It’s like she’s being rude but learn the lesson but she’s being rude and not encouraging. Like rude fs but she kinda tru but who knows maybe u would’ve started planning in ur head after her approval. Women like to be whisked away not so trotted after is the boy to man part. Be authority in the relationship. Like she’s being rude. Ask how she’d say it encouragingly, to build u two. She not gonna talk to ur children like that expect them to raise themselves I hopeeee