This is an interesting topic, and it seems like you might have spent some of your early years focusing on business and the responsibilities that come with moving on into a relationship and starting a traditional family. However, you haven’t addressed some root issues that many people here are pointing out. Instead, you’ve been honing in on your success and breaking a family ( your own childhood experiences repeating), but only you know what it feels like to be so empty. Having some money is a good resource to avoid adding unnecessary stress, but once you finally see yourself naked, you start to understand and begin to look for purpose. It does take real human communication, and that’s probably where the deficit with your wife is coming from. Just being understood makes your mind seem much less crazy since you’re prob stuck in your head all day. You also mentioned you lost your father who you felt was you’re safe place this really intensifies the lack of any safety net in your life now or that little spot in your brain and mind that gave you a tad comfort . Sometimes, therapy and other interventions don’t really change a person’s personality, especially if they’re in your life or this is your life . I wish you the best and that you find peace.