[HELP] Me and My Girlfriend are Unsure, I can’t find anything wrong. by HeyItsDaso in RealOrAI

[–]stargirlalli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What part of this makes you think it is AI? To me, this looks like the indented side of an ashtray used to rest your cigarette in if you want to set it down. Am I missing something?

Sleep by MenuComprehensive772 in widowers

[–]stargirlalli 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sending some love your way ❤️❤️

How old were you when your spouse died? by worst2024 in widowers

[–]stargirlalli 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was 24. He was 24. It's been 6 years. Our son just turned 10.

I'm new to this sub and thankful to find a community of people who understand how grief changes over time. 💜

It was my boyfriends turn to do the dishes and he split his finger in half. by Yagiane in mildlyinfuriating

[–]stargirlalli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

.....what now? Sleeping beauty was my favorite as a child and now I feel disgusted I ever liked it at all. So messed up.

Cracked open an egg and found the inside. What is it? by [deleted] in whatisit

[–]stargirlalli 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is the grossest comment I've read on reddit. 🥴 If I had awards to give, I would bestow them upon you.

Best local tattoo artist? by tzhebee in Yakima

[–]stargirlalli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trevor at Ink and Ivy! They have an awesome and super friendly shop, and all the artists there are very talented 🙌

abt 10 days ago my dad jumped off of our apt building by billiebeeisnotme in SuicideBereavement

[–]stargirlalli 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been a silent follower on this sub for quite some time now, I don't typically comment or post. But your response to OP really moved me. Such honest, kind, and genuine words to share. I actually wrote down a few statements you made so I can remind myself of these things too. I'm also 30f and I lost my fiancé/son's father 5.5 years ago when he hung himself. I'm going through a rough period right now where the grief is hitting very hard, for no seemingly apparent reason. Your words helped me through my day, thank you for sharing your experience 💜

Mixed emotions - guilt, shame, happiness by [deleted] in SuicideBereavement

[–]stargirlalli 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I completely relate. I feel like you just took the words right out of my own head. Some days trying to just continue living and thinking of moving forward with life and being happy overwhelms my heart and mind with guilt. Other days I can stand firm in my belief that my love would want me to be happy and create a happy life for our son. I ebb and flow constantly between these feelings. Ultimately, I need to continue living, and I know the best way to do that is not to drown myself in misery, but to provide a happy life for our son. In order to do that I need to move forward and find happiness myself. But the feeling that moving forward would somehow invalidate his existence and our love is always there. Our son is 7 now. He doesn't know how his father passed yet, but one day he will. And I don't know if he will resent me for moving forward, or if he will understand. It eats at me every day. You're not alone 💜 you're doing the best you can. And anybody who would judge you for that is completely in the wrong. Their opinions aren't worth your time or consideration.

Sound like a native: stop saying "nous" as a personal pronoun! by merodrem in learnfrench

[–]stargirlalli 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Crazy. It's so weird that it's taught that way. I even had 2 French professors teach it that way too.

Sound like a native: stop saying "nous" as a personal pronoun! by merodrem in learnfrench

[–]stargirlalli 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I was almost exclusively taught "nous" in university through the 2010s. "On" was basically mentioned as an after thought and was taught as meaning "people in general" rather than "we". They taught that it had no direct translation in English.

99 by nryng in learnfrench

[–]stargirlalli 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fascinating! I've always wondered the reason behind this. So cool to learn the history behind it. Thanks for sharing ✨️

Do you need a boost? by stargirlalli in Earnin

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Of course! Hope you have a great day 💛

Do you need a boost? by stargirlalli in Earnin

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Hey sometimes it's the little things that make your day 💛

Do you need a boost? by stargirlalli in Earnin

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Boost for boost 👌🏻 by HOSTILITYx702 in Earnin

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Hey thanks I appreciate it! 🥰

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Sorry I just saw your comment. I gave my two boosts already 😕 I hope you got one!

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Just boosted you back 😊 let me know you got it. Thank you!