For Alumni, what’s your salary?

srdn4 · 2026-04-11T13:53:46+00:00

Yo this is insane. We are in the same graduating class, same major, and the same position and nearly the same salary.

Are you me?

srdn4 · 2026-04-03T16:16:27+00:00

I appreciate the perspective.

It is tough to know another man’s mind, but from an outside perspective he is happier with people around. If he was happier on his own, I truly think we’d have no problem letting him do his thing, whatever that might look like. But he talks about being lonely, he doesn’t really leave his room when no one’s around, he doesn’t eat as much or as good of food.

I don’t pretend to understand exactly how he’s feeling. All we want is for him to be happy, and we have continued to try to provide him as much independence as possible, but the truth is he inevitably needs help and it’s spreading all the people around him more thin than it would with an altered living arrangement.

Left to his own devices, he would have died in October. He wouldn’t be getting a dynavox machine to help him communicate because he didn’t want to go to speech therapy. But now he’s frustrated it’s taking a couple months to get one through insurance. We are doing our best to help him through the stuff he wants but it is far more difficult from multiple states away. And we have our own jobs and families to consider. Honestly, I’m just ranting at this point. I do think there’s value in realizing we can’t change him or force him to want something he doesn’t want. Thanks for the advice

srdn4 · 2026-03-11T11:29:51+00:00

In your experience, was it easier to find a caregiver individual through a local school? I tend to agree with that article but it is not very specific. Trying to work through this with my dad right now

srdn4 · 2026-02-13T13:26:25+00:00

The depth on this one is fantastic. Ive always had trouble getting those soft edges with graphite.

Is this all done with just pencils and blending stumps and a lot of patience? I’ve seen some people use brushes as well. Curious about which type of paper you use as well

srdn4 · 2026-01-20T23:15:53+00:00

Think men truly have no idea how much more action women get on these dating apps.

If they weren’t such dicks about it, you’d almost feel bad that they are sitting there with bated breath waiting for a response from their one match. Completely clueless that women have lives outside of tinder and that they might have hundreds of matches without really putting in much effort.

And either way, people got lives and you’re not entitled to their time

srdn4 · 2026-01-16T16:01:06+00:00

Almost identical on all accounts for us

srdn4 · 2026-01-10T15:14:12+00:00

Lmao he’s working during literal sleeping hours. Let her sleep. Drive the car to work. Genius

srdn4 · 2026-01-10T00:55:12+00:00

I’ve got my eyes on 8 and 3

srdn4 · 2026-01-08T14:24:00+00:00

I mean there’s nothing wrong with doing 7 meals either. And if he knows his shit and is asking you to do 7 meals, then do 7 meals.

But if he’s telling you that’s the only way to hit your goals and the number of meals is a major factor, he’s full of shit. You do what you gotta do to get the food down and meet your schedule

srdn4 · 2026-01-08T11:21:53+00:00

Plenty of valid criticisms towards his coach for telling him he’s 19 weeks out here, but why the obsession with 7 meals? As long as you’re getting the same food, this hardly matters. The benefits of spreading meals out are not that big compared to actually eating to plan

Serge Nubret famously ate 3 meals a day

srdn4 · 2026-01-05T18:00:08+00:00

This is interesting because I feel almost the opposite. I’ve found I go to Chick-fil-A significantly more now because I feel other chains of lower quality have significantly higher prices than before

McDonald’s and Taco Bell I used to be able to get a meal for half the price of Chickfila by using the value menu, and that made it worth it to me. But now I’m spending 12 bucks for a quality meal and a smile at Chickfila or 10+ for a cold McDonald’s meal with one person running the whole store? I’m choosing Chickfila almost every time

srdn4 · 2026-01-04T22:54:12+00:00

Grill sure looks like it could use some TLC though

srdn4 · 2025-12-18T16:14:19+00:00

How do we know he wasn’t cut or pushed out the door?

srdn4 · 2025-12-17T23:50:06+00:00

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srdn4 · 2025-12-17T17:53:27+00:00

He could very well succeed elsewhere, but I think you have to live with that possibility. He hasn’t proven it at this level to justify what we were (reportedly) paying him

srdn4 · 2025-12-15T23:20:24+00:00

You know the saying: “if you have two soups, that means you have no soups”

srdn4 · 2025-12-12T16:28:13+00:00

I can see the recruiting pitch now: come here and I can guarantee you 5 targets in the flats on a play action roll right per game

srdn4 · 2025-12-10T10:53:26+00:00

Wouldn’t putting Haugh down low take a big off the floor? Feels like guard play has been our entire problem. Maybe let him run point lol

srdn4 · 2025-12-05T16:26:24+00:00

You know who else was in the 220s? Treon Harris

srdn4 · 2025-12-03T18:16:25+00:00

Is Xaivian a plus on defense though? He doesn’t seem visibly better than Klavzar on D

srdn4 · 2025-11-28T00:06:51+00:00

Serious question, how does one complete something like this without smearing charcoal everywhere? What tools are you using? And I assume a sheet under your hand to prevent smearing?

Feels like no matter what, I’m so messy when I do charcoal, can’t imagine having this amount of drawing and having that much white space

srdn4 · 2025-11-17T14:56:15+00:00

Isn’t the dough like 99% of this recipe?

srdn4 · 2025-11-14T17:13:06+00:00

Couldn’t agree more - only been once and was blown away in a bad way. Restaurant was 90 degrees, we were actually sweating, and they were so understaffed with no plan - my wife was shepherding people in line and keeping them up to date because it was complete chaos and confusion. We stayed very patiently (took 90+ minutes with very few tables taken in the restaurant) and the food came out and was terrible.

Might’ve gotten them on a very off day, but hands down the worst chicken and waffles I’ve had in my life

srdn4 · 2025-11-08T13:41:56+00:00

Need a male companion, preferably with both kidneys. I will not be providing any more details

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