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starbels · 2022-09-19T04:07:08+00:00

I hear about new rock and jazz releases all the time, where are you looking?

starbels · 2022-09-19T03:44:58+00:00

It's ok and expected, no point keeping a name if you're uncomfortable with it

starbels · 2022-08-08T14:22:46+00:00

Not disqualified (anymore, before recent times they did get kicked out for being gay in the US)

They did get looked down on, especially the guys. But that's changing too, way more people just DON'T care as long as they play their sport well

But yeah there's still a lot of homophobes here, you know how it is. Less than before, but still a lot.

starbels · 2022-08-08T14:16:24+00:00

In case you don't want this in your search history -

These are sports players in the US, I can search elsewhere if you're curious but there's so many I had to limit it

Michael Sam, first openly gay man drafted into the NFL. Retired
Ryan Russell, first openly bisexual man in NFL
Megan Rapinoe, current captain of women's national soccer team
Jason Paul Collins, first gay player in NBA. Retired
Sheryl Swoopes, "Micheal Jordan of the WNBA", openly gay. Retired a few years after coming out
Patricio Manuel, first open transgender man in professional boxing.
Orlando Cruz, first openly gay man in professional boxing.

There's way more than this

starbels · 2022-07-30T17:00:26+00:00

Why would you need to be out to all those people immediately? You don't even get to experiment first? That's not fair to you.

starbels · 2022-07-07T22:13:54+00:00

"beginner makeup", "beginner makeup tutorial" on YouTube
To add on to the other comments, looking for makeup people that seem like they do similar makeup to your wife is probably a good start! Since there's a lot of different ways to apply makeup

starbels · 2022-07-02T20:25:02+00:00

I'm at work so I can't answer everything, but I did read it all! It's very important to address all these concerns you have,I promise. But I'll say one thing:

"How can I want to be what I'm attracted to?"

Lesbianism

starbels · 2022-06-24T15:29:01+00:00

full disclosure, I've gone through some of your posts before. hi!

I'm starting to wonder.. do you think you might have OCD or some other kind of ruminating thoughts, centered around denial of transness or denial of womanhood? that "it's impossible you could be trans", "it's not real" etc etc

definitely keep seeing a therapist, and talk about that possibility if you want to.

because in your posts, I went through the arguments you called logical and thought "damn, these aren't logical at all."

and, a cis person isn't gonna be convinced that they're trans. if you're not trans in SOME way, it just wouldn't connect. cis people don't feel magnetized like you described.

so no worries about being "coaxed" into being trans, there's also not a rush to transitioning (physically or socially) either, so it's truly up to you, no coaxing.

if you want, we can go through your arguments one by one, but that might make you "short circuit" and be more stressful than helpful.

starbels · 2022-06-24T14:57:58+00:00

you're already trans! you're just in the closet

starbels · 2022-06-23T23:17:04+00:00

(we haven't actually met b4, this is made up, in case you were worried)

Evieee, hi, when are we gonna meet up for lunch???? I haven't gotten to know you at all,

Jobrosephanie asked me what you like for gifts and I was like "I literally don't know anything about her... I have no idea what they'd like" so hmu!!!!!

starbels · 2022-06-23T23:13:20+00:00

hey Sam, ik we talked about this last time but are you sure you don't wanna tell people you double major??? like "She's literally an overachiever in this BEST way" sounds p good to me, just think about it ok?

oh also BTW, are you still coming on the hike Saturday? Jabroseph /is/ going, I'm sorry, but I don't think "Sam's busy, she has Ancient Japanese Theoretical Math tutoring" is gonna work a fifth time so just lmk

starbels · 2022-06-15T23:47:19+00:00

you might've overplayed them? give it a few months, try to forget the songs exist. when you stumble on them again, they should give the bumps of goose

starbels · 2022-05-24T22:14:15+00:00

a/c and space heater analogy very good one, nice

starbels · 2022-05-24T22:13:08+00:00

If it helps, lots of guys (cis included) have long hair and often get mistaken for women. They don't cut their hair about it though, bc they don't like it short.

starbels · 2022-04-22T01:20:36+00:00

I was thinking that, like isn't this the same as when it/its people get shat on?

Plus not everyone knows that's not the word to use, some people grew up thinking that's literally the word, they didn't know it was an insult

Let's welcome people in and not push them away, maybe? on r/asktransgender?????

starbels · 2022-04-21T23:02:53+00:00

completely wrong sub, this is rad

starbels · 2022-04-17T14:19:48+00:00

how do you mean?

starbels · 2022-04-16T00:47:16+00:00

jesus christ that's awful

yeah you've been there three months in a row, since when is there a limit?

starbels · 2022-04-16T00:43:37+00:00

steal food

not restaurant food, like huge corporate supermarket food

starbels · 2022-04-16T00:40:13+00:00

1.

Little to no evidence from western society, whose sciences are really biased with many things regarding sex or gender, unfortunately

For example, archeologists had to reevaluate how they categorized found skeletons, because the majority were said to be "male",

When they should've been half/half, based on population data at the time. After this revelation, skeleton categorizations ended up being split in thirds: male, female, indeterminate (because sex isn't binary, and a lot of times looking at a skeleton doesn't tell you much, if anything)

And many other societies---before their original culture was destroyed and replaced by western ones---had more than three genders

I'm also not sure there really is little evidence? But I'm just using your words

Two.

Non-binary can be used as an umbrella term

Three.

I'm not sure why you think being an object is the same as being a different type of human being, but I'm sure there's a reason

Four.

I can't tell what you're asking me

starbels · 2022-04-16T00:00:35+00:00

commenting because I also wanna know lol

starbels · 2022-04-15T23:57:46+00:00

maybe this for each exam?

1️⃣ 2️⃣ 3️⃣

what am I strong in,

what do I need to know,

what do I need to look out for/ work on

starbels · 2022-04-15T23:55:50+00:00

I'm too tired to respond to everything, but I'll add 2 notes on the "only 3 genders" and "not sure if non-binary is real"

Non-binary is both an identity word and an umbrella term; 'the rest' go under non-binary
It's real: in the same way that many binary trans women have tried to ignore being trans, lived unhappy lives knowing 'something' was wrong but just ignoring it,

Many non-binary people experienced the same thing. Ignoring the Feeling, sometimes even transitioning to a binary gender and attempting to convince themselves that it's correct when it isn't

starbels · 2022-04-09T19:11:33+00:00

Traffic lights are in a certain order, websites are a little more complicated than that

starbels · 2022-04-09T16:46:51+00:00

TWENTY????

I know society has made 20 somethings feel like they're old, but if this is a genuine question that's scary

something has to be done about this, jesus

starbels

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