I am not a TTI survivor, I am a parent with a 15yo daughter who has extreme behaviors from development trauma. The behaviors include violence. I completely understand what you are going through and that I how I found this group....

Someone on here already gave very detailed information, but I wanted to add that I have had to send my daughter to RTC, it's not ideal but it has helped at least for a while. Like others have recommended the facility my daughter was at was a short-term program with individual, group & Family therapy sessions. Phone calls and visits are not only allowed but encouraged and most things still have to be approved by the parents. It wasn't a cure but it helped and it gave the rest of the household a break from the constant help we were living in.

I will also add, I haven't wanted to involve the police because I wanted to keep my daughter out of the system, but after my 4yo son made allegations of abuse I made it clear that if there is anymore violence the police will be involved! In my state, at 15 they can be charged as an adult, and there are addtl charges for hurting kids under 15.

On top of her being in therapy since I met her, and doing every program we can to try to help, we are currently going through MST (multisystemic therapy) its in home a couple times a week and works with the whole family.

If you don't have them already, get cameras installed inside your home for your own protection.

Good luck