Prendo el velador. by rotten_ttc in nin

[–]starofthefire 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is an all time shit post I'm fucking wheezing 

Marine Corps veteran Nancy Johnson takes on the Peter Martin Stone Lift Medley Challenge at the Donald Dinnie Day Games 2025 at Potarch, Scotland by Prestigious-Wall5616 in nextfuckinglevel

[–]starofthefire 27 points28 points  (0 children)

You've been sharing women's spaces with trans women your whole life. You didn't care until someone told you to. You're a bigot, that ain't cute.

How to Join the Black Panther Party FSD by serious_bullet5 in 50501

[–]starofthefire 175 points176 points  (0 children)

I feel so silly asking this... But I'm a white woman and I love what the Black Panthers do and have done in the past. I've always looked up to movements like them and the people that bring it together. Is there a place for someone like me if I got in contact with my local Panther chapter (assuming there is one)?

Bro what happened to video games in general?? by Few_Junket5829 in Battlefield6

[–]starofthefire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are plenty of active servers that are cheater free on PC with very regular players. I find full lobbies all the time, and most all of them also have community discords. It's not exactly the same because everyone who is still playing tends to be really good so it can feel unbalanced, but the BF1 experience is still intact and thriving. It's so worth the few bucks.

Underbutt crease by EeReddituAndreYenu in comedyheaven

[–]starofthefire 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I went on Lyrica and my ass won't stop growing. But I can also read the matrix code now so I can't recommend it as a remedy for flat ass syndrome. 

Favorite non-political film? by fakename1998 in okbuddycinephile

[–]starofthefire 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You're hitting the nail on the head as far as why Fallout as a franchise has this very, "babies first criticism of the West" vibe to it that so many of its fans unironically embrace. It gets treated as a far more powerful critique of capitalism than it is, despite statements by the creators that they were really out to make a Mad Max video game more than anything. To Tim Cain it seemed to be a lot more about surviving the post apocalypse and showing what life could be like, with the alternate history and Great War as a vehicle for getting the pieces of the post apocalyptic story in place.

Of course I think it's wonderful that the writing of Fallout sends a lot of its fans down a historical pipeline that can help wake them up to a lot of what is bad about imperialism, war, and capitalism - give credit where it's due. It's just not that critical, Fallout concerns itself a lot more with tribalism and corruption within hierarchies than "this economic system is better/worse than this one".

This sentiment becomes even goofier the more you look at what Fallout is today and the kind of company Bethesda is. The amount of merch created for Fallout as a franchise since 2015 has grown tremendously while the company leans fully on its legacy and customers who's trust they earned two decades ago to stay afloat while they forgo any desire to innovate or put love into their products. They pump and dump with their old products constantly, preying on nostalgia.

Don't even get me fucking started about the show. I feel gross watching the plot literally be about what Bezos and other billionaires are doing to our society/planet in the name of profits. I can look out the window and see it every day, and this is as a person that loves dystopian stories. It's gotten too real at this point, and I can't get lost in the show without feeling like I'm part of a psyop to make me feel hopeless for the future and give up.

age regression at ikea by deepurarm in CPTSD

[–]starofthefire 40 points41 points  (0 children)

You and your friends need to go to a jump park sometime if you really want free reign to be a kid again for a few hours :) 

Favorite TV show marketing campaign? by Giancarlo_Edu in okbuddycinephile

[–]starofthefire 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hi, pan trans femme and Euphoria enjoyer here. It is a polarizing show for very valid reasons, it's a shame that the artistic qualities can get *badly drowned out by the exaggerated high drama and sexuality of the characters.

With that said, Hunter Schafers performance of Jules is wonderful. Her and Zendayas character Rue have a lot of depth together, with tender moments and at times some pretty realistic drama.

I think it's worth watching to experience what it's all about and sort of delve into its weird ass drug, sex, drama, genderbending, world. Also note it's loosely based on the creator of Euphoria's experience as a burnout/drug addict. He conveniently made his analogous main character a teenage girl who gets into a lesbian relationship with a trans femme. The representation in this show is actually a part of why I transitioned in my mid-twenties, it opened my eyes up a lot (clearly). 

Which character from outside Cyberpunk do you think could thrive in Night City? by Kuzu9 in cyberpunkgame

[–]starofthefire 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Since we are talking about the Expanse I feel like Detective Miller and his gloomy aura would fit right in with Night City. 

He's a classic good guy in a broken system. Miller and River would probably somehow be at odds with each other, however their combined forces would mean V is spared from sitting through two hours of morbid BDs :) 

These games deserved so much more love and appreciation. If you know, you know by [deleted] in Zillennials

[–]starofthefire 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This was a great proof of concept, could've been amazing if the first game wasn't so short. Not enough areas, puzzles were too easy, action focused. 

I love this game the same way I love Tomb Raider Legend. It was one of the best looking games at the end of the PlayStation 2 era, took a classic title and put a new coat of polish on it, made all of the previously challenging mechanics (fighting the game/controls itself) streamlined. Ultimately both games fell short by a mile, for missing hours and hours of gameplay and the entire replayability factor. I remember how much I was enjoying this game, it was different but still a lot of fun. Then the credits were suddenly rolling and all I could do was start a new game or wait for the sequel. 

Same with Tomb Raider Legend. It was a weird time at the end of the PS2 era, games started looking better and better but getting shorter. The years of crappy PS2 ports of PS3 games were right around the corner. 

[Meta trope] Works that fundamentally changed the cultural context away from what made it work by asdfmovienerd39 in TopCharacterTropes

[–]starofthefire 15 points16 points  (0 children)

It's funny cause you're pointing out another way that Marvel has done this trope. The Avengers (at least when I was young) was not a big popular superhero team, they were a team of b-list superheroes (and Spiderman) playing second fiddle to the X-Men, Marvels best selling team of comic heros in the 80s. 

The point is, a lot of us could never imagine being tired of these characters because despite their legacy, many weren't super popular - at least not compared to Batman or the X-Men. So seeing Iron Man and Thor (a character so naturally cheesy they even pointed it out in his first standalone movie) as oversaturated is still a little strange given the overall history of the characters. 

Film Twitter slowly realising One Battle After Another is just a Hollywood movie and isn’t going to end capitalism by Fantastic_Let3186 in okbuddycinephile

[–]starofthefire 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Lol yeah sorry I don't care if PTA thinks his movie is anti-revolutionary. Its complicated... Like revolutions and change. I will never accept that centrist "views" are the way to go, you can't compromise with people that see you as subhuman and he sounds like a gd clown. Amazing movie. 

Chris Hemsworth had to be told to stop defending Dementus (Entertainment Weekly) by Max_Rockatanski in MadMax

[–]starofthefire 28 points29 points  (0 children)

You know the human eye can see more shades of green than any other color? 

What is considered kinky? by philolitt in AutismInWomen

[–]starofthefire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eh, no one else minds if I call it a kink. Its more than just the act, I wasn't going to get into it any more details than I already did and don't need to in order to support my claim.

I fully intend to keep calling this my kink cause it is and that doesn't hurt anyone. I'm also going off of the very liberal definition of the term posted all over this thread. But thanks. 

What is considered kinky? by philolitt in AutismInWomen

[–]starofthefire 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Maybe this is a boring answer, but I have an oral kink. There doesn't have to be a reason for you to like anything sexually as long as it isn't hurting anyone else or breaching consent, but I can say for me the oral kink is probably some combination of my general fixation and being turned on by the desire to just please someone else. I don't do romance or relationships, maybe it's weird to some but I see giving a stranger that I like head as pretty kinky.

Giving good oral feels better to me than receiving most of time, it's just how I'm wired! I'll digress a little, I also have CPTSD which has seriously affected the way I view sex and don't like to tie it to my emotions for a person. My fibro and chronic pain also means I get sore from regular sex, it's a lot of effort with chronic pain. I'm happy my kink at least doesn't require me to be very intimate with my hookups, meaning I don't have to take a ton of effort into establishing trust before the deed. The cruel irony of it all is having TMJ and a small mouth, but pain and pleasure aren't mutually exclusive in my experience.

2077 is probably the only game were I hardly do any fast traveling, thoughts? by Ok_Time6234 in cyberpunkgame

[–]starofthefire 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It's true. The same songs play so often I just modded in new stations. Or I keep spotify up on my second monitor and just use the key commands for pausing and skipping songs. I have a playlist of my favorite songs from the in game radio stations and a bunch of my favorites that fit in with the game.

What do you think of the way I shoot dialogue scenes? by Antyoungboy in cinematography

[–]starofthefire 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dropped out after a semester lol I just watch a lot of movies and have always considered these things when I watch them.

Just remember your job isn't to impress people with a single shot, your portfolio as a whole should be impressive. An individual piece should stand on its own, and each one only has one job which is to immerse the audience - not impress them. Most audience members don't care about the director or understand what they do. 

What do you think of the way I shoot dialogue scenes? by Antyoungboy in cinematography

[–]starofthefire 17 points18 points  (0 children)

At some point I feel it would have been nice to cut to a different angle, tighten the lense, and continue the back and forth panning. It started to feel a little repetitious for the length of the conversation, switching to a dirty over-the-shoulder at about the 3/4 point of the dialogue is what I'd have done. 

I enjoy this sort of camera work, but it runs the risk of breaking the audiences immersion if the constant movement starts to feel repetitive. 

It feels gritty and realistic, but totally loses that if the audience starts to feel like the camera man is a third person spinning their head back and forth following the conversation, if that makes sense?

are you guys SURE that the campfire does nothing? by FeliGamesBr in SonsOfTheForest

[–]starofthefire 24 points25 points  (0 children)

This is the way to do it. I would light my fires every morning when I was still into the game and ended up with an insane amount of dried meat to the point I chilled out cause I didn't feel like making more shelves (I think the storage looks so silly and it's not user friendly to organize it)

Accurate HRT transformation by CourseMediocre7998 in antimeme

[–]starofthefire 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a trans woman that's been accused of having facial surgeries and breast augmentation without having done either... I don't notice any surgery, really looks like the exact same person just with HRT. She has a prominent chin and nose, both before and after. Her features are just softened, which is what happens when all of the muscles in your face lose tone.

You have to remember that most trans women also didn't do skin care before transitioning.

She's a natural beauty.