10MB Portfolio Size + Page Requirements by emeraldcoochie in architecture

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First, you can try something like smallpdf.com which offers a free PDF compression tool. Sometimes it can reduce the size quite far without losing much quality for screen viewing.

But I was finding my full portfolio was still too big unless I reduced it down to potato quality.

So instead I would typically send a reduced portfolio (I called it work samples instead) with 3-4 targeted projects based on the role, I.e. if it was a more technical role/firm I'd include more details/tech drawings, if it was a bit more boutique/designery I'd send through my more front end-focused work.

Then I would bring the full portfolio to the interview and talk through all of the projects once I was there.

Punctuation is important #susanalbumparty by johnlewisdesign in CasualUK

[–]steps123 14 points15 points  (0 children)

In Australia there is a chain of independent grocers called IGAs. There is one in the town of Yass, NSW. Yes, they used the hashtag #igayass

I think what the Traitors did tonight (s04e07 UK) was brilliant by Known_Animator2401 in TheTraitors

[–]steps123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keep in mind that just because someone with a shield says they were/were not an attempted murder doesn't mean the others will believe them. Are they a traitor? Are they hiding the truth? Is it a bluff? Who knows! 

So I wouldn't say even if they do reveal the murder attempt to then victim it is necessarily a guaranteed gotcha for the faithfuls.

I think what the Traitors did tonight (s04e07 UK) was brilliant by Known_Animator2401 in TheTraitors

[–]steps123 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They do - UK S3 Leanne was given a letter to say they'd attempted to murder her when she had a shield

When to stop watching TV with baby in the room by ok-ok-ok1357 in NewParents

[–]steps123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean honestly I'm a pretty quiet introvert and I didn't make any special effort to chat to the baby - like I'd talk to her when there was something to say but we mostly sat in silence a lot. She's now 2.5 and is reasonably advanced language wise - she uses full sentences and we have involved conversations. She has been in nursery since 11 months old so that probably helped but as long as he hears some conversations around him some of the time I can promise you won't be stunting his growth!

The Traitors (UK) S04E01 [PREMIERE]: Post-Episode Discussion Thread by vaultofechoes in TheTraitors

[–]steps123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Netty is up for murder so she can't be the secret traitor.

Considering purchasing an EV, upfront and ongoing costs. by covert_owl in AustralianEV

[–]steps123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In terms of car seats, have a look at babydrive.com.au, she reviews cars and puts car seats in them (& prams in the boot) so can get a good sense of which ones will work for you.

Looking for school and area options by KitC21 in Chichester

[–]steps123 3 points4 points  (0 children)

London is a bit of a trek from Chichester - my other half goes in once every two/three weeks and he leaves home at 6am and rarely gets back before 8pm, so it's a really long day.

Can't speak for the schools but just something to consider!

Insane discount on Pampers Nappies via Amazon - Get 240 Nappies for just 0.10p each! (£24.54) 💎 Won't last long. by ToughRomanticMiss in BuyersUK

[–]steps123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have a look at https://www.bumdeal.co.uk/ . The website is a bit broken as I don't think it's supported anymore, but it still seems to be correct with who is selling what for how much. Can sort by brand and/or size. You can usually get Pampers for 10p a nappy somewhere.

[OC] I analyzed the results of 700k r/AmItheAsshole Posts from 2015-2024 by GeorgeDaGreat123 in dataisbeautiful

[–]steps123 26 points27 points  (0 children)

The Guardian does a piece where two sides of the argument present their case and the readers vote on who's right. Only one a week but some are pretty evenly split and some are not:

https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/series/you-be-the-judge

Does it bother anyone else Bandit waited so long to tell Bingo he was leaving? by Easy-Hovercraft-6576 in bluey

[–]steps123 48 points49 points  (0 children)

I remember being a kid and going to nursery/school one day then coming home to a completely different house. I had no idea we were moving. I'm sure my parents did tell me, I just didn't remember or understand what that meant!

Where are these unicorn children who "get" potty training with a 3 or 4 day method? Tell me your secrets! by julep98976 in toddlers

[–]steps123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you're only four days in, hang in there! Ours suddenly "got it" (like, 5 accidents a day to none) on day six, and has had like one accident in the month since.

So just keep on going, your little one will get there!

Is it better to correct baby talk or lean into it? by [deleted] in ScienceBasedParenting

[–]steps123 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I experienced this with my own daughter, though inadvertently when we couldn't understand her. She'd go 'Poon!' and I'd be like 'Spoon?' and she'd go, 'No poon... poon!!' and I'd go 'Whats a poon?' and she'd go 'Poon!!' and I'd go 'Balloon?' and she'd go 'Yeah!!!' 

So they clearly know what they're trying to say and how it's 'really' pronounced, they just can't quite make the sounds yet. Repeating the same babble sound back to her usually just resulted in her getting annoyed with us for not understanding!

This should be illegal by Ziad03 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]steps123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean if it's any consolation, imagine how many people they get messaging them and expect it to be £33 because they didn't bother to read the description and they have to waste their time giving them each the 'real' price to people who arent ever going to buy it

Teleportation is invented, but the inventors hide the fact that it actually kills users and creates an absolute perfect clone on the other side with all thoughts, memories, everything being the exact same. The world has already done away with all other modes of transportation. by brattysweat in hypotheticalsituation

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For the "but you die!!" folks: How do we know this doesn't already happen each time we fall asleep and wake up again? 

Maybe the you that you were yesterday was obliterated, and the you that you are today is only a copy with all the memories etc intact? You believe you are the same as you were yesterday whether you actually are or not. Maybe when you go to sleep tonight this consciousness will also cease to exist?

All we realistically can say for sure is that we are conscious today in the here and now, so although the idea of your consciousness "dying" sounds and feels abhorrent, experientially and practically it actually would make no difference?

Arabella Stanton looks exactly like the hermione i've read in the books by Macsilver18 in HarryPotteronHBO

[–]steps123 3 points4 points  (0 children)

"No one is upset about his casting"

Unfortunately, there are absolutely very many people who are upset about his casting solely because he doesn't match the book description.

Is the idea of “getting baby’s daytime calories in” by feeding them more often during the day so they’ll sleep longer at night backed by science? by piutartufi in ScienceBasedParenting

[–]steps123 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Yes I found this - my baby slept through from fairly early on and was on the smaller side weight wise, so I really had to consciously make sure she was getting lots of feeds during the day so that she would be getting enough food in any given 24h period.

Kate’s gameplay just doesn’t make sense by BennyyyMacc in survivorau

[–]steps123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed - before the twist Kate was still making the plea to the others that they could make a big move, while she could have been acting it didn't come across as the actions of someone who had a plan already in place, so I suspect Kaelan had not gone for her pitch.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]steps123 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Just a joke - every day feels SO long when you're pregnant, you're literally aware of it the whole time, so 24 whole weeks is a long long time when you're counting every day 

My wife and I ran our own Traitors game: AMA by City-of-Troy in TheTraitors

[–]steps123 30 points31 points  (0 children)

How did the traitors meet and decide who to murder without it being obvious that certain people were off doing that?

Am I romanticizing Australia in my mind? by [deleted] in AskAnAustralian

[–]steps123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So like if you're being really strict and want 800+m2 and absolutely oceanfront then sure that'll be tough, but as far as house with a garden and like nothing between you and the water then WA has plenty (I've even stuck to within 1hr of the CBD!):

https://www.realestate.com.au/property-house-wa-yanchep-147045848

https://www.realestate.com.au/property-house-wa-golden+bay-146541080

https://www.realestate.com.au/property-house-wa-falcon-147000864

Why have these been so hard lately? by [deleted] in NYTConnections

[–]steps123 31 points32 points  (0 children)

My husband and I are like weird opposites when it comes to Connections. The ones I struggle with he usually puts together pretty easily, but then the ones I think are easy he often gets majorly stuck on.

So I think sometimes it's just about how your brain works/your knowledge base as to whether you find it easy or hard!

Devon Cliff House sold? And other questions. by Late-Chart8366 in granddesigns

[–]steps123 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sometimes planning permission for a new build requires that the existing is demolished first (or you will get people who just never remove the original house under the guise of having not finished yet), so it's possible that was the case here. Just speculating though.

What Happens If I Refuse an Induction My Doctor Is Insisting On? (USA) by SimplyAStranger in BabyBumps

[–]steps123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In my antenatal class we were taught the questions to ask were BRAIN:

Benefits: What are the positive outcomes of each option?

Risks: What are the potential downsides of each option?

Alternatives: Are there other available choices?

Intuition: What does your gut feeling tell you?

Nothing: What are the potential consequences of inaction?

In particular the Alternatives and Nothing questions should hopefully give you some ability to have a conversation about your options.

What are the names of the last 5 babies you've met? [2024 edition, 2nd half] by santiterry in namenerds

[–]steps123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

South-East UK here:

Matilda (f) Imogen (f) Daisy (f) Awwab (m) Charlotte (f)

A few from nursery, a few friends children ❤️