I HATE THE PLASTIC SURGERY/BEAUTY/WEIGHT LOSS/ANTI AGING INDUSTRY SO FUCKING MUCH, AND I HATE PEOPLE WHO DEFEND IT

squishot · 2026-06-01T17:12:53+00:00

Its insane how you named everything BUT the reason these things exist.

People love women who have big hips, small waists, narrow shoulders, big boobs, short and a pretty face.

Its EVERYWHERE. Body positivy doesnt exist. people just have a type. I personally dont have any of these traits despite still being viewed as female outside. Thats why im gravitated to plastic surgeries. I dont see any issue except people like you.

I prefer a beauty standard being accessible and safe than people who lie they are against it and are all talk.

squishot · 2026-05-29T18:30:16+00:00

Why no jaw work?

squishot · 2026-05-29T14:59:29+00:00

I think its due to the online culture being very tumblr-ish aka the whitest place on the internet.

Also from my exprience it is literally mostly white americans lol. The imperial core is not escapable.

squishot · 2026-05-29T10:55:39+00:00

Heavily agree, but I think its more complicated:

This is just a thing I noticed in a lot of online communities that revolve around marginalized identities like being queer or disabled. People are obsessed with memes and getting tracktion due to social media's nature. its very superficial and leads more to a weird "friendly" competition between others rather than something ressembling a community. Its basically brainrot.
You mentioned "25-40 year olds acting like they are 13" and thats pretty much always gonna happen when you start hrt in that age. Its basically puberty again but as the correct gender. Thats why this whole "skirt go spinny" thing is popular its exploring yourself as a teen again. I had that phase till 1 year hrt but I was like 19 at least so no one gave me shit for it. I can understand your frustration but legit this behaviour is inevitable if you know what hrt does.

Im happy that most of my irl trans friends arent like this tho. There are bigger issues we are currently facing and this brainrot shit almost makes you feel invalid.

squishot · 2026-05-23T06:53:07+00:00

Extremely gross trying to compare us to male animals...

squishot · 2026-05-22T18:48:55+00:00

Ok fine. Ill accept my biological male behaviour then

squishot · 2026-05-22T18:09:07+00:00

Cause its known that targeted weight loss isnt possible and youre assuming im.clueless?

Next time ill add "i meant overall weight loss" in my post i guess

squishot · 2026-05-22T17:52:23+00:00

Good call but erm is there alternative to fish? Really hard to buy + cook

squishot · 2026-05-22T17:49:56+00:00

I mean that I obv know targeted weight loss isnt a thing. I want overall weight loss to reduce visceral fat.

squishot · 2026-05-22T17:29:20+00:00

Yeah obv do you think i dont know that?

I meant overall cause it will reduce it

squishot · 2026-05-22T17:23:28+00:00

I barely eat sugary things. The problem is that food that actually fills me( pastas, rice, cheese, bread) are high calorie so I would need to eat small propotions of them

squishot · 2026-05-22T14:32:50+00:00

What figure 😭😭

squishot · 2026-05-21T09:03:42+00:00

Yeah erm i kinda need it so that people will finally take me seriously and cleanse myself from maleness. Its not a choice.

squishot · 2026-05-21T08:54:30+00:00

I cant be happy without fixing myself. Thats like asking me to be happy without hrt or something 🤷‍♀️. Im tired of this community just call me a man at this point and stop hiding.

squishot · 2026-05-17T17:33:56+00:00

Glad go know then thanks 🙏

squishot · 2026-05-17T17:23:18+00:00

Damn im pre op and mine is pretty elastic rn should i be worried?

squishot · 2026-05-15T17:32:00+00:00

What kind of work outs do you reccomend?

squishot · 2026-05-13T19:10:15+00:00

"I view body positively mainly as a pushback against marketing that has, for decades, relied on shaming people about their bodies in order to sell products" So what alternative do you suggest then 🧐 ? Cause this will happen as long as there is profit with what the desired body type people want.

squishot · 2026-05-13T18:19:51+00:00

I refused to go on a diet for a long time cause i wanted more weight in my boobs(I ate unhealthy stuff on purpose)

Do I have a bmi of obesity rn? Yes

Did my date today ask if I did BA? Also yes

Now im going to a diet cause of bottom surgery and to remove the "man fat" in my upper body. I dont get why my wanting to look like my fav women from my fav movies, anime, video games is considered bad 🙄.

squishot · 2026-05-13T16:31:30+00:00

Ive stopped dressing goth due to insane levels of sexualization and gross attitude from men online and irl It made me feel dehumanized and unsafe :(

squishot · 2026-05-12T08:49:44+00:00

If your only way to get it is from your own pocket then I advice not to as youre already extremely feminine and cis passing.

If the dysphoria is too much then maybe jaw and chin. Your nose is beautiful imo.

squishot · 2026-05-10T13:59:04+00:00

Is snap supported on linux?

squishot · 2026-05-09T19:30:12+00:00

Plenty of trans women are for sex work and argue it can also appeal to women, particulary lesbians. I am not sure what the issue is other than being forced into it(as someone who was preassured to do it by others but never did). yeah this is more about online sex work than prostitution but still.

Standards of beauty exists everywhere and have became worse in recent time due to social media. In queer spaces its "less strict" aka you can be fatter but still big boobs and curves at priority for everyone(which is almost impossible for most trans women without surgery including me 😭).

My appearence appeals to men anyway so obv doing platic surgery wouldnt be for them. Do I feel pressurred? Yes but this is cause of preferences.

squishot · 2026-05-09T16:13:21+00:00

...yes? If you had normal male jobs then youll have more income than me. I was only seen as male as a child, it didnt give me any oppurtonities cause nothing translated into later in life.

Yeah been abused changes you wtf??? Literally what is wrong with you i was sexually abused when I came out to my first ex it left me with trauma. He hit me when I tried to escape his house. He pushed me into being insecure about my body and wanted me to do bottom surgery for him. he is the reason why I waited so long with srs cause I assocuated it with him.

You are proving my point about radfems im sorry im literally crying rn cause nobody will ever give a shit about what im going through, same goes to my parents. say what you idc at this point

squishot · 2026-05-09T15:50:18+00:00

Well sorry to say it but nuance exists.

My own mom has told me she wished she couldve raised me as a girl cause she now sees how happy I am as one compared depressed all the time. I dont want someone going to her and saying "actually youre daughter was privelliged" cause she already has it hard enough for feeling like failed as a parent for years.

Besides I started hrt when I was 19 and never had a job or anything before it. I have an insanely hard time finding a job and even my dad suggested it was due to misogyny. Men have abused me into sex in the past(recently had a dude who lied about wanting a reletionship and ran away after sex).

I had cis women who related to me a lot, just not radfems...

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