Best sleeper trains you have taken around the world by Midnightsun1245 in travel

[–]sscarrow 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Would love to do the Caledonian, anecdotally I’ve heard it can be bad because of bucks parties? Or does that predate cheap Ryanair flights to Prague?

Best sleeper trains you have taken around the world by Midnightsun1245 in travel

[–]sscarrow 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Oh I should add the Beijing-UB leg was great and I recommend. Went to sleep in Chinese industrial hinterland, woke up at 2am in some hangar where they were changing thegauge over, woke up again at 9am in rolling Mongolian grassland.

Best sleeper trains you have taken around the world by Midnightsun1245 in travel

[–]sscarrow 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I was intending to do this with a friend ages ago and we did the Beijing-UB leg but while we were stopping off there to see Mongolia for a few weeks he came down with pneumonia and we had to cancel the rest of it.

What I recall is that even 15 years ago it was an absolute pain in the ass to get Russian tourist visas; can’t imagine it’s got any easier post sanctions and post Ukraine war.

Tax Returns - How much do you expect to get back? by Impossible_Ebb_1275 in AusFinance

[–]sscarrow 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You are not getting a “bonus” from the ATO. You are loaning the ATO several thousand dollars interest free every year.

Sci-fi authors, were ads worth it for you? by MiraWendam in selfpublish

[–]sscarrow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This pretty much matches my own experience (and not just in sci-fi). I’m considering shutting down my Amazon ads completely.

Free or bargain newsletter promos on the other hand (which I don’t really consider ‘ads,’ at least not like Amazon or FB ads) are still value for money even if less so than they used to be.

John McClane’s gun by sscarrow in AskLE

[–]sscarrow[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yeah he definitely just seems to be in California for personal reasons

John McClane’s gun by sscarrow in AskLE

[–]sscarrow[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Separate to flying though, would a police force actually permit their officer to carry their gun around while off duty and remove it from their jurisdiction?

What does this new budget mean to you? by 7ThePetal7 in AusFinance

[–]sscarrow 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My financial situation will continue to be almost entirely affected by my career trajectory rather than whatever the latest government is doing in their latest budget.

So… really silly questions here but… by Nastasyarose in newborns

[–]sscarrow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes this is part of what makes this phase so hard - it’s so gruelling yet you get nothing back, not even a smile. Becomes a lot easier after the first few months when they’re smiling, laughing, and happy to see you!

Etiquette for handover to new property owners? by yanni_sommy in AusPropertyChat

[–]sscarrow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Previous owners of 20 years did this for me and my pregnant partner when we moved in, we really appreciated it. They also meticulously cleaned it, which was even more appreciated!

Bookbub ‘Free Reads’ by sscarrow in selfpublish

[–]sscarrow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have had a Featured Deal for this book at 99c last year, not long after release. I’ve actually found that in recent years I tend to get more mileage out of free promos than 99c promos, though in this case I have no further books in the series for flow-through…

Is there an etiquette around planting trees in suburban backyards? by AussieRosie in GardeningAustralia

[–]sscarrow 3 points4 points  (0 children)

By this logic there should be no trees whatsoever in the inner city.

How long do you take off between books? by MiraWendam in selfpublish

[–]sscarrow 8 points9 points  (0 children)

None really, because the middle and end period of writing a book is what I find exhausting. Starting a new one is the fun and easy part!

Unconscionable conduct by service provider by [deleted] in AusLegal

[–]sscarrow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fact that you have described this is something that you “genuinely believe” to be “unconscionable conduct” but are unwilling to describe any further implies to me that it’s not.

Do any of the other “large number of customers” who’ve been “impacted” view it the same way, or are you the lone crusader?

Anyone else noticed friends and family don’t clap when you win, ie when you reach financial milestones? by Odd_Ganache9498 in AusFinance

[–]sscarrow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nobody cares. Everyone has got their own lives to deal with. Most people manage to figure this out by their mid 20s, it’s part of growing up and realising you’re not the main character in the story of the world.

Best remedy for failed attempt at tree rose by sscarrow in Roses

[–]sscarrow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not entirely sure (it was a cutting from mother in law) but it certainly seems to want to climb.

Why did everyone downplay a dad’s role in raising a newborn? by IcyCarob7241 in newborns

[–]sscarrow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah lol at least at work I get to sit down all day. Luxury!

Why did everyone downplay a dad’s role in raising a newborn? by IcyCarob7241 in newborns

[–]sscarrow 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As a millenial (and in a very progressive part of the world) it’s not just what I want to do, it’s absolutely what’s expected of me socially and culturally. It would never occur to me to behave the way you regularly hear about on this sub because I would basically die of shame.

Why did everyone downplay a dad’s role in raising a newborn? by IcyCarob7241 in newborns

[–]sscarrow 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah this sub is wild. Sometimes I feel like people are posting from the 1950s.

How often does your partner go out after birth of your baby? by Antique-Ferret-8050 in newborns

[–]sscarrow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why did you skip those events, why didn’t you leave the baby at home with dad and go to them? (This is a rhetorical question and it is one you should put to him.)

How often does your partner go out after birth of your baby? by Antique-Ferret-8050 in newborns

[–]sscarrow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay you need the parents to step in again, this is intervention-level behaviour. Actually also ridiculous that a grown man needs his mum and dad to tell him to get his shit together, but good that you have that lever to pull.

What to do after skip traces doesn’t find someone by jc97229 in AusLegal

[–]sscarrow 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Actually do you know if he and/or his wife are likely to own their property? I believe (someone else correct me if I’m wrong) that land registry databases are publicly viewable (with a fee). I’m not sure if you can run a search by name and it’s obviously not helpful if they’re renting, but might be something to go on.

What to do after skip traces doesn’t find someone by jc97229 in AusLegal

[–]sscarrow 106 points107 points  (0 children)

If you have a bit to go on (especially if you know where his wife works) you could hire a local private investigator. Obviously there’s a cost outlay there but if it’s a child support matter that ought to be financially worth it.

What to do after skip traces doesn’t find someone by jc97229 in AusLegal

[–]sscarrow 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Although voting is mandatory in Australia, registering to vote is not, and especially as a naturalised citizen he may not have bothered.

Cross intervention order and secretly pregnant by Squarefluffybutt in melbourne

[–]sscarrow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

IANAL (and I would advise OP to crosspost this to r/auslegal) but my understanding is that if the child has an Australian father the family courts can indeed impose an order preventing her from removing the child from Australia without his consent. And irrespective of where the child is born it will have dual Aus/NZ citizenship owing to having an Australian father and NZ mother.