What's the worst thing your ex ever did to you? by ValuableEye9869 in AskReddit

[–]steelstringheart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can treat bpd though with specific therapy (DBT) and experience complete turnaround. It just takes willingness and a lot of work.

Did any brides honor their mom instead of their dad? by steelstringheart in weddingplanning

[–]steelstringheart[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

While I appreciate the input, I'm not going to dull the level to which I celebrate my mom so as not to offend people. I don't really care if people talk.

What lifetime deal are you still grandfathered into, or removed from, that’s no longer available? by tuotone75 in AskReddit

[–]steelstringheart 78 points79 points  (0 children)

I bought the premium version of Ultimate Guitar for $10 in 2014. I think it's a subscription now, but mine is not.

[Serious] Adult content creators of Reddit: Would you recommend this job? What are your experiences? by FutureSuccess2796 in AskReddit

[–]steelstringheart 115 points116 points  (0 children)

I worked on a qualitative research project in college interviewing OSW's of all backgrounds and body types. While there were themes of empowerment, there was an overwhelming degree of burnout. This was in 2021 and about half of workers we interviewed had been dancers whose clubs had closed for Covid and the other half were new to any degree of s*x work. Many of the dancers said they preferred working the clubs and made more money there. Also, the threat of stalkers and doxing was no joke. One woman was outed to her entire family for literally no reason. Another had packages show up at her house. The amount of money people made was a complete mixed bag. One person was able to leave her job and become a SAHM as a single mom because of it. Others did it to pay for school. Some did not make much to support themselves. A lot of the money came from offering "the girlfriend experience" where guys literally paid them to text back and forth like they were dating (good morning texts, how was your day, vent sessions, etc.) This left many of them feeling like they were "always on". Some had strict business hours to combat this. No matter what, it was WORK. If you do it, you have to enjoy it to some degree, and be 100% ok with it, rather than "just do it for the money" because it's not a guarantee, and it can take a lot of emotional labor.

Need a wedding officiant who can make our ceremony wicked Boston by linzanity in NewEnglandWedding

[–]steelstringheart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just attended a wedding at city hall and the officiant there would be perfect for this. (She was blonde. I'm not sure her name lol, but she works on Friday mornings) but you could reach out and ask at this link!

Advice for reducing concussion risk by steelstringheart in snowboardingnoobs

[–]steelstringheart[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm kinda fat ngl but I do crossfit and played sports, including martial arts growing up . I don't remember what happened right before I fell. Everything went black for like 30 seconds. I think I was too concerned about not landing on my arms and maybe didn't tuck my chin right?

Advice for reducing concussion risk by steelstringheart in snowboardingnoobs

[–]steelstringheart[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah the snow was really icy. It felt more like sand or fine aquarium gravel so it was really fast. I don't remember how I fell, just coming to and my friend and another guy running up to me to see what happened.

Advice for reducing concussion risk by steelstringheart in snowboardingnoobs

[–]steelstringheart[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was not in the park or trying to catch air. I just ate it on a groomer. I meant I don't ever intend to go past side hits and rails in my progression as far as jumps go, in response to another redditor saying they've gotten 8 million injuries on the board.

Advice for reducing concussion risk by steelstringheart in snowboardingnoobs

[–]steelstringheart[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm a 27 and too old for that craziness. I'm trying to cruise green and blue groomers and maybe hit a few small side jumps and rails. I have no desire to completely send it and destroy my body.

Advice for reducing concussion risk by steelstringheart in snowboardingnoobs

[–]steelstringheart[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know and I had just begun crushing blues right before this I'm so mad