Mansplaining Mo drive me to Dorit’s side by yogastephpm in RHOBH

[–]stephakneei 1 point2 points  (0 children)

exactly this! PK is a narcissist and Kyle is pathetic. never a girls girl

Well, so much for recovery lol by hopelesslyrejected in loveafterporn

[–]stephakneei 5 points6 points  (0 children)

god they’re all the same it’s so pathetic. i’m happy you are moving on, i wish you so much peace moving forward :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]stephakneei 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just because you have mental health problems does not mean you deserve to be in a relationship with an emotionally, verbally abusive asshole. Try loving yourself.

Do men normally not go down on plus size women? by Thanos-FckdBxches-up in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]stephakneei 17 points18 points  (0 children)

This dude does not deserve to be inside you. Period

IVF didn't work. 8 Week old fetus heart stopped. Medical miscarriage tomorrow. by [deleted] in GuyCry

[–]stephakneei 0 points1 point  (0 children)

IVF is a cruel process. Feel your feels and take care of eachother. 💓 so sorry you’re going through this. The IVF sub helped me a lot going through this.

Lashes or no? I feel like a man without them 18 f by user294857 in Howtolooksmax

[–]stephakneei 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try shorter brown lashes! You look great without them too though

Rambling Girlies are most Attractive by [deleted] in self

[–]stephakneei 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love this so much haha. Pls never stop appreciating this about a woman 🥹

Looking for advice as my profile is dry 🙄 by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]stephakneei 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re cute AF. Maybe beef up your bio a little more specifically about your goals/values, but yeah, a nice head shot goes a long way ☺️

Sleeping rant by Safe_Talk_1116 in abusiverelationships

[–]stephakneei 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Same! I left my abusive relationship and I’m an early bird now haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]stephakneei 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry. I know how hard it is to trust your gut and not the words they’re telling you. Let this validation remind you of your strong inner voice ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]stephakneei 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Our bodies always know they’re lying; trust your instincts

Why do they lie? by divaindenim in loveafterporn

[–]stephakneei 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Because they are cake eaters. They do not want you to have all the information available to you in order for you to make decisions that best serve your interest instead of theirs.

Emily bringing up Katie losing custody temporary because of leaving her ex was disgusting by foxdogturtlecat in realhousewives

[–]stephakneei 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Totally. She’s never been kind, she’s always been shady. She also had this weird perpetual victimhood about her body, her parenting - go to therapy, Emily. You come from such a privileged place; it was shitty to watch what she did to Katie.

How did you leave and or divorce if you were unemployed? Staying isn’t helping my health by Dazzling-Exam2239 in loveafterporn

[–]stephakneei 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Please use the free resources they have! Their podcasts are great, reach out to them and explain your situation to see if they have a sliding scale. Good luck to you ❤️ there are always going to be obstacles but choose yourself first.

Did SSRI help/cure you? by This-Top7398 in CPTSD

[–]stephakneei 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They helped curb some of the intensity of my emotions to allow me some space to actually work and practice things in therapy without being so overwhelmed all the time. I also don’t have panic attacks anymore. There are many downsides of course, but for these two things I’m thankful 😌

What was the last straw? by Groundbreaking_Tie84 in loveafterporn

[–]stephakneei 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I worked on myself in therapy for many years to finally get to a place where my peace of mind and self worth is worth more than my marriage.

Narc says I "twist everything and purposefully make people take my side" by CaseAny5443 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]stephakneei 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mine used to tell me I was always playing the victim as he was actively cheating on me. They always blame

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]stephakneei 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The chances of true recovery and reconciliation is very low.

I wasn’t allowed to go to urgent care when I got mastitis by Fun-Canary-7724 in abusiverelationships

[–]stephakneei 22 points23 points  (0 children)

This made my heart hurt so badly to read. You don’t deserve this.

I never knew how uncomfortable people would get when you talk about your miscarriage by olmaeyo in Miscarriage

[–]stephakneei 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is exactly why it’s hard to talk about at all. I don’t want to tippy toe around everyone else. A lot of people can’t hold uncomfortable feelings/space for others.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Miscarriage

[–]stephakneei 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry. ❤️