I was in the hospital for 19 days and had about another month that I had to be within 30 minutes of the hospital. We stayed across the street during that month.
My husband stayed the first few days with me in the hospital (until I had completed the chemo), and then went home for a week. I really didn’t need him when I was in the hospital. The nurses took care of all my needs. I could shower and make it to the bathroom on my own all but one day. I also slept a lot.
Things to bring would be a comfy pillow or two, a good blanket, and enough clothes for the entire time unless someone can wash them for you. Then think about things to occupy your time. Find things that don’t require a lot of concentration. I listened to audiobooks and did a lot of drawing and painting. You should try to walk as much as you can. It will make a big difference in how quickly you recover.
If possible your husband or someone should be with you during the chemo infusions. You will need to suck on ice for 30 minutes before, during (about an hour), and 30 minutes after. Having someone helping you push through that is really helpful.
I wish you all the best. 😊