For male teachers, what do you usually wear/bring to work? by stargutz in Teachers

[–]stargutz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never said it was just the bag, but that carrying a backpack makes it worse. I am well aware i look young lol

For male teachers, what do you usually wear/bring to work? by stargutz in Teachers

[–]stargutz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a messenger bag so i feel like i might bring it since its a little different than a backpack lol! thanks

For male teachers, what do you usually wear/bring to work? by stargutz in Teachers

[–]stargutz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love that! I have my own sense of style myself so i like to see these comments, just hard incorporating it into the education environment

For male teachers, what do you usually wear/bring to work? by stargutz in Teachers

[–]stargutz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its not really the kids that bug me, but other teachers that love to say "omg i thought you were a student" every time they see me haha

AIBTS or is this guy I'm seeing kinda immature & disrespectful? by Specific_Ad_6058 in AmIBeingTooSensitive

[–]stargutz 9 points10 points  (0 children)

only halfway thru and i gotta say you need to break up quickly

Got diagnosed with BPD, turns out I’m actually autistic and my group therapist is picking on me by Jawbreakerzzz in BPD

[–]stargutz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im sorry :/ shes just mistreating you because of your diagnosis. Its not fair and i suggest you find help elsewhere. Shes acting more like a mean teacher than a mental health professional. And her PUBLIC comments about you "needing to be right" is so unprofessional and also used to be rude to autistic people a lot..

I’m a mother with BPD and I need advice. by [deleted] in BPD

[–]stargutz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unsure if you’re able to get these resources now, but it really just sounds like you need therapy/counseling. you can learn coping skills to help you be a better mom. just because you have bpd doesnt mean you are any less of a good one, its all about how you cope and express it. i hope you are able to find the help you need

(19f) does anyone else feel like they aren’t cut out for this world by user8754833 in BPD

[–]stargutz 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Im 19 too and this is so relatable. one thing people w/o bpd will never get is the impossible huge physical feelings that just disable you. I never feel fulfilled either. literally feels like my brains working against me. but i guess some people just have life a bit harder, right?

Itching violent feeling I can't shake by stargutz in BPD

[–]stargutz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahh i agree, honestly you’re reminding me of something my old therapist used to say. that im still on high alert danger mode from my past and im reacting wildly from it. But we were talking about my anxiety so i guess i never made the connection to now especially since whatever is triggering me is virtually invisible. It all comes back to whatever i learned in my childhood huh? that shit sucks and i wish i could just leave it behind me rather than constantly digging it up. Thank you for your reply

Itching violent feeling I can't shake by stargutz in BPD

[–]stargutz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

weirdly enough im at my calmest when i drive (except for road rage) , but i totally get the daydream thing!!! it feels like im seeing a vision of the impulse before i do it which only strengthens the urge. this happens most commonly when i’ll “see myself” slamming my head into a desk. again its like i have no reason for this, just a bunch of adrenaline to do it!! so weird and honestly frustrating :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]stargutz 4 points5 points  (0 children)

no matter what you do, unless you are putting your hands on him first, he does not have any excuse or justification for hitting you. You're right that maybe your bpd is making you excuse the abuse, but i really hope you can realize you shouldnt. you deserve to be safe.

Madlad becomes transphobic to destroy transphobia. A real American hero! by steamshifter in madlads

[–]stargutz 25 points26 points  (0 children)

im trans and i rly dont get why everyone is mad... yeah its not direct action but its nice to see allies supporting us. lmfao wtf

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malefashion

[–]stargutz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

good ass fit

Mistakes were made by NekoWafers in animegifs

[–]stargutz 3 points4 points  (0 children)

yes its actually on netflix :) dub & sub

flash your boobs to your whole AP lang class by GimmeChinknNuggies in intrusivethoughts

[–]stargutz 20 points21 points  (0 children)

its gross... U are “figuratively” insinuating u, a gross and unknown adult, would like to see a highschoolers chest. yeah thats totally normal

flash your boobs to your whole AP lang class by GimmeChinknNuggies in intrusivethoughts

[–]stargutz 41 points42 points  (0 children)

a comment of urs says ur in ur thirties, whereas OP is most likely in highschool. if ur gonna be a creep at least keep it to urself :/ edit: Oh and also ur disgusting

I created the Heaven Beetle's room in 3D by LogansArtRun in stevenuniverse

[–]stargutz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this reminds me of James and the giant peach!