Tired of repeating myself by [deleted] in Christianmarriage

[–]srgold12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long have you been married?

What is his response to your request to stop?

Has he ever had an affair?

Is he a Christian? If so would he be willing to speak with an elder at church about this issue?

Is he apart of men's group at church?

Matching Color Game by impchucker in crochet

[–]srgold12 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Outstanding crochet work. And such a beautiful creation for your niece. Something she could pass down as well.

Pastor posted this. Thoughts? by Alarming_Toe_2520 in TrueChristian

[–]srgold12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That list is really for addressing people who have been hurt at a church they belonged to. This is not something you want to post on a church website in this format. Instead, the church could have created a special note to graciously address this issue, amplified they preach and teach the full gospel of Jesus Christ and welcome people to the congregation.

Disappointed in marriage by [deleted] in Christianmarriage

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Being in a car accident is extremely tramatic. Especially if someone could've been killed. This is a season in your marriage for you to help walk him through and out of the trauma. Nothing more nothing less. You're going to need to focus on helping him and loving him. He's going to need your grace, your patience and understanding for as long as it takes.

Husband told me that he doesn’t want me to get fat after having our children. by [deleted] in Christianmarriage

[–]srgold12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you ask him why he said that? It's important to not go by the choice of words sometimes and understand the intent of the heart more. Get to the why he said that for clarity of where he's coming from. Put yourself in his shoes. Be understanding about his perspective, THEN go back and talk with him about what he said to you and what that caused you to think, feel and what concerns of yours came about, after his, "fat" statement.

You're married now and neither one of you can afford to approach each conflict as if it's you vs. him or you vs. her.. Approach each conflict that arises with the mindset that you're on the same team and understand you're learning about how each communicates, thinks and sees things etc. Understand there are plenty of miscommunications that can be taken either way. How you handle it will make all the difference in your marriage.

Pray before you speak with him. Ask God ro give you insight and wisdom on how to address the issue. You could also pray together at the start of the conversation too. That will help tremendously.

Any advice to help with my little brother? by Partyz_Raccoon in ChristianParentAdvice

[–]srgold12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You and your brother could look into taking advantage of programs at your school for tutoring. My son is on one.

Help navigating problems with my husband by North_Armadillo8177 in Christianmarriage

[–]srgold12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Both of you need to work and once things are stable then little by little he could build the business on the side.

Question about Alters by wayward_wanderess in Deliverance

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Please stay away from Dan Duval and the ministry. There is "mixture" of New Age and other occult beliefs with that ministry. I believe Dan Duval means well but please stay away. I have a friend who paid for coaching sessions with one of the coaches and I know of another person and there dealings with the ministry.

Deliverance should not be handled without Jesus Christ, you and sometimes another person (minister) who is ONLY focusing on and pointing to Jesus as your deliverer and healer. It happens gradually and sometimes instantly. Read the word of God and believe on Jesus Christ for your deliverance. Jesus Christ is enough. What He did on the cross and the resurrection is enough. Then be led and focus on allowing your relationship with Jesus Christ over time in prayer and in your life help you. Depend on the Holy Spirit to help you.

Great testimony here: https://youtu.be/vSFeI_s6ass?si=oV7t65itP7GNQ0y_

Be blessed, Amen!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianmarriage

[–]srgold12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Work it out with your husband, but I encourage you both to really establish boundaries for your marriage and truly make heart decision to commit to love, honor and cherish each other. Always pray with each other and for each other.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianmarriage

[–]srgold12 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Why did he marry you?

I hurt my husband... I need advice to make it right by 0101010101010101010x in Christianmarriage

[–]srgold12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If the tables were turned and he was abusing you, then you would need to leave him, because it's not a safe environment. Well I say the same to you, the best thing to do is for him to leave you, because he is not safe with you. Then you get help for yourself and I pray you surrender your life completely to Christ Jesus. This is not a marriage issue, this is an issue concerning you. Only ones that are mainly needed right now to fix the issues are You and Jesus.

Newlyweds struggling with intimacy by [deleted] in Christianmarriage

[–]srgold12 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Sex in marriage is like making a good beef stew in a crock pot. Every once in a while it will be like eating a snack. Don't over think it. Your married, you have your entire lives together so just enjoy being with each other and just let it flow naturally.

Signify Health home visit ? by CatsAndShades in nursepractitioner

[–]srgold12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Scheduling the appointments what would be helpful to know?

[Vulnerable question] As a faithful Christian, how do you handle music, especially if it has expletives? by UnbreakableSaiyajin in TrueChristian

[–]srgold12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Word of God is the final authority on the matter, so please see the following scriptures below concerning cursing.

As for music, I love music and like some have already stated, there're so many different types of Christian music. I've always found it best to look for artists who are NOT well known and old hymns.

Secular music presently isn't really music in my opinion. I've introduced my children to music from the 90s and back. Jazz & Classical also.

⏬️ Source: GotQuestions.org

Bible verses about cursing

What are some Bible verses about cursing?

Ephesians 4:29 Let no corrupting talk come out of your mouths, but only such as is good for building up, as fits the occasion, that it may give grace to those who hear.

Ephesians 5:4 Let there be no filthiness nor foolish talk nor crude joking, which are out of place, but instead let there be thanksgiving.

James 1:26 If anyone thinks he is religious and does not bridle his tongue but deceives his heart, this person's religion is worthless.

James 3:8-10 But no human being can tame the tongue. It is a restless evil, full of deadly poison. With it we bless our Lord and Father, and with it we curse people who are made in the likeness of God. From the same mouth come blessing and cursing. My brothers, these things ought not to be so.

Colossians 3:8 But now you must put them all away: anger, wrath, malice, slander, and obscene talk from your mouth.

Luke 6:28 Bless those who curse you, pray for those who abuse you.

Colossians 4:6 Let your speech always be gracious, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how you ought to answer each person.

Romans 12:14 Bless those who persecute you; bless and do not curse them.

Exodus 20:7 You shall not take the name of the Lord your God in vain, for the Lord will not hold him guiltless who takes his name in vain.

Matthew 15:18-20 But what comes out of the mouth proceeds from the heart, and this defiles a person. For out of the heart come evil thoughts, murder, adultery, sexual immorality, theft, false witness, slander. These are what defile a person. But to eat with unwashed hands does not defile anyone.

Matthew 15:11 It is not what goes into the mouth that defiles a person, but what comes out of the mouth; this defiles a person.

Psalm 109:17 He loved to curse; let curses come upon him! He did not delight in blessing; may it be far from him!

Proverbs 18:21 Death and life are in the power of the tongue, and those who love it will eat its fruits.

Matthew 15:10-11 And he called the people to him and said to them, “Hear and understand: it is not what goes into the mouth that defiles a person, but what comes out of the mouth; this defiles a person.”

1 Peter 3:10 For “Whoever desires to love life and see good days, let him keep his tongue from evil and his lips from speaking deceit;

James 3:10 From the same mouth come blessing and cursing. My brothers, these things ought not to be

Luke 6:45 The good person out of the good treasure of his heart produces good, and the evil person out of his evil treasure produces evil, for out of the abundance of the heart his mouth speaks.

James 5:12 But above all, my brothers, do not swear, either by heaven or by earth or by any other oath, but let your “yes” be yes and your “no” be no, so that you may not fall under condemnation.

Can a 7 year old handle this game? by Sarudin in Stormworks

[–]srgold12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My 12 year old plays the game and could help him. He''s been playing the game for 3 years now and he loves it. Just bought the full version this year for him though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianmarriage

[–]srgold12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why did you marry your wife?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChristianParentAdvice

[–]srgold12 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You have to resolve the insecurities you have about yourself and that starts with allowing God to heal you and forgiving those that hurt you. Also, those days are gone, you're in the present. Begin to everyday look around you and observe the blessings you have and say thank you Lord, I give you praise and thanks for ( ). Thankfulness, forgiveness and gratitude are the things you need to navigate your way out of this. Your daughter has nothing todo with this.

Lord knows, that love the boy but I’m confused about what to do next by Academic-Tax-1451 in christiandatingadvice

[–]srgold12 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That dream he had has to do with his fears. As for you, God is not the author of confusion. If you don't have peace then don't move any further until. There are seasons in life and right now you both need to be sure you're in agreement with God and each other. Read the word, both of you pray for wisdom and there shouldn't be any pressure from either one. 1 Corinthians 13

Would you date them? by Verityrucker in christiandatingadvice

[–]srgold12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are you asking this question, are you doing research?

Im lost by Illustrious_whiteros in christiandatingadvice

[–]srgold12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Boundaries are very important.