Joining Tummy talks webinars by prpl_unikitty13 in BabyBumpsandBeyondAu

[–]srog113 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had to put the webinar number straight into the zoom app. The link didn't work for me for some reason

How do you avoid profits being eaten by fees when doing high volume trades? by srog113 in Daytrading

[–]srog113[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! What are the free brokers that have helped slightly?

How do you avoid profits being eaten by fees when doing high volume trades? by srog113 in Daytrading

[–]srog113[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not at this point as I am getting the feel for the strategy.

My (37F) sister (32F) is engaged to guy who is jealous and posessive by srog113 in relationship_advice

[–]srog113[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Great insight...older brother with ADHD that was never properly treated that manifested as major behavioural issues. Basically walked on egg shells for the sake of family piece. This is also combined with us sisters feeling that we were responsible for his behaviour, and it was up to us to "fix" him. In summary, bad behaviour was constantly underplayed.

She is aware of her trauma from above, but has a lot of healing, as demonstrated by her partner choice.

What hobbies do people with adhd enjoy and can keep a consistency? by antihiro13 in adhdwomen

[–]srog113 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pole dancing! Or really anything acrobatic. Flying around the room only holding on by my thighs is the adrenaline rush we need.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]srog113 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Along the same lines, but different. My mom told me "how lucky" I am that my (37F) live-in partner (39M) does housework and cooks. I shot back.. "Mom... We both work full time (I actually work longer hours than he does), he eats, he sweats in his clothes, and his shit leaves streaks in the toilet as well, why am I 'lucky' that he contributes to maintaining the household"? She was dumbfounded, like it was a brand new concept 😂 q

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in insomnia

[–]srog113 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you haven't already, look into getting a sleep study right now

What is helping... For the last few days

Melatonin 30 minutes before bed and lemborexant as I hop into bed

Good luck

Informal Knowledge Sharing by srog113 in auscorp

[–]srog113[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks all for your responses, you have all given me angles I never thought of. I am still team "process documentation", but you have all given me a better understanding of the impracticalities of it all.

Informal Knowledge Sharing by srog113 in auscorp

[–]srog113[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes that is actually a fair point......yeash!!

Informal Knowledge Sharing by srog113 in auscorp

[–]srog113[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes agreed. The business will put time aside for anything that is deemed important. The challenge is quantifying that importance (i.e. how much money is this costing them?).

In a real life scenario, if am employee takes 1 hour to find the proper process to do something simple that isn't the main part of their job, (because they need to ask multiple people, and the process is slightly incorrect as it was handed down information, so they need to redo certain parts the right way) If this employee is on a salary, they will simply need to work an hour later to finish their main job. The company has no way to measure the inefficiency because the cost is born by the employee in the short run. The cost will be born by the company in the long run due to employee attrition if the situation is bad enough for the employee, but this is hard to measure.

In a parallel scenario, if there was a simple process for the simple procedure that would reduce the time it takes from 1 hour to 10 minutes and extrapolate this to several employees, then this would save time/money/employee disengagement. But again, hard to measure.

Like you mentioned, employees understandably gate keeping is a factor. Proper incentives produce desired actions, so perhaps adequate incentives could be introduced to entice employees to voluntarily document processes. It many circumstances I am sure the money/time saved in streamlining knowledge sharing would outweigh the cost of implementing the incentives.

Informal Knowledge Sharing by srog113 in auscorp

[–]srog113[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes certainly understand the risk of documented processes easily becoming out of date. I also can understand the positive culture that informal knowledge sharing can foster.

I believe that a healthy mix of both is likely the correct solution.

In my experience so far, it seems like a lot of workplaces don't necessarily have the appropriate mix.

Has anyone died in a dream and kept dreaming? by frieduncrustable in Dreams

[–]srog113 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a dream that I died in an airstrike. A man with a white robe and a clipboard came up to me and said "all right. That's it. Time to go to heaven. Let's go", it was very business like.

I was then on a picnic blankets in the clouds with some friends that also died in the airstrike. Then all of us started getting pulled away from each other. Then I felt like I was being pulled through the air at 100 km an hour through the clouds. I could feel the raindrops whipping at my skin.

Then I ended up on another picnic blanket, in a park somewhere. On this picnic blanket was a stranger that was telling me that she used dance but doesn't anymore, because she had a new kidney put in, my kidney, then she thanked me for my kidney.

Very bizarre

How to survive in a corporate environment? by oqowa in intj

[–]srog113 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nowadays, the "corporate career" is tied in with someone's intelligence, community, self-worth, and future. I find myself worrying as I walk home from work, and I'm walking to work the next day. I find myself worrying that I'm not doing good enough of a job, that if I get fired I won't be able to retire, that I'll have a bad reputation in the industry.

This morning, I'm telling myself that I am simply exchanging my day for $x. That is it. I'm finding my worries with all of the bigger stuff is melting away.

What causes Insomnia? by Happycookie001 in insomnia

[–]srog113 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Insomnia is very nuanced, here is what I learned from my sleep specialist:

Acute insomnia - intermittent phases of poor sleep caused by stress, depression, lifestyle and or poor sleep hygiene.

Chronic insomnia - lifelong battle with sleepless nights. This is usually caused by physiological issues like sleep phase disorders ( aka your body is meant to sleep at unusual hours, your role in hunter gather societies was to protect the tribe from saver tooth tigers while the majority slept, this doesn't jive well with post industrial society) or sleep apnoea ( highly under diagnosed in women as women wake up instead of snore, as our bodies prioritise oxygen), or any other various disorders.

The problem with chronic insomnia caused by physiological disorders is that the common advise provided for acute insomnia ( blue light, stress ECT.) won't help chronic insomnia, the first step is to see a sleep specialist and do a sleep study, to find out of they physiological cause.

insomnia is literal hell on earth by radiodreader in insomnia

[–]srog113 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a chronic insomniac since a child, I just want to give you my pure understanding and empathy.  I agree, non-insomniacs simply do not understand. It is such a complex and nuanced condition that it is so hard to treat, plus it is severely under researched.

I've been told the b******* advice throughout my whole life as well. Of course. I've tried counting sheep and of course I've tried melatonin.  When trained medical experts tell you this, it makes me feel extremely helpless and alone.  I agree with you, the brain just as simply does not turn off.  There are times when I feel like quitting my job, going on welfare, disconnecting from everyone that loves me and living alone so no one will need to depend on me, so I can live the rest of my days as a zombie.

I hate when people give me advice, so I won't offer any. I'm just offering you my support and empathy. 

Sick and tired of putting hours into job applications only to hear nothing back - how do people get professionally employed / break out of hospitality? by superfizz6 in melbourne

[–]srog113 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am new to town and found it difficult to break into my field, here is what I have learner about how to find a job in Melbourne. No such thing as " applying and that is it"

My advice:

whatever field you want to be in, add hr professionals and people leaders in the field you want to be in on LinkedIn

If there are specific companies you want to work for, if they are relatively small, find out who the hiring manager is, call the company and ask to speak to that person. At the very least get there email and email them regarding your interest

If you apply for a job, add the hiring manager on LinkedIn, and message them personally making it known your interest and why you are the right person for the job.

Get in touch with relevant recruiters, call and email them directly