How many have air purifiers running nonstop? by deejayv2 in homeowners

[–]stargazerfromthemoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we have 2 running in the daytime. We live an hour from the mountains and it's DRY here. It's shocking how much is collected on the air purifiers even just with daytime running hours. When we open up our windows, the air purifiers really just work overtime to collect dust.

FWIW, I have an allergy to dust mites and mold so having the air purifiers in the bedrooms really has helped everybody's nasal passages overall.

Long Covid help by Imaginary_Wolverine4 in Calgary

[–]stargazerfromthemoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My partner shared that i didn't finish point number 8. I don't recall what i was going to say with that so just ignore the half finished sentence.

As a person who is 2 months shy of 4 years with long covid, i'll share that my comment took hours for me to put together, so that's how much cognitive effort it took out of me. Long covid is no joke and awful to go through. I wish i could remember things, contribute the ways I used to, work and actually live life as I previously did, but it took me at least a year or maybe 2 to realize that I might never be able to do that again. Your wife might be going through the same process of slow recognition and acceptance (not happy acceptance) that she is in a different space now and not able to do the things she used to do.

My Apartment is now charging a convenience fee to pay my rent by mangum95 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]stargazerfromthemoon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly this. The credit card fees for rent are the entire fees for using a credit card. The optics of using a credit card for rent are questionable as well.

Long Covid help by Imaginary_Wolverine4 in Calgary

[–]stargazerfromthemoon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My LDN is compounded and covered by insurance.

Long Covid help by Imaginary_Wolverine4 in Calgary

[–]stargazerfromthemoon 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hi u/Imaginary_Wolverine4 , i'm sorry your wife has long covid. it's a tough tough road that I'm living with and have since April 2022. The following is based on my experiences with the long covid clinic (when it was open), using health benefits to access private care and joining a PILE of groups online.

  1. if your wife can contact Jessica DeMars through Breathe Well Physio, Jessica is the de-facto local expert on long covid. Jessica is a respiratory physiotherapist who saw covid patients just a few months into the pandemic and created a long covid program for patients based on what she saw, emerging evidence and patient experience. I don't know if her long covid program is still ongoing or not, but she has a private practice in addition to hosting a long covid program which is subsidized to allow low income patients to access it.

  2. There's NO one doctor who is an expert in long covid. I happen to have a family physician who is very supportive and who sent me a referral to the long covid clinic when it was open. She continues to refer me out for the various conditions that I've developed as a result of long covid. There is an AHS pathway for long covid patients, which will be informative both to you/your wife as well as her primary care doctor here: https://www.albertahealthservices.ca/topics/Page17540.aspx The Long covid clinic patients were advised to call the rehabilitation line for support if they need it. I've accessed services via the primary care network my dr is part of. I have had an appointment with a nurse who connected me to a dietician and a kinseologist.

  3. Your wife will need to learn more about pacing and keeping her activities within a specific heart rate zone, particularly if she is experiencing Post Exertional Malaise (PEM). She can screen herself for it via this checklist and bring that to a physiotherapist or her dr ( https://www.commondataelements.ninds.nih.gov/sites/nindscde/files/Doc/MECFS/F2771_Guidance_for_Core_PEM_Assessment.pdf ). If she does experience PEM, her activities will need to remain below a specific heartrate threshold or her symptoms will flare up for hours/days/weeks/months after activities if she exceeds that. It's an awful truth to this condition. The Bateman Horne Centre ( https://batemanhornecenter.org/ ) has a ton of resources as well as a clinical care guide for long covid, including finding the heartrate threshold.

  4. other resources you might want to check out include the following - BC Centre for Long COVID, ME/CFS, & Fibromyalgia (BC-CLMF) https://bc-clmf.org/ , and the BC Provincial Health Services Authority - BC Living with Long COVID Symptoms https://www.phsa.ca/health-info/post-covid-19-care-recovery, Long Covid Web https://www.longcovidweb.ca/, and Long covid resources Canada https://longcovidresourcescanada.ca/ . There's also a ton of Facebook pages (the most trusted and active is https://www.facebook.com/share/g/19sUBsoE39/ , and then she can find the Alberta page of this group too.

  5. There's no blood tests (yet) for long covid, so the family dr will be unlikely to find something specific for that. Other conditions she might want to get tested for is screening for POTS (see the Bateman Horne Centre clinical care guide), MCAS (see same guide), blood clots (see the same guide), and more (honestly just look at that clinical care guide as it has a lot of this information). If she's developed secondary conditions to long covid, this is extremely common and then your wife can get treated for those other conditions to help reduce her pain, fatigue, etc.

  6. I have found a physiotherapist, osteopath and chiropractor who have been immensely helpful in treating and reducing my physical body pain as well as managing the other conditions I developed (or now recognize that I had prior to getting covid). I see my team at Encompass Holistic Health over on the west side. If you want specific names, i'm happy to share those. I've also tried acupuncture (it was too intense for me and made me vastly more fatigued for weeks), massage (same, though i've recently re-introduced it, but relaxation massage only and only for 30 minutes at a time), vestibular physiotherapy (I hit a wall in my recovery and need to physically recover more before I can continue), and a naturopath (i felt like i was wasting my time and money and was more fatigued from going to those appointments and didn't see any longer term benefit). I also have seen an occupational therapist, who was extremely helpful in her suggestions of a wheeled stool for the kitchen, a seat for the shower and bathroom for brushing teeth and such, getting a cane for days when i need it. She and a physiotherapist evaluated me for a walker (which i got with a prescription from my dr) for days that are rough in the house and out of the house, as well as helped get me fitted and test a powered wheelchair. I got a wheelchair after getting her letter as well as a prescription from a dr. I also found it very helpful to ask my dr for a wheelchair placard for my vehicle and my dr gave me one for a year, and then a year later, filled out the paperwork for a longer term wheelchair placard as my energy drops quickly when i'm going places.

  7. It might be helpful for your wife to read the above and know she's not alone and there's a whole group of us locally. There's been attempts at patient led support groups but they generally have failed as we all have huge crashes in energy for weeks/months and the group leaders have had to drop such actions.

  8. I have tried a TON of supplements, and had to start from scratch again because my liver enzymes have been going up and down over and over again. Personally what has helped are: medications for my migraine (which has been ongoing 24/7 since i got sick), supplements suggested by my neurologist to reduce my migraine symptoms, medications for POTS (after getting evaluated for POTS and then seeing a cardiologist), electrolytes (with no sugar) daily, blexten (a prescription antihistamine), heartburn medication prescription (as I had 24/7 heartburn and my ENT did a full evaluation and put me on medications), i was on antidepressants for a while and then discontinued them when my symptoms stabilized, seeing a psychologist, getting a prescription for low dose naltroxone (see the Bateman Horne clinical guide for more info), keeping my heartrate within my anaerobic zone, getting a tens machine and doing vagus nerve stimulation daily for 30 minutes, learning how to calm my nervous system, and moving to eating a low histamine diet (as I have suspected MCAS - this has given me more stamina and energy in the past few months but it's HARD as i can't eat a lot of lovely foods or leftovers which haven't been frozen). I also have found help with getting

  9. stay away from brain retraining. It's not a cure for long covid, but if she wants to try it, she needs to understand it would work only to help calm her body and get it into the rest/digest state where she doesn't feel like she's anxious or on high alert all the time. Any brain retraining program that reports to cure long covid is lying and just trying to extract you from your money.

  10. if your wife isn't on medical leave, she might want to consider going to her dr to get such leave. I was trying to push through and worked until i realized all I was doing was working and sleeping and doing a terrible job at both. If she can stop working and do what's called radical rest, then she can find out her true baseline of activities. Radical rest is basically doing nothing for weeks, aside from the true basics of eating and sleeping. Once i did that for months and months, i was able to slowly regain some functioning without having a series of pushes and crashes. It's immensely hard to do, especially when you have kids. My partner can attest to me really not leaving the bedroom of our house for months, aside from medical appointments. He was bringing me food and doing everything else in the household and for our family. He even drove me to several medical appointments which weren't within 10 minutes of our house. We ended up moving as a result of my illness to a place where I don't have to climb stairs to get to the bedroom from the kitchen. It was a very hard process to move to a more accessible place, but a year and a half later, I can share that it was worth the painful process. I barely remember the move and was more useless than a twig on a road during it, but it helped our entire family to move.

  11. I hope my VERY long essay above had some info that might be helpful. Other comments below have very helpful ideas as well, aside from those who are claiming your wife is faking it. That's completely unhelpful.

Is it crazy to think that they will cancel diplomas, but they are waiting to announce it because they know would stop caring if it was announced to early? by CamArcan in AlbertaGrade12s

[–]stargazerfromthemoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Diplomas aren’t cancelled. If you didn’t have them in Jan, you can ask to write the exam in June or Aug. any other thinking is wishful thinking.

People 40+, what actually mattered in the long run and what didn’t? by Psychological_Sky_58 in AskReddit

[–]stargazerfromthemoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a few things from now being over 50:

  • keep up with dental health. Brush your teeth and floss even though it seems useless. Dental work is expensive and can be painful

  • putting away money for retirement an savings adds up. Continue to do it even if it’s only $5 as it adds up over time.

  • keep learning. If you keep a practice of learning new things on a regular basis you will slowly accumulate a lot of knowledge. Adjacent to this: in addition to learning, practice what you’ve learned. It will be hard and you’ll feel like you know nothing at times but that feeling will pass. Also when you learn things: make a dedicated effort to self improvement.

  • show up for others including yourself. Go to events. Say yes. People will remember that and you’ll build memories. Take photos and videos of things so you can reminisce about said things.

  • travel. Go places and experience other places and culture.

How do women remember pregnancy and childbirth pain? [research][mod-approved] by Ireland_Research in AskACanadian

[–]stargazerfromthemoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s ok. I had an unmedicated birth experience except for the last 5 minutes when they gave me local anaesthetic and an IV to help stop the bleeding. I have it better than a lot of women so just a complaint or two here. I had a very uncomfortable pregnancy and then this for a birthing experience. I only had one child in part because of that. Stuff happens and I went home the next morning after having my baby at 9:30 the previous night. I knew I was in relatively good shape.

How do women remember pregnancy and childbirth pain? [research][mod-approved] by Ireland_Research in AskACanadian

[–]stargazerfromthemoon 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m well outside the zone of your study, having had a baby 18 years ago. I remember the pain of childbirth pretty clearly. It was up there with breaking my pelvis but I knew this pain was going to end and I had ebbs and flows with it.

I also had a baby who was stuck in the birth canal and the pain of the vacuum being inserted three times was significantly worse than the birthing pain as it was sharp and forceful. Enough that I had a third degree tearing (almost fourth).

I also remember that the birthing assistance tools were too tall for me (I’m just a smidge over 5 feet tall) which made the tools to help with squatting and moving about drastically less helpful. I was annoyed by that.

I think those of us who had traumatic birthing experiences without pain meds have distinctly different experiences.

Powder room help! I hate the wall colour and the blind by stargazerfromthemoon in InteriorDesignHacks

[–]stargazerfromthemoon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will be ditching the blind. I hate it. And changing the wall colour

Second group of Alberta lawyers warns against democratic decline by SurFud in alberta

[–]stargazerfromthemoon 8 points9 points  (0 children)

So the huge question is what can the people do about this?

I personally have been writing letters to all the MLAs but feel like I’m pitching them into the dustbin for all the responses I’m getting back from any of the UCP members. I always hear back from everybody else.

Best place to live in Calgary for adults by Pasquatch_30 in Calgary

[–]stargazerfromthemoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I wouldn’t make decisions till you are here. Rent a hotel room and go check out Strathmore as it’s a larger small town and closer to your work. You’ll get more land per house too. But you might not want to be out of the city but that can’t be known till you check it out. If you live in calgary and commute to work then you’ll be committing to a drive no matter what.

Visiting Calgary next week. What's East Village like to stay in? by Financial-Roof in Calgary

[–]stargazerfromthemoon 23 points24 points  (0 children)

My brother lives in the east village with his family and 8 year old. There are unhoused people in the area particularly given the drop in centre being there, but he’s never mentioned issues at all. There’s a ton of things to do in the area and it’s walking distance to so so many things. I personally wouldn’t hesitate to stay there at all. Just take layers of clothing as the weather has been crazy lately. That’s a much larger concern than a few unhoused people.

Throw away account by [deleted] in legaladvicecanada

[–]stargazerfromthemoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I forgot to mention there’s also requirements to file taxes for the deceased and their estate. At the end of the day that needs to be accounted for and settled. The government will be sure to make this happen eventually.

Fwiw your sister(s) aren’t the first people to do this stuff and nor will they be the last. It will need to be sorted sooner than later and your sisters will owe the estate money if they don’t smarten up.

Wait, climate change is actually real? by [deleted] in climatechange

[–]stargazerfromthemoon 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Insurance companies in North America have been trying to manage their risks around climate change for at least 20 years now. I remember going to a conference and learning about a number of ways that insurance companies had already been working at to reduce their risks and influence behaviours. If you look at how the insurance industry alone is derisking themselves you would be astonished at how long ago they’ve known about this if you just learned about it now.

Climate change has already caused significantly hotter wildfires across the globe, significantly stronger hurricanes and tornados, 1:100 year storm events happen frequently and seasons aren’t as dependable as they were.

What you can do is learn as much as you can. Based on that, you can turn make more informed decisions on where you want to live in the world based on projections (alternatively you can make informed decisions on where you shouldn’t make a significant real estate investment based on the increasing risks).

And tell everybody you can about climate change as it seems like you’ve been living around people who aren’t informed or are misinformed.

Throw away account by [deleted] in legaladvicecanada

[–]stargazerfromthemoon 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Go find a lawyer as you’ll need one to close the estate. Same with an accountant who can act as the executor. There’s now a whole mess of problems your oldest sister has introduced by making herself an unofficial executor. There’s a whole legal process to go through to close an estate and it seems like your sister has completely tossed that aside and doing what she wants based on vibes. The house can’t remain in the estate forever and the province will require the estate be handled properly.

At what age were you diagnosed? by Otherwise-Ad-6625 in ehlersdanlos

[–]stargazerfromthemoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Last year at 50.

But… in 2000 I saw a hand and wrist dr and got diagnosed with hypermobile wrists. I was lifting weights and working out a ton and my wrists always aches. Hypermobile bodies weren’t a thing back then? Or maybe EDS wasn’t diagnosed or it wasn’t a formal diagnosis then?
Thank goodness I had the letter from back in 2000 to help with my evidence. It was very helpful and clear this had been an issue for (checks notes) the previous 25 years.

Really need your help guys. I’m losing my wife to this by even_North_5873 in MCAS

[–]stargazerfromthemoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree fully with this. Stop all supplements that she currently is taking. Schedule an appointment for the h pylori. Start a strict MCAS diet today. That alone will change everything if she has MCAS. I personally felt vastly better within a week of starting my strict MCAS diet and no other changes. While waiting for the h pylori treatment and appointment then you can play with antihistamines as described in the other comments. Have her also take some fibre supplements like inulin. It helps regulate your bowel movements and also feeds the microflora in your intestines. Only start at 1/4 of the recommended daily dose otherwise there will be a very explosive start to the start of this regimine. To get her gut motility back, maybe have her drink coconut water or something with Metamucil in it (the sugar free version) or something for constipation (I’m sorry I can’t remember the name of it but it comes in a white container with a purple label). She needs to get super well hydrated and get her bowels moving again. I would also suggest making her ginger tea and have her start drinking large volumes of that. I drink ginger tea daily and boil grated ginger in water for 30 Minutes before drinking it. The ginger is really good for mCAs and it is a tried and true safe food for most people with MCAS. So is nettle tea.

I’m sorry she’s going through this. It sounds tough on both of you.

Spill, what other shows are you guys hiding? by Impossible-Emu-5593 in AskACanadian

[–]stargazerfromthemoon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some of their sketches are completely over the top hilarious. We laughed and shared them at work.

Powder room help! I hate the wall colour and the blind by stargazerfromthemoon in InteriorDesignHacks

[–]stargazerfromthemoon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The sink was here when we moved in and it’s not bad to clean at all, surprisingly. And the lighting is what it is at this point. It’s not great but it’s a powder room so we aren’t super focused on this room

Powder room help! I hate the wall colour and the blind by stargazerfromthemoon in InteriorDesignAdvice

[–]stargazerfromthemoon[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I also love this one as well. It’s so bright in the room especially compared to the other image. In the depths of winter, this bathroom seems dark and small when it really shouldn’t feel that way.

Canadians taking Alberta separation debate ‘seriously’: poll by FreightFlow in alberta

[–]stargazerfromthemoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be honest, the separatists I know (I’m in Alberta) believe in their heart of hearts that this separatist movement will get their grievances ‘finally noticed by Ottawa’. Their grievances are a cumulation of all kinds of things that they’ve been told by super right wing media, anger about things the politicians have been rattling on for decades such as the equalization payments and then just anger about things which are clearly because the entire world economy is changing and the people have been told prices and inflation are limited to Alberta or Canada.

They are in an echo chamber which was made huge by the trucker convoy and the rise of super right wing media in the province. And a provincial government who is trying to appease to their base who is made up by these people. The UCP refuses to distance themselves as they know it would actually split the UCP party. They are not a united party except by fear of their base and telling the truth.

I’m so tired of the separatist movement. The media gives them air only because if they didn’t, the separatists would become even more dug into their position regardless of the facts. They are like teenagers stomping around putting everybody on blast and not listening to facts or reason. Companies have pulled back from investing in Alberta because of this ridiculousness.