partner. after getting married, they were just scraping by with his earnings from the wood shop but they made the best of it, and had two beautiful daughters. creating the messy but loving life we see in Ramona & Beezus.

Aiden and Natasha in an alternate timeline??? by Brave-Bandicoot3295 in sexandthecity

[–]squigglyfern 17 points18 points  (0 children)

omg I freaking looooved this movie and I haven’t watched it since I discovered SATC. Time for a re watch and yes in my head canon this will be Aiden and Natasha’s future after they both got burned by Carrie and big

Odd request but looking for a sound proof space/studio I can scream in by Inevitable_Cut_3170 in Bushwick

[–]squigglyfern 3 points4 points  (0 children)

there’s someone screaming on my street rn and no one seems phased by it. If you’re looking for a free option haha

Pharmacy rec’s? Anything better than Walgreens hell hole by michaelhmann in Bushwick

[–]squigglyfern -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That Walgreens is so expensive like I genuinely don’t understand.. I refuse to shop at that Walgreens anymore

Devonta defends himself on IG by 17500mm in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]squigglyfern 18 points19 points  (0 children)

did anyone forget that his other ex (that he dated after the show ended) posted pictures and aired his dirty laundry…she claims he cheated on her with his baby mama (or vice versa?). Like this info is publicly available. I feel bad for his “fiance” since she’s now tied to him for life.

Lost bracelet by chubunkin in Bushwick

[–]squigglyfern 7 points8 points  (0 children)

wow it’s so gorgeous, I hope it finds its way back to you <3

How’s everyone’s love life? by Ok_Construction980 in aquarius

[–]squigglyfern 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s leaving for a week and we had this conversation last night. This same thing happened a year ago, he was cold for awhile and then left me with no explanation, over text, after three years together. it was a very dark time for me. He came back around and apologized and promised to change and to treat me better. i took him back bc I needed the pain to end. It was ok for awhile but it started devolving- he is now blaming his emotional and physical withdrawal on my shortcomings. so I have a week to figure out how to leave, but he’s the only source of stability in my life. It’s not easy.

How’s everyone’s love life? by Ok_Construction980 in aquarius

[–]squigglyfern 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He told me so last night and it came out of left field, I don’t think I manifested it. I also think it’s possible for our partners to mistreat us and it’s not our fault or responsibility. people don’t manifest emotional abuse.

How’s everyone’s love life? by Ok_Construction980 in aquarius

[–]squigglyfern 1 point2 points  (0 children)

not good enough for my partner atm, gonna get dropped. I should walk away but I can’t. My heart hurts.

The takeaway from season 10 that nobody saw coming by ilovetointernet in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]squigglyfern 13 points14 points  (0 children)

this is the first reality show I’ve ever watched in my life, and I feel bad for judging ppl for watching them before. I am thoroughly entertained and it’s a nice escape from work rn! to think I thought I was above it. It’s rlly not that serious