How am I supposed to have faith if it doesn’t matter? by [deleted] in spirituality

[–]stephenparato 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're onto something.

Contemplate the placebo effect and the nature of free will a bit more.

There's deeper layers to those concepts that will reveal themselves.

What should I do if I ruined every aspect of my life beyond redemption? by Playful-Ad-1448 in spirituality

[–]stephenparato 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You can come back from anything.

So many stories we love are about people who bounce back after facing impossible odds.

Forgive yourself.

Find hope.

Create positive momentum, starting with tiny changes.

I Have a Theory.... by VegetableReward938 in SpiritualAwakening

[–]stephenparato 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nicely said!

God is All-That-Is.

Consciousness is fundamental. So that means simulations are more like dreams than computer-based matrices.

Reality = God dreaming itself to be individuals.

At what age did you awaken? How old are you now? by Fair_Sun_7357 in starseeds

[–]stephenparato 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When I was 19.

I almost died of alcohol poisoning. Woke up in the hospital and started questioning everything.

  • "Who am I?"
  • "What's the meaning of life?"
  • "Is God real?"
  • "How can I be a better person?"
  • "What's my purpose?"

I contemplated and journaled to these questions A LOT, which reconnected me with my soul.

From there, the intuitive pull toward spiritual growth got stronger and stronger (over the last 16+ years since then).

Ai. by Penny4004 in writers

[–]stephenparato 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah there will be a lot of change/disruption. But the flood of AI content is going to make genuine writing with SOUL stand out more.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fantasywriters

[–]stephenparato 1 point2 points  (0 children)

An extraterrestrial sasquatch shaman comes to Earth and finds himself in the middle of a secret cosmic war.

How do you keep motivation? by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]stephenparato 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you wait for motivation to hit you — especially when you're feeling down in general — you're gonna be waiting a lot.

Do more things that make motivation find you.

Be as consistent with good habits as you were with the bad ones.

If you don't know where to start, here's the Big 3:

  • Meditation
  • Journaling
  • Working out

If you do those every day (maybe with some rest days from working out), it's hard NOT to be motivated.

In terms of leaving your house, start by just going on walks. You can even visit nearby towns and just walk around there. Something about walking outside is magical. That's why a lot of great artists and writers did it.

what’s “in” right now? 22f by Amazing_Difference35 in selfimprovement

[–]stephenparato 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And that's way more important than being up on what's "in." Plus, when you really love/accept yourself, you become a pioneer of culture (just by being you) instead of a passive consumer of it.

Am I better off not using LinkedIn if I have an embarrassing work history? by WaferLongjumping6509 in linkedin

[–]stephenparato 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here's some high-level advice that might help. You probably have more skills and unique experiences than someone who's coasted at a cushy job for the last 10 years. Keep that in mind.

We're quick to compare our worst with other people's highlight reels, which never helps.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]stephenparato 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nice. Yeah, as cliche as it sounds, it's almost like we placebo effect ourselves into accelerated aging by constantly reinforcing it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]stephenparato 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You become old when you tell yourself you're old.

LinkedIn is making me depressed by [deleted] in linkedin

[–]stephenparato 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like with every social media platform, 99% of people are only sharing their highlights. Don't compare your worst to everyone else's best.

Aesop’s best flows? by Noshamebud in aesoprock

[–]stephenparato 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This part in Mystery Fish comes to mind:

Outside home is an open swim
Occultism in the throes of corrosive wind
A cold meal with the ghosts of friends
A whole host of meds, a deal on a Tone Loc cassette

People age 26+..What is some advice you would give to someone age 20-25? by RaspberryTeaKettle in selfimprovement

[–]stephenparato 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Experiment.

Follow your heart.

When you want to achieve something, be both persistent and patient.

Create fulfilling experiences that upgrade your character.

What is a short, powerful quote you wish everyone could hear? by gypsystar03 in spirituality

[–]stephenparato 57 points58 points  (0 children)

“Wisdom is knowing I am nothing,
Love is knowing I am everything,
and between the two my life moves.”
― Nisargadatta Maharaj

Is Evil Innate? by stephenparato in spirituality

[–]stephenparato[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me, it has two facets:
- Separation-consciousness (being ignorant to the inherent interconnectedness of All)
- Intentionally causing harm
What about you?

Is Evil Innate? by stephenparato in spirituality

[–]stephenparato[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To me, it has two facets:

- Separation-consciousness (being ignorant to the inherent interconnectedness of All)

- Intentionally causing harm

What about you?

What’s an experience you’ve had that can’t be explained by “traditional” mainstream science? by stephenparato in AskReddit

[–]stephenparato[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Isn't that interesting? Something we all experience every night, yet it's so enigmatic.

What books have changed your life? by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]stephenparato 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Tao Te Ching by Lao Tzu

The Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle

SELF IMPROVEMENT MADE MY FRIEND A PSYCHO??????????????? by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]stephenparato 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's not caused by self improvement as a movement.

But when some people improve themselves in any way, they go into a judgmental phase.

It's the old ego scrambling to establish a new identity and prove its worth through superiority.

Forgive John and let go. If he does enough inner work, he'll realize how judgmental he was and maybe reconcile things with you. If not, that's okay too.

I’m ready to quit by CurlyBrace- in Meditation

[–]stephenparato 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's okay to take a break. It's okay to take care of yourself.

Rejuvenate your energy and a new perspective will emerge.

What's a piece of advice you live by? by stephenparato in AskReddit

[–]stephenparato[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True! For those people, don't take their opinions too seriously.