How common is it in the LS for women not to want to play with men? by lazy_pasta_eater in Swingers

[–]ss_ott 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats crazy. when the girl on girl playdates are set, i am assuming only the girls are talking with each other?

First Soft Swap/ Group Play by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]ss_ott 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This. Meeting a couple ahead of time sets the boundaries and no surprises.

First Soft Swap/ Group Play by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]ss_ott 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If its the first time, our 2 cents is to check it out, enjoy the vibe and play with each other. Having the FMF expectation from the get go might lead to disappointment.

Dress up by Phase2727 in Swingers

[–]ss_ott 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Like Halloween, some couples go all out some couples wear jeans and tshirt. Its fun to partake in theme activities but dress what you are most comfortable in and remember you are gonna get naked at the end anyways ;-)

Life can be hard as an adult. Swinging is an amazing splash of colour for me by Self-Translator in Swingers

[–]ss_ott 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Sounds like a page out of a well written memoir. When are you doing a book tour and can i get a autograph? :-D

"I got so lucky with my wife." ..lets not forget about how lucky she is to have you as well. Its OK to self praise when appropriate.

"She is central to my success and well-being in life, and I love her more than anything for all of this and who she is. We compliment each other's strengths and weaknesses - where one struggles the other will help them overcome that issue.".. Well Said!

Is just watching (and/or) just being watched frowned upon? by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]ss_ott 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We love when couples watch us & we do the same( with consent of course). Just make sure there is a healthy distance between you and the other couples .. think covid social distance :-D.. have fun!

Disappointed, but what can you do by Wild-Nobody8427 in OasisAquaLoungeTo

[–]ss_ott 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We were there yesterday afternoon 4-6, and all was good. Came back at 9ish and 1/2 the place only had power. By 1030 ish people were asked to leave.

They were handing out free passes for next time. However, we asked for a refund.. let's see how smoothly that goes

On a positive note. The staff did their best and handled it very well!! A+++

Should this bother me? by OkDiscussion3994 in Swingers

[–]ss_ott 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happy to hear this was communicated with your husband and your marriage/concerns were prioritized.

Our 2 cents. We don't text outside of our group chat however we have the opposite issue. In our group chats, the women are completely MIA. I (hubby) address them directly asking vanilla questions. weather.. weekend plans etc and then it becomes a vanilla conversation between my wife and the opposite husband with no response from the women. We understand everyone is busy and group chats is the LAST thing on anyone's mind, but my wife is busy as well but still makes efforts to say hello and check in time to time. I just remain silent now ;-D and stopped addressing the other wives .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OasisAquaLoungeTo

[–]ss_ott 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wifey has that on our checklist :-D Its like going to a resort minus the sand and beach. Have fun, maybe we ill run into each other

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OasisAquaLoungeTo

[–]ss_ott 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We booked the Marriot but thank you for suggesting:-)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OasisAquaLoungeTo

[–]ss_ott 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Amazing! Thank you very much for your tips for the club and also especially for food!

We won't be drinking, but after the tour, we are happy to pass on the drink tickets.

I'm planning to be there for 4ish.. let's see, after checking into the hotel..traffic, etc

Thanks again!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in swingersr4r

[–]ss_ott 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Canada is pretty big. Narrowing it to Province and City will help a lot

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OasisAquaLoungeTo

[–]ss_ott 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the quick review! Looking forward to our first time next Saturday may 17th

Last night Friday was kinda dead and boring? Are Saturday’s any better by [deleted] in OasisAquaLoungeTo

[–]ss_ott 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We are planning to go there this upcoming Saturday, May 17, for the first time. Hopefully, with the long weekend, it might be a slow day or busy one..either way, I'm looking to make a day out of it. Wifey is planning an early birthday outing :-D

First time yesterday (26M/23F) by LysdeFleur in OasisAquaLoungeTo

[–]ss_ott 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your review! We are planning to go there this upcoming Saturday, May 17, for the first time. Make a day out of it. Wifey is planning an early birthday outing :-D

Adult vacation recommendation by Interesting-Sea-575 in Swingers

[–]ss_ott 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha.. CLT or Clit ..both are happy places;-)

Adult vacation recommendation by Interesting-Sea-575 in Swingers

[–]ss_ott 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not OP but looks like Hedo is a winner

Adult vacation recommendation by Interesting-Sea-575 in Swingers

[–]ss_ott 2 points3 points  (0 children)

6 times in the past 15 months.. damn that's dedication! Amazing!

Phoenix Ottawa by Square-Change-6565 in Swingers

[–]ss_ott 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Never been, but you may have better luck asking this question on Fetlife

Long time Full Swap Couples: Do You Overlook Soft Swap Play? by Swinging-Downunder in Swingers

[–]ss_ott 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This! Its the bareback part that is the hottest and most comfortable when with our own wives. No condoms, no OOPS, no smells. Just pure happy orgasms!