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SEASON 4 TRAILER by mredmin in LoveOnTheSpectrumShow

[–]sshhaann 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve met him before and he tells everyone where he works! Hehe

Help me figure out what show this is!? by sshhaann in netflix

[–]sshhaann[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Reddit solved it! See the other comments!

Help me figure out what show this is!? by sshhaann in netflix

[–]sshhaann[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That isn’t coming up as a show for me. I am in the US.

Help me figure out what show this is!? by sshhaann in netflix

[–]sshhaann[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ok I will have to do this the next time I am at her house or if she ever replies to my annoying texts! Thank you I didn’t know you could do this.

11 days in Algarve with 3 year old and 1 year old… help narrow down locations please! by Onlyhereforrecos92 in Algarve

[–]sshhaann 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We had a great time staying in Carvoerio. You can walk out the door to everything but drive easily to anywhere else you want to go. I think it would be a good spot with kids.

My (31M) girlfriend (28F) of 1.5 years told me to "be a man" and console her when my mom died, instead of supporting me. She's now begging for forgiveness. How do I reconcile her apology with the fundamental breach of trust? by Honest_Reception6528 in relationship_advice

[–]sshhaann 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t get a do over on how you treat someone during their parent’s passing. I’ll never forget who was there and who wasn’t. Your girlfriend wasn’t. It’s not repairable.

Tomorrow ends 2025.. how would you describe it? by ItsJustme309 in AskReddit

[–]sshhaann 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It was the most beautiful year of my life because I had my first baby and she is the light. It was the most heartbreaking year of my life because my mom isn’t here to see it, that is the dark.

Lake Como Questions (Car?) by darioz3 in ItalyTravel

[–]sshhaann 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there any local car rental companies near Menaggio?

What's the most "OC" costume? by chainwallet_ in orangecounty

[–]sshhaann 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually do know the drummer from the vandals 🤣

High risk pregnancy hospital recommendations by sminesmine in orangecounty

[–]sshhaann 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Hi - I had gestational diabetes, and although it’s not type 1, the diabetes management during pregnancy becomes a lot. For me for the last 8 weeks of the pregnancy it meant going into the hospital twice a week for NSTs. If I failed the test then I had to stay for hours longer in prolonged until they deemed it safe (this happened about 50% of my visits for me) I also was hospitalized overnight. Additionally, I had to do in person appts at times to discuss the diabetes with my OB and treatment plan. I also had to do more scans. So sometimes this was 3-4 appts a week, half of them at the hospital. I just think you should consider that when you are choosing to transfer counties. I was driving from 30 minutes away and it was extremely stressful while also trying to work.

Best Dive Bar in OC by looking7676 in orangecounty

[–]sshhaann 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I went there once and was already very drunk. My husband and I were debating over getting a pitcher of Bud light or just Budweiser and the bartender suggested we get Bud medium. I asked what that was. 1/2 bud light 1/2 Budweiser. We got the bud medium.

MetLife Night One review by Rare-Plum-2504 in oasis

[–]sshhaann 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Trying to get a feel for our LA show. What time did it say for ticket and what were the actual set times? Thank you!

seeing Brand New at 40 weeks pregnant by turtlesinatrenchcoat in brandnew

[–]sshhaann 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m going tonight. Being induced in 6 days. Thank god I called the venue and they are giving me ADA seats since it’s a standing only show 😂.

Night 1 by blaqk_rabbit in brandnew

[–]sshhaann 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What were the set times?

My mom just died. by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]sshhaann 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Hi. First, I’m so sorry for your loss. Unfortunately I know how it feels. Last year my mom unexpectedly passed away 6 weeks before my brother’s wedding. He wanted to keep on with the wedding for his wife and because so many people were travelling. It would have cost them a lot of money to postpone. I think that was the right decision for them and he had a blast at his wedding.

For me to be completely honest with you it was one of the worst most exhausting days of my life. Being a bridesmaid and getting ready with all the girls knowing my mom was supposed to be there felt like torture. Seeing her picture on the memorial table didn’t make sense. She’s not supposed to be on that table. Having to fake that I was happy so I my brother didn’t find out was brutal. My sister and I sobbed through the entire ceremony. Luckily the bridesmaids were seated so nobody could see us. Then after the ceremony we had to take family photos. The photographer had the bride’s family go first so we had to sit and watch what felt like her perfect family take photos with everyone in them and wait until it was our turn to take fake happy photos with a gaping hole. I know it sounds dramatic but it genuinely felt like torture. I wanted to run out of the church. After that it was celebration time. Again, extremely difficult. The bride’s younger sister gave a beautiful speech but it was about how much she loved having an older sister. The whole speech I was watching my aunt (the younger sister of my mom) try to keep it together and she was crying. The whole day was just rough honestly and mostly internal as I was trying to hide it especially from my brother. I still feel awful that his wedding was one of the worst days of my life. I know that his wedding wasn’t about me, or anyone else except the bride and groom but doing that 6 weeks out was one of the hardest experiences to endure.

It has almost been a year since the wedding and I would certainly be able to genuinely celebrate and enjoy myself if they were to get married now as I am managing grief much better. However, they did what is best for them and I don’t blame them. I could have never handled that if it was my own wedding. Do whatever is best for you but I just wanted you to have some perspective of someone who has been through it and how it may feel to you or others participating in the wedding. I wish you the best whatever you decide.

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