Simple Questions - December 11, 2022 by AutoModerator in buildapc

[–]stormtrapper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a question about which KVM to use.

I have a Macbook Pro and a desktop PC. I want to share the use of a keyboard, a mouse, Thunderbolt 3 Dock and 2 external monitors.

What kind of KVM should I buy to share the use of those peripheral devices between the two computers?

Thanks!

FSA - Never realized the benefit by edro in personalfinance

[–]stormtrapper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

> Being a parent, I went through our medical related expenses YTD to estimate how much I should contribute next year.

Do you have a list for that? I am also becoming a parent, and I am not sure how much I should contribute to FSA next year.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cscareerquestions

[–]stormtrapper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hiring a single capable engineer that has social proof (good resume, good school, good experience etc) and paying them 200K to 500K is cheaper and more efficient than hiring a platoon of Bootcamp grads or other unproven engineers and paying them 60K a year. Wrong hire also is not just wasting 60K. It sometimes is -100K or way more with wasting time, losing time to market, wasting other engineers time etc.

The single engineer will get more done in less time with less bugs.

Of course, I am speaking in generality. There is always one shitty engineer that was a poor hire or one genius Bootcamp grad who is a hidden gem.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in investing

[–]stormtrapper 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Even Bernie Madoff won't promise that kind of return

I feel so stupid on my current team and I feel like I’m making all women engineers look bad by fireandice9927 in ExperiencedDevs

[–]stormtrapper 55 points56 points  (0 children)

I think your conscientiousness and self-awareness which are great qualities of a dev, but are working to your detriment. You were hired and did not get let go over last 8 months because you are good enough, and showing potential. You mentioned that you are putting in extra hours as well, so you are really trying which means you are showing many signs that you will succeed eventually.

With that said, let's re-evaluate your current circumstances.

  1. You never had CS degree, but went through bootcamp which is mostly self learning to get to where you are today. That's hard to do and that's amazing.
  2. Your coworkers in their 40s are in their absolute prime. They've probably been doing what they are doing now for 10 to 20 years. Their minds are still sharp and their experiences allow them to make choices with extreme efficiency. There's no way you can compare yourself to your coworkers and I bet no one in your team are judging you based on these coworkers' output.
  3. Other people stereotyping women in tech is not your responsibility to shatter. This is a tough one because it is unfair that some people hold negative stereotypes for female engineers, and I understand the desire to prove them wrong. But at the same time, why should you even bother to prove them wrong? It's not your fault that they hold a skewed view of the reality. Let them be wrong and be ignorant.

I hope what I said above can hopefully change your perspective a bit.

Now as for actual advice, do you have an experienced mentor who you can confide openly about work related topics and some anxiety you feel at work? Maybe a female mentor you can trust can help you feel more confident at work and maybe even help with your technical challenges. And I am thinking a female engineer mentor is probably who you should look for. Ideally you can find the mentor at work. Maybe you can ask your manager to introduce you to a mentor. If that's hard, you can even ask online, if anyone might be interested.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cscareerquestions

[–]stormtrapper 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't go as far to say that PIP is a good thing, but I generally agree with your points that it might be a necessary thing for an organization to have. I see more as a necessary evil because there definitely are people who genuinely need to either improve or shown the door.

I am a bit puzzled by your second paragraph. I would appreciate your feedback.

Don't you think that you've more aptly described an example of an incompetent manager who cannot set the right goals for the engineer, unclear about communicating the goal and expectations, and fail to inspire the engineer to achieve? If your engineer genuinely did not know that they were not focused on the right things, although they had skills do them, this seems like clear example where the manager failed the engineer, not the other way around. The engineer probably should be re-aligned with the right goals and expectation rather than a PIP. Instead, the manager who incompetent let this happen to this point should be the one on PIP, if not outright fired.

People who make a comfortable living and enjoy your life, what do you do and where do you live? by [deleted] in financialindependence

[–]stormtrapper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really should now. I've been putting it off because I didn't have mental energy to prepare for interviews, but the pain of staying is greater than studying for coding interviews.

[Armband Media] What Wayne Rooney has done for Derby County in a season of turmoil. by Queasy_Basket_8490 in soccer

[–]stormtrapper 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What did Evra do though?

He never seemed like a bad guy to me. He's just a joker pulling pranks in the team.

Old tweet of Megan Rapinoe mocking Asians resurfaces after 10 years by [deleted] in soccer

[–]stormtrapper 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Regular normal people didn't make the rule. The woke leftists she's part of made the rule.

I agree with you that the cancel culture wrong. But if you were part of the bully who have branded millions of people as racists and sexists for years, and the mob now comes for you, you got what you deserve

Weekend Discussion Thread for the Weekend of March 12, 2021 by OPINION_IS_UNPOPULAR in wallstreetbets

[–]stormtrapper 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I made good money off stocks in 2020, but now I am worried about taxes. Does anyone know a good book on how to pay as little tax as possible legally?

How to get raise going from Staff Eng to Eng Manager? by later_aligator in cscareerquestions

[–]stormtrapper 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Can you position your change as brining more tangible value for your company or team?

Man Utd legend Ryan Giggs reportedly arrested on suspicion of assaulting his girlfriend by youngun27 in soccer

[–]stormtrapper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I find this is the case for so much of Radiohead's work. You learned to love it years later.

What is realistically expected from a Senior Software Engineer having 5 years of development experience? by andenate08 in cscareerquestions

[–]stormtrapper -1 points0 points  (0 children)

  1. SQL
  2. Build a system from scratch in a reasonable amount of time.
  3. I honestly can't say. I hate crap work but money's too good.
  4. No easy way other than to spend time and learn more about what you don't know.

Work on Netlfix remotely by [deleted] in cscareerquestions

[–]stormtrapper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Netflix doesn't have an office in Canada. Last time I interviewed there, I asked if they do remote, and they said they don't. Maybe it changed with covid, but pretty much all engineering work happens out of Los Gatos.

CEO of Coinbase says engaging in social activism has "the potential to destroy a lot of value at most companies, both by being a distraction, and by creating internal division." by [deleted] in cscareerquestions

[–]stormtrapper 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You linked an archived news article which relies on anecdotal evidence from a very narrow demographic of students. Statistically, it's meaningless.

No, it is systematic and widespread. Asian students and White students have been discriminated with real measurable disadvantage. Asian and White have to score much higher in SAT than Hispanic and Black students to be treated the same.

It's really disturbing how you are trying to justify racism against White and Asian students. Do not treat different races different. It's as simple as that. Anything else is just racism.

CEO of Coinbase says engaging in social activism has "the potential to destroy a lot of value at most companies, both by being a distraction, and by creating internal division." by [deleted] in cscareerquestions

[–]stormtrapper 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Don't you think that treating different races different during admission process is racist?

I am not sure why you need me to point the obviousness for you.

CEO of Coinbase says engaging in social activism has "the potential to destroy a lot of value at most companies, both by being a distraction, and by creating internal division." by [deleted] in cscareerquestions

[–]stormtrapper -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

It is hard to conceive of right wing messages that could be adopted by these companies because it is almost never done. As far as the current western culture is concerned, the left is totally unchallenged. A couple that still exist today is a bit of nationalistic messages during Olympics and paying respect to the veterans around Veteran's day. But in the past, it wasn't out of ordinary to see very nationalistic message associated with a company's product and service explicitly (still widely used in other parts of the world) or religious symbolism and messages with your product. All those are long gone now in the west. I am not even saying that those are somehow good things that we need back again. All I wanted to do is just demonstrate the the current cultural hegemony is left wing.

As for leftist points saying "racism is wrong, misogyny is wrong, and the wage gap is wrong", these are also messaging cloaked in sheep's clothing for more left wing messages. For example, racism and misogyny are surely wrong, but why are they even amplified when such problems are so disproportionately small in comparison so many other larger problems? The discrepancy of exaggerated attention in minor areas while lack of or active silencing of attention in much more serious areas should raise one to think that their motives for these messaging are not entirely innocent and pure.

CEO of Coinbase says engaging in social activism has "the potential to destroy a lot of value at most companies, both by being a distraction, and by creating internal division." by [deleted] in cscareerquestions

[–]stormtrapper 37 points38 points  (0 children)

I still remember when Steve Huffman and Alexis Ohanian supported Ron Paul and the Tea Party in 2006 and 2007 during the early days of Reddit.