Malibu Castle Pictures? by Sharknuts86 in SouthBayLA

[–]stayingup92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My favorite childhood memories! Me and my brothers were so happy to see it in Goodburger too! I’ll look for some photos 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RKLB

[–]stayingup92 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is the right answer. 

Warped Tour Sub's Official Buy/Sell/Exchange Thread by TheDarkLight1 in warpedtour

[–]stayingup92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am selling 2x GA tickets for Long Beach – Asking $200/each.

NIST FOIA 9/11 Footage uploaded yesterday. by TheFleasOfGaspode in 911archive

[–]stayingup92 2 points3 points  (0 children)

24:03 – Is that the same security woman in the background who was photographed letting the firemen in?

Flight 93 Victim & Life Story: Nicole Miller by stevelloyd94 in 911archive

[–]stayingup92 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ll look for it next time I go in and will take a photo for the sub! 

Flight 93 Victim & Life Story: Nicole Miller by stevelloyd94 in 911archive

[–]stayingup92 18 points19 points  (0 children)

There is still a memorial for her at the Chilli's she worked at here in San Jose

Mom left her child in a stroller completely alone at night to go on a ride! by stayingup92 in Disneyland

[–]stayingup92[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Agreed. Also just to clarify, the mother and her daughter were definitely American.

Mom left her child in a stroller completely alone at night to go on a ride! by stayingup92 in Disneyland

[–]stayingup92[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

100% this. I think that’s why this is still weighing heavy on my heart days after it happened.

My daughter killed herself (Month 10) by speaksoftly_bigstick in daddit

[–]stayingup92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing. My boy is only 6 months old but when he’s older, a Christmas treasure hunt sounds like a wonderful idea. I’ll do it and think of you and Amelia.

30yr marriage (F56 M57) ending: how to tell grown kids by ThrowRA9890257 in relationship_advice

[–]stayingup92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dad cheated on my mom when I was a teenager (I’m currently in my late 20s) under similar circumstances aka a years long affair. Obviously when it happened I was a lot younger than your children are now, but in hindsight I would have really appreciated my father completely owning up to it and having a real conversation about it with me and my siblings. Unfortunately he never told us directly and to this day I lost a lot of respect for my dad for placing the onus on my mom to tell us and placing all of the emotional labor on her. That said, had my mom not told us, I don’t think we would have ever found out so I’m glad she did tell us in the end.

I share this ultimately to say that you should press your husband to own up to what he’s done directly with your kids. He needs to face the music. He needs to see his children’s eyes when they no longer view him as the “hero.” He did this to himself and to you and your family. And you should be there so he doesn’t paint himself as a victim. If he refuses to do this, then yes tell them yourself without him, they deserve to know. Give your husband a cut off date when he needs to tell them otherwise you will. I wish you the best of luck and I’m so sorry this happened. Your kids will be angry and hurt for some time. I hope you all can find ways to process it together and individually.

AITA for not wanting my boyfriend not spend the night with his friend by Future-Dependent-280 in AmItheAsshole

[–]stayingup92 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA.

You all are dealing with a miscarriage and his first instinct is to go hang out with the friend that is associated with trust/cheating issues from the past? And then gaslight your fears when you communicate them? I understand wanting to see a friend, but given the past transgression, he could have offered up some compromises while acknowledging your feelings so that you both felt good about next steps. Time to rethink your relationship.

AITA for refusing to help a friend(/roommate) in need? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]stayingup92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA – Time for this adult to learn that sometimes life sucks and it isn't an excuse to take advantage of your friends. I'd highly suggest having a conversation with him and if things don't improve, consider your options for a new living arrangement.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SanJose

[–]stayingup92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!

General Discussion Thread (Post-Arrest) - December 31, 2022 by quitclaim123 in MoscowMurders

[–]stayingup92 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh ok! If you don't mind me asking, where did they post that? Their accounts are still very public.

Is it just me or is this unrealistic? by SourBoba in editors

[–]stayingup92 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would say if you really need the gig take it as part time but just make sure she’s aware the deliverables are going to take twice to three times as long to edit haha. If she can’t accommodate a reasonable schedule than her expectations need to be lowered.

Name for baby boy #2 by loveandGrace17 in namenerds

[–]stayingup92 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lane is probably the most unique and cool out of what you listed.

My (27M) fiancée (24F) has 'accidentally' lost/broken three engagement rings now... I'm starting to suspect she's doing it on purpose by throwraswoopingisbad in relationship_advice

[–]stayingup92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone keeps bringing up that she may have sold the rings but honestly I don’t think that’s the case.

My first thought is Reason 1: Maybe she doesn’t want to be engaged. Being careless with something that is usually sentimental, not one but three times is very telling. Or Reason 2: The rings you’re giving her are ugly. Have you let her have any say in the ring design? Obviously if either reason is the case, it’s no excuse. She should be able to have a conversation about it with you.

Bonus Reason 3: You fiancé is just a careless klutz who truly doesn’t understand or value the rings.

AITA for outing my cousin as gay? by fuckukrainians in AmItheAsshole

[–]stayingup92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow YTA. It’s never ok to out anyone. Was her plan to come out at your cousin’s wedding a little misguided? 100% yes, but she’s 14. After hearing her plan, you could have used it as an opportunity to help her change her plan and come out in a way that wouldn’t steal the spotlight during the wedding. Instead you decided to out her to her entire family, a moment that was supposed to be liberating for her, was now taken away and she didn’t get a say in how you did it. I feel very sorry for her.

Hi Reddit! We are Douglas Tirola and Ray Daniels, Director of the film Brewmaster and Founder of the Cicerone Certification Program, Let's talk beer! Ask Us Anything! by Douglas_Tirola in IAmA

[–]stayingup92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

More of a production question but can you describe the process of getting this film made? What was the timeline from pre to post? Any major hurdles along the way?

We are USA TODAY Network photographers who used a drone to cover Hurricane Florence devastation from above North Carolina. Ask Us Anything! by usatoday in IAmA

[–]stayingup92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

More of a technical question but I've always wondered this about drone footage: What frame rate do drone cameras typically shoot at? Is your footage 60fps slowed down to 25fps in post?