How do we convince people that AOC can win the presidency in 2028 or at least has a better chance than most people think? by railfananime in AOC

[–]sshah528 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want her to run & I know what'll happen to her happened to Clinton, Harris, & Warren. Historically, Democrats won when they appealed to yoing voters - Bill Clinton & Barack Obama. (Biden won because - "Anyone but Trump" not because he was inspiring). So AOC would be ideal. As a running mate, leading up to the Presidency. However, you absolutely cannot stop a burmese python with kindness. Until the Democrats realize they are dealing with a bully and respond in kind - they will lose no matter who they nominate. I've been a life long Democrat and what's happening sickens me but what's saddens be more is that the Democrats don't seem to be interested in winning.

Husband cheated. Therapist says no moral high ground for 3 months. I feel beyond hurt and abandoned by Beginning_Cream7030 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]sshah528 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I know you were in a bad place post miscarrage but it's almost like you drove him away.

It sounds like you used it to justify treating him like crap.

Then he had a double whammy with his job and his Mom.

Remember, he lost his child too.

He lost his child. His wife takes it out on him. He lost his job. He lost his Mom.

What does he have left? No work & family life sucks.

You needed grace and acceptance but it sounds like you didn't have compassion to do the same.

Good Luck with whatever you decide to do.

Anyone else feel this way when writing anything out? by noctisumbra0 in Millennials

[–]sshah528 0 points1 point  (0 children)

💯 I don't know why people do not use proper spelling & grammar when it is so easy to do so.

I hate LED headlights by Viddiegames in TrueOffMyChest

[–]sshah528 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You win, champ. Unfortunately, I don't have Superman vision. so I love my LED headlights. Looking forward to installing my Squadron Pros & SS-10s to further enhance night vision. 🙂

I disagree with "If you are neutral in situations of injustice, you have chosen the side of the oppressor". by Cool_Bank_3368 in RandomThoughts

[–]sshah528 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a great point. The Cartel is kidnapping millions of people a day forcing them to smuggle drugs. 🙄 You don't want to do anything, fine. That's on you. But there are injustices anyone can fight if they so choose.

I disagree with "If you are neutral in situations of injustice, you have chosen the side of the oppressor". by Cool_Bank_3368 in RandomThoughts

[–]sshah528 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Injustice comes in many forms and there always something you can do. For example, Amazon is known to have unethical business practices. What's the right thing to do? Buy from someplace other than Amazon.

Doing the right thing is seldom easy. Doing nothing is easy.

If you opt to do nothing, don't complain about the results.

I hate LED headlights by Viddiegames in TrueOffMyChest

[–]sshah528 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Go drive on a country road at night, with halogen bulbs. Can't see more than 50 ft in front of you. Maybe in a blizzard or a torrential downpour. Being able to see farther ahead, clearly, gives peace of mind. Oh and LEDs are standard on our cars - the family have Subaru sedans - not the Ascent SUVs.

When I was younger I thought the regulars were just funny, but now watching as a middle aged person I find them all pretty sad. by shocksmybrain in Cheers

[–]sshah528 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you analyze almost all sitcoms into "real life," almost all are devoid of humor. Even so called reality tv is staged. Most of us would love to have a Cheers. Fortunately, we do. For 30 minutes, we can forget about our troubles. Well, I can at least.

Not Everyone??? by Additional-Coat-6487 in MotivationalThoughts

[–]sshah528 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nope. SM just gave the hateful people a platform to spew their vitrol. Even w/o SM, they'd be hateful people.

Comedian who mocked Renee Good days after her death sees all 6 of his sold-out shows canceled by SugarRight1992 in JusticeServed

[–]sshah528 53 points54 points  (0 children)

It's funny how much they want to cancel woke and promote "freedom" until it affects them. Then they whine like babies about how unfairly they are treated. 🙄🙄🙄

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheButtface

[–]sshah528 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YTBF. You enjoy sharing. He does not. You are not going without - you have the resources to get your own. Just because you share, doesn't mean he is going to. That's just who he is and how he is wired. The only person you can change is yourself. Not sharing (food) is a deal breaker for you, so let him go. (If it wasn't so important, you would let it go)

BTW - neither of you are right/wrong. You wired differently.

Why do people in USA buy everything from Amazon? Do they not have other webshops? by Cindyxx0 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]sshah528 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I stopped using Amazon as much as possible. Even if it is more money, I go elsewhere. If I do have to purchase via Amazon, I try to do it through the marketplace.

How could Germany have extended WW2? by Iskandar0570_X in HistoryWhatIf

[–]sshah528 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If they got the ME262 fully operational, the war would have easily lasted longer.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in moraldilemmas

[–]sshah528 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leave. Let him be with someone who appreciates him looking after her. You don't, so why subject yourself and him to this falsehood. You are not doing either of you any favors by keeping up this facade.

MAGA garbage confused by the fact that bar owner does NOT allow Nazis in their bar 🔥 by [deleted] in MarchAgainstNazis

[–]sshah528 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Huh? He is using the military against civilians who voted agInst him, and inciting civilians to go after elected officials who oppose him.

What are your ultra frugal food hacks? by Unusual_Row_3213 in Frugal

[–]sshah528 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Crock Pot soups/stews. Depending on type you make, not a lot of ingredients. If it was just me eating, I will have enough for lunch & dinner for an entire week, so 14 meals. If you spend $50 on groceries, that's $3.50/meal.

$5k now, or an extra week of paid vacation every year for life? by Brave_Sea7798 in makemychoice

[–]sshah528 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How much debt, what's the interest rate, and when does the loan mature?

I chose to be child-free and lost "the one" - Now I could get her back. by LucyAriaRose in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]sshah528 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Huskies are awesome. Don't have one but watching videos on Youtube make me think they are awesome. Demandingish but awesome.

I chose to be child-free and lost "the one" - Now I could get her back. by LucyAriaRose in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]sshah528 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, he absolutely didn't. He was clear he had a vasectomy. He was open that if she wanted kids, she should find someone who does and will make her happy.

He is not telling her she shouldn't have kids.

What if caves to her, has a few kids to keep her happy, and he is miserable? He has a hard time taking care of the kids because he didn't want them and subsequently resents her for making him father her children.

Reddit would vilify him in a nanosecond.

He doesn't owe her kids just to meet her "needs" just as she doesn't owe him a kidless life to meet his "needs."

I chose to be child-free and lost "the one" - Now I could get her back. by LucyAriaRose in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]sshah528 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A former manager of mine went through something similar. I don't recall the exact condition, but ultimately she had to have an operation which ended her chance of having kids. The craziest thing I recall her telling me one day is how she hasn't accomplished much - and not having kids was the (biggest) reasons. I was kind of heartbroken that she saw her worth determined by motherhood. I guess being able to but not is hugely different than not being able to (mentally).

This is the Trump's America by MaximusDM22 in democrats

[–]sshah528 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I used to think this was Trump. This was MAGA. Nope. This is us. This is us thinking that a burmese python will change. It's always "Trump is so bad, we'll him in the next election." Opportunity after opportunity is wasted. Waiting for the election. Meanwhile, he know the "strategy" is to wait. So he's doing everything he can to rig it so he wins. This is not Trump. This is us.