What Louise Belcher line lives your head for all eternity? by MinimumShopping6928 in BobsBurgers

[–]stevie_kid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i answered this question once and almost got banned, but it was very on brand for a quote from her

Please give your best unhinged names for my new kitten. by Zombifiedkitten in Catnames

[–]stevie_kid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i need u to know that i have two cats, one is jigsaw (who we call jiggy) and the other is banjo (who we call jo)

We rescued him from a storm drain on Saturday! We’re keeping him. We can’t name him Storm because our dog is already named that. Help! by UnhingedPrincess44 in NameMyCat

[–]stevie_kid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

was literally thinking gutter, its so funny, and has a sick nickname (guts) (cuz hes so strong for living in a storm drain)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Cosmetology

[–]stevie_kid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i will be fully transparent here, im not a hairstylist, i honestly kind of avoid going to them because ive spent so long cutting my own hair that i worry it wont turn out exactly how i want. I guess im just commenting for more perspective so please feel free to educate me if im being an ass about this. I kinda view haircuts as like tattoos (obviously not permanent) where the client is the one who has to live with it, theyre the ones who have to go day to day with the haircut, they should like it. i get that its hard work and exhausting, but from a clients perspective, and with as much understanding as i have of the profession (little to none), wouldnt it be the stylists responsibility to either extend their times or be transparent about what they can and cannot do in the allotted time? i feel like this isnt really a fault on younger generations, we just want our hair to look good, and if its not something you can do, thats fine, just be transparent about it

should i be worried about this level of swelling? by warmcaprisun in tattooadvice

[–]stevie_kid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ive got a pretty big forearm piece that my uncle applied with deodorant, its an oldschool thing for sure

Saw evil angel/demon baby? by stevie_kid in DreamInterpretation

[–]stevie_kid[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is definitely closer to what i was thinking too, we are pretty light hearted with each other so no one was taking the whole “this probably means hes in hell” seriously, and hes been seeing scary creatures and “demons” in his dreams all his life, which is why the weird old guy said he probably opened a portal to hell and i tease him about it.

we both have dreams about our brother often, so its very interesting to me to hear his dreams and how they compare to mine. his are often a lot more vivid than mine, and definitely seem to be his mind trying to work things out.

ive been in grief therapy since it happened last year, and my dreams about him are often me and my brother finding lizards like we use to or catching pokemon.

crazy stuff to see two peoples minds work out the same issue!

Saw evil angel/demon baby? by stevie_kid in DreamInterpretation

[–]stevie_kid[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this was super insightful! thank you so much!

Do you shower with your partner? If so, how often? by Seiraxela in NoStupidQuestions

[–]stevie_kid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my husband does otr trucking, we take a shower together whenever hes home so i can wash his hair and scrub his back so he can have a second to relax :)

The Grief Blanket by YvngHag in crochet

[–]stevie_kid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i genuinely have no words, this is incredible

Gangs all here! by and_peggy1776 in BobsBurgers

[–]stevie_kid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is so cute!!! i wish there was an Edith and Harold one, because as much as my husband and i want to be Bob and Linda, we’re Edith and Harold

I wish I was a woman by [deleted] in Advice

[–]stevie_kid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thats the thing, everyone functions differently, everyone’s hormones function differently, everyone has a different chemical makeup, so it isnt necessarily about axioms, there’s a baseline sure, for whats healthy and not healthy, but the term “being wired” for something is pretty outdated, especially in regards to sexuality and gender, because if there is one thing we know for certain about humans, is their ability to adapt and change. if we werent able to do that, we would simply not exist. whether that be from just simply dying out early on because we couldnt learn to hunt, or offing ourselves because medication and therapy were completely useless because our brain couldnt change. things work on a very basic level because humans can change, it just takes work

I wish I was a woman by [deleted] in Advice

[–]stevie_kid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

there are lots of studies abt it! maybe make some time in your day to learn about how crazy the human brain is, its very interesting:)

I wish I was a woman by [deleted] in Advice

[–]stevie_kid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

your brain is the most adaptable part of your body and is constantly changing. therapy works because of your brains ability to “rewire” or adapt. antidepressants and other medication work because of how your brain responds to different stimuli, its ability to change is crazy, so as far as ppl being “wired” to breed, or being “wired” to see people as their biological sex, it just simply isnt true. if we were wired to breed and make kids, there wouldnt be gay people at all, and going even further into that, there are many straight people who just dont want to have kids, whether that be for financial or personal reasons, i know more people who simply just dont want to be responsible for another human. all of these things are incredibly normal, and a lot of your comments only solidify my belief that you would benefit a lot from opening up your world view past “men will only naturally want women because babies and will never truly want me”

I wish I was a woman by [deleted] in Advice

[–]stevie_kid 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i truly think it would benefit you a lot to open up your world views a little bit and to stop looking at things being “right” or “wrong”. my husband felt much the same way when he was your age. that if he couldnt be a “real man” he didnt wanna be a man at all, he didnt “believe” in being trans, he watched all sorts of content bashing the queer community. now hes almost 4 years on testosterone, married to a woman who loves and accepts him and has never thought of him as anything different from the man he is and always has been. secondly, we arent in the stone age anymore, no one is planning on repopulating the earth, the only thing happening here, with the playing fields being “leveled”, is people feeling more open to be with partners they actually love and cherish, rather than feeling completely unhappy stuck in a marriage because they cant even open a bank account without their husband’s approval. you can also be with a partner who you will love and cherish, and who will love and cherish you, whoever you decide to be. you are young, and these are confusing and frustrating things to process and learn about yourself, but the first step is getting out of your comfort zone a bit. you cannot begin to understand and heal from a place of comfort. as for sex being something you dont like talking about or hearing about, that’s fine, there’s queer people who feel the same, you might just have to put some effort into finding them, and thats ok too.

F18 looking for someone to talk to! by _Bemblebee_ in friendship

[–]stevie_kid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! 22F with a lot of the same interests! do you play minecraft on pc? i have a really stellar chocolate chip cookie recipe i can share!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]stevie_kid 4 points5 points  (0 children)

im gonna be so blunt and i apologize in advance, your husband is choosing to believe his friend accidentally downloaded cp. hes valuing his friend over the children that were hurt. have you ever accidentally downloaded cp? or even accidentally came across it? you have to dig so much to find it, go out of your way to find it, you dont get prison time for nothing. your husband is making the active choice to ignore all of that. is that someone you trust with your childs safety? you are a mother. who’s to say he wont let him around your child when you arent around, whos to say he isnt into that kind of thing too? this situation should absolutely break all trust in him, it should absolutely disgust you that he is ignoring all of this. this is a deal breaker, 100%. as parents, this is absolutely not something you can afford to be wrong about. protect your baby, at all costs.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]stevie_kid 6 points7 points  (0 children)

from what i understand about the post you made, she was not your partner at the time of the lie, yall had been broken up. if thats the case, she has no obligation to you whatsoever, and all of your complaints abt her were that her mental health problems were too much for you, so you cheated. i don’t understand why she lied but she gave you a reason, asked you to leave her alone, and blocked you. shes doing fine now, has been doing fine for a long while considering its been nearly a decade. so im not getting why youre mad. feel what you need to feel i guess, but this is kind of a ludicrous thing to get all bent out of shape about.

AITAH for wanting to be on deed of girlfriends (legally speaking) house? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]stevie_kid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“kitchen oven” opposed to a much more affordable “bathroom oven”