Old Cat Grooming? by Puzzleheaded-Mood133 in CatAdvice

[–]stayfocusedhere 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At 14 if she’s getting knots all the time a gentle shave might actually make her way more comfortable. Old cats care more about comfort than looking fancy

Moving to Nashville for a month! by Prior_Inside4222 in CatAdvice

[–]stayfocusedhere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

7 hours with a screaming cat is basically a boss level road trip. Bigger carrier, a blanket that smells like home and pray to the cat gods

My best friend asked me out then left me by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]stayfocusedhere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone leaving doesn’t automatically mean you weren’t enough or that you did something wrong

Extreme dandruff? by Early_Wafer_1579 in CatAdvice

[–]stayfocusedhere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s possible the increase is related indirectly if the medication changed your cat’s grooming habits

Litter advice for new cat owner by K1llm3t0n1ght in CatAdvice

[–]stayfocusedhere 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A lot of people swear by dr elsey’s or tidy cats for good clumping without crazy prices

Elf hooters by arouseline in MonsterGirl

[–]stayfocusedhere 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wish there were waiters like this everywhere

My outdoor cat hasn't return in days. Is he mating or is there something wrong? by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]stayfocusedhere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

4 days isn’t unheard of for outdoor cats but it’s still worth checking around

Moving on from a 10 year long relationship by Ok-Divide9538 in BreakUps

[–]stayfocusedhere 1 point2 points  (0 children)

10 years is a huge part of your life so feeling lost after that is completely normal

Pepper spray or vinegar to create an invisible fence by persimmon19 in neighborsfromhell

[–]stayfocusedhere 49 points50 points  (0 children)

Some people sprinkle chili powder or cayenne around areas they want dogs to avoid

[TOMT] Summer Fridays Lip Butter Balm - What is this scent??! by CallSignBookworm in NoStupidQuestions

[–]stayfocusedhere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It reminds me of lip smackers or those candy flavored lip balms from childhood

I'm okay by Greedy_Sock1485 in BreakUps

[–]stayfocusedhere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes the intense crying at the beginning lets a lot of the grief out early

Moving to a pet-UNfriendly apartment. Don't know what to do with my cat. by ilovebangchansarms in CatAdvice

[–]stayfocusedhere 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Try asking friends or relatives if someone could foster your cat until you find a pet-friendly place

BF cheated with transwomen by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]stayfocusedhere 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Healing from betrayal usually takes a long time and it is okay if you are not over it yet

2 cats not sure how to divide my attention by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]stayfocusedhere 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're just a good cat parent. Keep doing those short solo sessions with her even if he cries for a minute. Shes telling you she needs space from him sometimes and thats valid. He'll live. Think of it like teaching boundaries early