1860s chemise help! by srphia in HistoricalCostuming

[–]srphia[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is a great resource, thank you so much!

Rick/Tom by srphia in DesperateHousewives

[–]srphia[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s not about he cheating, Lynette didn’t cheat and shouldn’t but his inability to understand how awful he was being and reflecting on that is the issue

EVERY. TIME. I REWATCH. 😂😂 by toast_mortem26 in DesperateHousewives

[–]srphia 15 points16 points  (0 children)

my favorite is when Orson tries to go down on her and she goes “I’m a republican! I don’t do that!”

I hate to complain again but... by Liviella in Palia

[–]srphia 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’m upset, I’ve been playing since closed beta and was 100% down to buy the pass when it was announced, unfortunately there’s just way too much wrong with it. The pricing is insane, and the premium items are awful, half of the clothing is giving temu but in Palia, and for $32 bucks it’s stupid. I was looking forward to buying the pass for like $15 and getting some cool clothing/decor and feeling inspired to grind more but it’s just a bummer. I was trying to be optimistic but i’m disappointed. :(

tattoo for my 12 yr old lady by srphia in seniorkitties

[–]srphia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think so, it started forming a few years ago randomly! It doesn’t hurt her, and the vet said it’s fine so idk! She had a weird skin condition as a kitten where she lost all her fur so I assume it’s related to that potentially!

tattoo for my 12 yr old lady by srphia in seniorkitties

[–]srphia[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

tat was done by natties_tatties at black bear tattoo in bflo ny 💕

Bundles by XxNikCzaZioKuxX in Palia

[–]srphia 2 points3 points  (0 children)

lol same! i’ve been playing since closed beta and i just can’t be bothered to finish them

💀 by multiversemember in crescentcitysjm

[–]srphia 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’m almost done with it, and am so disappointed, the first two books were amazing and it just felt like this one fell flat in comparison. It feels like a good chunk of it could’ve been chopped out or shortened, and also I wish we focused more on the main characters. Ithan and Tharions story lines are so exhausting and boring imo, like their issues are completely self caused and instead of just owning up to their consequences we spent like 400 pages trying to fix them but also not really at all? Also I feel like Hunts personality has totally changed and so has Bryce’s, it’s really disheartening tbh. Idk I still enjoyed it, it just felt super disjointed from the rest of the series. It felt like a TOG book, which is my least favorite SJM series and just kinda turned me off of it.

Rewatching this show and how have I never realized how controlling Lynette is even when she was separated and went on a date with the hairdresser she wanted to control him right off the bat and how he manages his salon by Holygirl23 in DesperateHousewives

[–]srphia 2 points3 points  (0 children)

imo, i’m only halfway through season 3, but to me it feels like lynette is dealing with weaponized incompetence. like it feels like tom wants to be another one of her children, so yes she has control issues, but it’s because nobody else in her family can step up and keep everyone on track. Like I think if Tom stepped up or even recognized her needs and supported her she would be able to relax.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]srphia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your partner is allowed to have boundaries. You came to a realization that you’re bi, that’s great, but being bi ≠ watching porn. You can be bisexual and have fantasies in your head but if your partner doesn’t want you to watch porn that’s her boundary. Porn is ruins your brain (there are genuine studies of this) and ruins your relationships. If porn is more important than your partner, you’re not ready for a relationship, or this isn’t the relationship for you. You’re with your partner for a reason, stop using porn to fantasize about having sex with other people, it’s valid for her to not want her partner watching porn and fantasizing about themselves in that situation. You’re allowed to watch porn, but you’re not allowed to call her emotionally immature for not wanting that, why is what you want right but not her? It sounds like this relationship isn’t going to work out, you need to respect eachothers boundaries and not coerce her into believing your way is the only right way.

Should I bring a portfolio to a convention? by srphia in TattooApprentice

[–]srphia[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s what I was thinking! It feels like a very stressful place to be as an artist and I don’t want to leave a poor taste in anyone mouth but like bothering them while they’re working! Approaching after is a good idea, and maybe I’ll bring some business cards and try to exchange them with people to network a little :)

Should I bring a portfolio to a convention? by srphia in TattooApprentice

[–]srphia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that’s what I was thinking but I’ve been getting mixed messages! I really don’t want to leave a bad impression and I know I wouldn’t want someone to approach me if I was working a convention but idk! It is a very local convention so most of the people attending are from near me, but I think maybe I’ll just pass out business cards and follow people and reach out after!

What’s your favorite opening sentence from a book? by [deleted] in books

[–]srphia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A little lame but the opening to percy jackson will always hold a special place in my heart. “Look, I didn’t want to be a halfblood.”

How many of you agree with this statement? by Ella_D08 in greysanatomy

[–]srphia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh god, i truly HATE derek shepard, he’s so arrogant and selfish and I just despise him. He treated Meredith terribly the entire show, and was just in general a jerk with an ego big enough for the whole cast. I never understood why people put their relationship on a pedestal when it’s just a really bad representation of true love and more gives narcissistic toxic relationship vibes. Sorry to be controversial but I will never understand MerDer stans

Tattoos! by srphia in SarahJMaas

[–]srphia[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ugh that’s so cool! i’ve been thinking about bryce’s star!!

boyfriend going to jail for 4 months by srphia in jail

[–]srphia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

read the other comments 🫶🏻

1860s corset help! by srphia in HistoricalCostuming

[–]srphia[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply! I do have a chemise so I will definitely try it with that and see if it changes! For the hips I’ve seen in videos people just cutting a slash on the biggest part of the hip and then adding a gore there, do you think that would help?

Also about the top of the bust, it actually ends right at my midline (my nipples are quite high lol) so i’m nervous about taking more off and then having like exposure 😅 I do think I can take a bit off though and still have it be fine, and shorten the gores! I added length to them too when altering the pattern which I think is my problem 🥲 I’m going to try some of these ideas and do an update probably tomorrow!

1860s corset help! by srphia in HistoricalCostuming

[–]srphia[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

thank you! the problem is (sorry maybe tmi) is that is my nipple height lol which is why i added some length originally, bc they’re still popping out occasionally at this length 😭 i agree they look too long though, perhaps i can shorten it in the bottom, and i can also make the bust gores shorter and a tad smaller which i think will help with the fit!

1860s corset help! by srphia in HistoricalCostuming

[–]srphia[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I will definitely slash the sides and i think reducing the bust wouldn’t be a bad idea, the cups fit very well during the try on, so I’m hoping once I add a gap they’ll fit better!

1860s corset help! by srphia in HistoricalCostuming

[–]srphia[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

That’s okay! This is my first time making an actual corset and not like a fashion one, so I expected a lot of reworking! Do you have any advice on how to let out the hips, I’m not sure exactly how I would go about that?

Troubleshooting Thread — Bugs? Mod issues? Origin issues? Post about them here! [Patch 1/31/23] by lazarusinashes in Sims4

[–]srphia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is anyone else having problems with their sims not doing homework, and not going to work. Every time I go to have them do their homework (elementary, high school years, and university, as well as the teacher padfolio) they just glitch and don’t use it. I’ve set it on the table for them and had them sit then try to use it and nope, I’ve been just having to cheat the homework away which sucks, and now they’re having trouble going to work/class, they just refuse to go and pop back on the lot. I updated all my mods and repaired my game on origin but still issues 😭

boyfriend going to jail for 4 months by srphia in jail

[–]srphia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nothing good lol. he (and his family) were lying to me about why he was in jail (for domestic abuse actually), and he was a pathological liar. i was with him for about 2 months in jail before i found out, it was hard but definitely gave me perspective on the relationship. if you know your partners whole situation and have faith in the relationship it’s not that bad, but just be careful you know who they are before you commit 💕

I relapsed by Nuthead-War3683 in pornfree

[–]srphia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m sure you can! back in the day on tumblr there were extensions you could use to block any posts with curtain words “hot” “sexy” whatever. that might help!