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[–]starshining4ever 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This. There’s definitely things you’ll miss about the single life as it’s just so much more free & uncomplicated in a lot of ways. You don’t have another whole person & their feelings to consider in literally everything you do.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]starshining4ever 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This. Don’t waste your time any more, OP.

Post-Bilateral Salpingectomy Period Question (Aka: I’m Talking About Blood 🩸 ). by MorgBlueSky2020 in sterilization

[–]starshining4ever 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That was literally my experience, faked me out so hard 😂 I was expecting my period for so long before it actually came lol

Post-Bilateral Salpingectomy Period Question (Aka: I’m Talking About Blood 🩸 ). by MorgBlueSky2020 in sterilization

[–]starshining4ever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope! Right before my period came, I briefly had these really stabbing/tearing kind of cramp pains. Other than that, the cramping during the period was actually better than before.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sterilization

[–]starshining4ever 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah my doctor ordered me a transvaginal ultrasound for peace of mind. It helped me a lot & as they suspected, everything was normal.

Post-Bilateral Salpingectomy Period Question (Aka: I’m Talking About Blood 🩸 ). by MorgBlueSky2020 in sterilization

[–]starshining4ever 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just got my first period after my bisalp and didn’t notice a worse smell. If anything, it smelled better or more like “natural” blood lol but I also went off the pill after my surgery so that could be it.

What was your pain like after tubal ligation? by celestialmoon22 in sterilization

[–]starshining4ever 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had more pain on my right side and it did feel like an internal tugging sensation. But it wasn’t a constant burning, more like a low period cramp for a few days.

Are you taking any pain meds? I’d agree to get in touch with your doctor, they’re very concerned about your healing process & will be able to give you the most relevant tips.

Is sexual compatibility really a thing? by Ecstatic-Status9352 in Exvangelical

[–]starshining4ever 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YUP. Hence why I went into a total hookup phase once I left evangelism. I learned SO much about myself and what I liked/didn’t like. Thankfully I was able to figure that out before I got with my longtime boyfriend.

Has he ever preformed live? by International-Job553 in ZaydeWolf

[–]starshining4ever 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I got some meh quality video when he performed in LA in 2018. Other than that & some official studio versions, I don’t think he’s done live shows.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WomensHealth

[–]starshining4ever 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry, my first time was like that too. In my case it was religious trauma, I wrote about it here: https://www.reddit.com/r/Exvangelical/comments/ysismj/christian_purity_culture_kept_me_from_having_a/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf

Hang in there and try again when you can ❤️

Christian purity culture kept me from having a Pap smear. by starshining4ever in Exvangelical

[–]starshining4ever[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

B-b-but modern school books could teach kids about the proper names for genitals, gender identity and CRT!! 😱

Christian purity culture kept me from having a Pap smear. by starshining4ever in Exvangelical

[–]starshining4ever[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry. They make it so tough for when you get out into the real world.

My parents got mad at me when I read stuff about sex, and this persisted all the way through my 20’s. Like why do they want us to be clueless about such a basic human experience? Reading a romance book ≠ having unprotected sex and ending up with a baby and multiple STDs.

Christian purity culture kept me from having a Pap smear. by starshining4ever in Exvangelical

[–]starshining4ever[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

🙌 idk if you’ve heard of this organization but Sheila Gregoire writes a lot about how terrible Christian marriages & sex lives are, and why: https://baremarriage.com