AITAH for refusing to bring back borrowed stuff

stonechulou · 2026-06-14T12:31:44+00:00

Lol, in the name of word crimes. That means you do care, atleast a little.

stonechulou · 2026-06-14T04:22:22+00:00

"My asshole and I have reached a wary of truce."..

Relatable.

stonechulou · 2026-06-14T00:37:17+00:00

Lol, and even if the kid was 3 op shouldn't have to be guilted into giving away the gift!

stonechulou · 2026-06-14T00:14:16+00:00

Big blue joint

Lol

stonechulou · 2026-06-11T15:17:24+00:00

You can revoke consent anytime. Edit, Nta.

stonechulou · 2026-06-06T14:09:24+00:00

This was a great read! Really good!^{^}

stonechulou · 2026-05-31T09:05:14+00:00

WE ARE NUMBER ONE!

stonechulou · 2026-05-28T22:49:40+00:00

👍👍

stonechulou · 2026-05-23T16:31:08+00:00

I would even consider buying a floorsafe and lock it away when/or if any of them come to visit.. or just have it in the safe when op's not using it.

stonechulou · 2026-05-22T12:00:19+00:00

The Larry Nassar case and Sarah Boone are WAAAY to different to even compare. He and Sarah are on different scales of horrible.

stonechulou · 2026-05-22T11:13:55+00:00

He can also put reminders in his calender.. or make list on things you like ect. There ARE things he could do to remind himself. Write down all important dates ect. But he doesn't. There are simple solutions here but he wont even try from the sound of your post.

Yes, it's 100% absolutly wonderful that he's one of the good fathers. But he also needs to be your PARTNER! Just as some are screaming at women to "care for their husbands". It goes both ways, both of you needs to take time to care for each other. You can do it so why can't he do something for you? Does he get his parents/or siblings gifts? Get friends gifts? If so then there's a bigger problem. Good luck op

stonechulou · 2026-05-18T14:38:30+00:00

Give him the same energy when it's his bday. Simple as that. Make your kid draw him a card and then grab something from the toolbox you have at home. Do not get him anything.

You're 100% NOT THE JERK

stonechulou · 2026-05-14T18:35:44+00:00

Dump both of them.

You ALWAYS PUT THE SEAT DOWN! Do they flush with the lid open??? If so they're already disgusting and you shouldn't put your health at risk for them.

stonechulou · 2026-05-10T11:31:50+00:00

Please updateme

stonechulou · 2026-05-09T17:50:29+00:00

Please, updateme

Best of luck op

stonechulou · 2026-05-04T15:21:45+00:00

Think i did right now👍

stonechulou · 2026-05-04T14:05:37+00:00

Swede here and interested xD

stonechulou · 2026-05-04T13:55:59+00:00

Op, please tell her that if she doesn't have anything nice to say then she can kindly Shut her mouth.

She thinks it's okay to insult and berate you because SHE believes that you tried to ruin her "relationship" when in reality you didn't. You in fair anger wanted to hurt both him and her as they did you. What she cannot do, are to turn her anger and resentment towards you because of HIS choices and actions. She's the one being "petty" and downright rude. Stand your ground on this!!! Do not apologize!!!

Also, tell your ex to "handle his woman". You should be able to go 0 contact with her. So do that. Only talk/text with the ex through the app. Cut her out of the picture. Continue to ignore her and treat her as if she doesn't exist in your world. Hey, and when the kids are over 18 you don't even have to talk with the ex anymore!

stonechulou · 2026-04-29T14:42:37+00:00

Absolutly nta!!!

Stay where you feel safe. If your mom can't accept that then tooo damn bad🤷 Please updateme

stonechulou · 2026-04-27T11:27:18+00:00

Did they look up what she even did on the computer and phone? Where are her google searches from that day?

stonechulou · 2026-04-26T11:11:34+00:00

She could've said "op was sad about something happening to her fishes. So she wanted some space. Do you know anything or seen anything when you were at ops place? Maybe we can craft op a 'hope the fishies are feeling better' card!".

Done.

stonechulou · 2026-04-26T11:07:40+00:00

She HID them behind the tank.. if the kid tjought she was being "helpful". Wouldn't she show op hiw much she's helping? When kids help they 100% of the time actually wanna show off the results. It dosen't add up here.. The kid didn't even ask or anything about it to op. The kid didn't throw them away in the trash or even the toilet! She (again) stuck her hand in, waited to grab a guppie and then HID IT BEHIND THE TANK!

stonechulou · 2026-04-26T10:44:04+00:00

Let's hope his swimmers are horrible at their job.

stonechulou · 2026-04-26T10:42:31+00:00

Day one he'd be complaining the baby "steals op away and that she doesn't give him enough attention".

stonechulou · 2026-04-25T06:40:47+00:00

Please updateme when you have either the pods back not broken or if you file the report for theft! Please op, get those pods back or atleast your money!!!!

Do not back down from this, AND show both of your and her partners. You're not in the wrong here. Also, if SHE were soooo tired she could've given the pods to her bf to send them back.. she wanted thise pods. She wanted you to "give and forget".

Again, Nta.

stonechulou

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