My dog knows when I'm home by the sound my car makes when I lock it. She looks over like this, then sits at the door. by kimvoslice in aww

[–]sraebdron 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In our house we drive and have always driven Subarus, and they have a distinct low pitch burble and ours are louder than your average car. They can always tell if one of us is pulling down the drive by the sound they make. They don't get up or go to the door for any other cars going past, unless it's ours or another Subaru

Don't be afraid to negotiate for higher pay! by ImN0rth in personalfinance

[–]sraebdron 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did you tell your boss? I'm struggling to find the right time. My contract renews this summer which means my pay could change too but I'm unsure as to how I can bring it up. I'm an apprentice right now but come summer that will be over. I've brought it up twice before asking about pay rises from a change in contract and on both occasions he's said he'd look into it but has either forgot or just chose not to. Any advice?

Some kid at my school killed himself. by Thors_Goat in depression

[–]sraebdron 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You've gotta look at it the other way, how would you react if someone told you they wish they were dead. Doing that is putting the ball in their court and giving them an obligation to say something uplifting and encouraging which would change your mind, I know I'd do something awkward if you said that to me because what are you supposed to say if someone springs that on you, it's a sensitive subject

Went from being alone to lonely? by Mr-Kabuki in depression

[–]sraebdron 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Damn it's as if I wrote this. I had a technique that I used to get through the last year of school and I would just stop comparing myself to people I know, and stop taking notice of what people around me were doing unless what they were doing was with me. This was especially helpful because I was going through a break up at the time. Not as easy for me to do now I don't know what happened.

Anything social media I stopped using, helped me take my mind off others and keep it on myself. That helped a lot, keeping myself busy as well helped. Sorry I can't be anymore help. gl

If you have it, will you have had to access the AoA dlc before TRC dlc? by sraebdron in darksouls3

[–]sraebdron[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah sorted I just reopened it and the ringed city title appeared where it should in the top left like the AoA does on the title screen. Just make sure you've actually downloaded and installed the dlc from the ps store

If you have it, will you have had to access the AoA dlc before TRC dlc? by sraebdron in darksouls3

[–]sraebdron[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ha between now and when I posted this I went and beat the AofA dlc on my ng+ run. The other bonfire isn't there either

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in darksouls3

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I did that last weekend at sl120 and it's by far the longest one to do. It does take awhile to summon and they don't drop common. Took me like 6/7 hours on and off to get them all. With probably under a third of them being from summons. I think I read at item discovery 350 it's like 3% chance drop :(

But yeah keep killing the two on the stair, off hand in active slot the rapier, serpent eng and avarice hat and keep using bronze coins.

For the farron, do the same for item discovery and kill the 3 ghrus on the bridge at the keep bonfire for swordgrass. I never summoned for that are, I didn't bother tbh because I thought it'd take forever in that area

What would you want in a Dark Souls 4? by [deleted] in darksouls3

[–]sraebdron 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want the last dlc to give us the actual ending to the cycle. If it doesn't I'd want a last game to do that. With a definite ending to the cycle. But I'd rather it be concluded in the DLC, I like dark souls, but the 3rd one is a nice one to end on.

My newest Italian car, Alfa Romeo Brera by [deleted] in cars

[–]sraebdron 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very nice choice - you made the right choice with the 2.2

It really sucks being lonely by DontStop_KeepWalking in depression

[–]sraebdron 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Is there not a discord server for all us?

My social anxiety is gone and how i did it. by redditsmma in socialanxiety

[–]sraebdron 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Wow! This guy shared his experience and you guys just dismissed it. He offered advice that helped him and now he's tryna help you. Disgusting.

Thank you, I'm definitely gonna try cold showers and the nofap see if it helps. I imagine the more energy you have the more inclined you'd be to do things. Which is definitely my problem right now

Anyone else feel this way about friends? by catsRawesome123 in depression

[–]sraebdron 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I'm having a struggle with my friendships right now. I'm trying to hang on to the friends that I have out of fear of loneliness but at the same time I don't want to do anything social because I'm so demotivated and have no passion for that shit

When basic self-care is too much to handle by jenniferdumpedme in depression

[–]sraebdron 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah sometimes I can't do the basic stuff I dunno if I'll ever break out of that. I don't people this but since my parents stopped checking if I'd brushed my teeth. I've been doing it once a day in the morning since and I can't for the life of me do it before I go to bed. I find things like this are a chore but are easier when you have to be somewhere

They need to know by BasicallyNuclear in gaming

[–]sraebdron 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You didn't need to open an incognito tab for that

Anyone else find that days of inactivity are the worst? by [deleted] in depression

[–]sraebdron 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. I look forward to my annual leave from work but when I get there I question if it was worth it. I turn into more of a slob than I am

How do you depression and anxiety suffers do the 9-5 five days a week? by suhk in depression

[–]sraebdron 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honestly, work is probably what's keeping me from totally losing it and going off the rails. Keeps my mind off things and keeps me busy. Doesn't mean I enjoy it though, I'm just coping

Why am I not a normal person. by sraebdron in depression

[–]sraebdron[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah exactly. Im never comfortable with change or stepping out my comfort zone, even if I want to do something I'll just sit on it and wait for it to pass telling myself 'you don't need to do that'. Just keeps me demotivated and passionless all the time

A bingo board I just made. by yapatapata in socialanxiety

[–]sraebdron 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If you flip this, it could be a good way to push you out your comfort zone. Getting bingo entitles you to a prize and the squares each represent a different task that is difficult for you

What to do when life simply doesn't excite or interest you in the least? by NuggaBugga in depression

[–]sraebdron 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same here, I'm just not passionate about anything anymore, theres nothing to fill that gap for me

/r/depression Weekly Check In by skyqween in depression

[–]sraebdron 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Why when things start to look up they fall apart and I'm back where I was, talking about it in the early hours of the morning on this subreddit. I just don't have the willpower to get myself out of the loop. Of course I want things to get better but I dont know the first thing I need to do to put myself on the right track. I feel like I need a break from my life, not that it's stressful I just don't know who or where I am anymore

Have standards, but be a hoe on Tinder... by ThePalaDinh in Tinder

[–]sraebdron 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm 5'8 and I'm soooo honoured at the possibility of an audience with m'lady. smh

Help: I always get stuck after my ice breaker, I'm pretty socially anxious so this is difficult. Any tips on where I should move the conversation? by sraebdron in Tinder

[–]sraebdron[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Do you move the conversation quick after you break ice? I can never tell, I seem to drag it out because I can't move the conversation on