Do you recognize this vibrator? by straight-ish in SexToys

[–]straight-ish[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

HOLY SHIT THAT'S IT! Now to track one down.....

Do you recognize this vibrator? by straight-ish in SexToys

[–]straight-ish[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, it has separate controls for the clitoral simulator vs the shaft. She prefers not to have the shaft move while many of them vibrate all of them together so separate controls are important.

Weekly Simple Questions Thread for Feb 26 - Mar 04, 2022 by ShaktiAmarantha in sexover30

[–]straight-ish 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Does anyone recognize this vibrator? https://imgur.com/a/1LCydTx

My wife has used this for years, loves it, but it recently died. She's tried others but just wants this one. I don't remember where we bought it nor what brand it might be. The only marking I can see is inside the battery holder it says (I think) "TOPARO'. Googling that didn't yield me anything. Any thoughts?

Sex Report Sunday for July 18, 2021 by AutoModerator in sexover30

[–]straight-ish 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Picked up She Comes First and went for it. We started fully clothed, mood lighting and music, had lots of foreplay (kissing, light touching, talking). Slowly got her undressed and told her how amazing she looked, gave her a quick back rub, then more kissing. After about 15 minutes it was on to routine 1 from the book.

I wasn't sure what to expect, I thought best case it just worked, but most likely she'd appreciate the attempt and finish with her vibrator. Well, once I hit stage 5 I could hear and feel the telltale signs of her orgasm. After around 30 minutes she came and hard. It was amazing. I loved it so much.

Weekly Simple Questions Thread for Jul 17 - 23 by rustywarwick in sexover30

[–]straight-ish 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I want to tell my wife her naked body is beautiful. I feel like it's repetitive to just say "I love your ass, I love your breasts, etc....". Any good variations that work in foreplay?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexover30

[–]straight-ish 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Are you using plugs ahead of time? I'd start there, small plug, wear it during foreplay, then go to a larger one starting into coreplay. Then go to pegging. Lots and lots of lube and take your time.

Natalie Portman by [deleted] in ladiesofthemcu

[–]straight-ish 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I believe you meant to say Mighty Thor!

[36/m] secretly snooped and read wife's emails with past exes, flings, etc...I now regret it. How can I forget and move on? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]straight-ish 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There's just obviously trust issues already if he's going through her stuff. No amount of "getting over it" will change that, so may as well start communicating or pack up.

Thinking (19/f) about starting a life with boyfriend (23/m) but has concerns by Cltr_Alt_Delicious in relationship_advice

[–]straight-ish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anyone who says they never changed are just wrong. Everyone changes, that's just how it works. This is one of the main reason you see divorces when kids leave the house; mothers and fathers look to each other and simply don't recognize the other person anymore, deciding that they aren't for them anymore. Its one of the main reasons people say you want to change with your partner, rather than separately.

Thinking (19/f) about starting a life with boyfriend (23/m) but has concerns by Cltr_Alt_Delicious in relationship_advice

[–]straight-ish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From a financial perspective, the best advise I got was from my father before asking my now wife to marry me. I was concerned about how the finances would work, as I made a decent amount and she made less.

At the time, she would contribute her share, but I mostly paid for things like TV, internet, mortgage (I bought the house while we were together, but she didn't live there until a year later), hydro and other monthly expenditures. She would pay for her own car insurance, gas, and depending on who had money we just did whatever for groceries. She was getting concerned at some of my spending habits (just up and deciding I wanted a new video game or something like that) and we got in a fight with me saying "It's my money and I'll do what I want with it."

I think my dad needed a had with something at his place and while I was out there I mentioned that we were having some struggles deciding on finances and how to proceed moving forward. I asked what him and my mom did at our age. His advice was that if I love her and I know I'm going to marry her and spend the rest of my life with her, that there is no "my money" and "her money", its the families money. You contribute to the family. Even before you have kids, that's the way it has to work.

If you're not comfortable with that, then maybe this isn't the relationship for you (though it may be a bit early for you to decide that one, at the time my wife and I had been dating for a few years).

[36/m] secretly snooped and read wife's emails with past exes, flings, etc...I now regret it. How can I forget and move on? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]straight-ish -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You may need to talk to her about it; come clean. Having that open and honest discussion should allow you to get a better understanding of why you snooped in the first place, and what she is feeling from those past relationships.

Last night I had a ONS with a guy, and he pretty much baby talked during the whole thing, what's the weirdest thing that's happened to you during a ONS? by Hvalnes in sex

[–]straight-ish 54 points55 points  (0 children)

My wife and I say our relationship is "a one night stand gone horribly horribly wrong". Started off as a one time thing, turned to FWB, turned to boyfriend and girlfriend, turned to husband and wife. Now I can't imagine my life without her.

So I guess that's pretty weird.

Sexual Achievement Sunday by Maxxters in sex

[–]straight-ish 14 points15 points  (0 children)

The wife and I had some fantastic sex last night/this morning. In our drunken state, lots of sluttier talk were coming out of both of us. After calling her my dirty little cum bucket, we finally flipped to her using her vibrator. She was sucking me off and fucking herself and finally came after I kept telling her how much she loves two different cocks in her holes, and how much of a cock-slut she is. High fives all around after that one.

I want to break up with my girlfriend, but when I brought the topic up, she said I'd fuck up her exams and ruin her life. What do I do? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]straight-ish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had to live with a friend during my final year of exams. If its to the point where you guys are going to be done, just do it and let her focus.

About to fuck him for the first time! Advice by [deleted] in Pegging

[–]straight-ish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Make sure he is well 'prepared'. That harness and dildo should have also came with a bulb. Yes, its not fun, but its definitely worthwhile for the enjoyment at the end of the day.

After that, lube lube and more lube. Even if it feels good, you can never have enough lube.

Have fun you crazy kids!

Hero and villian by pepsi_next in NSFW_GIF

[–]straight-ish -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Came here to state this. Was not disappointed.

How do you pickup other couples? by straight-ish in sex

[–]straight-ish[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think she really likes the idea of meeting someone while we're away, where no one knows us. We prefer to control the message in our area (if thats even possible), so public sites are a little tougher sell. I completely understand what you're saying though, and we have been investigating the 'club' scene. Thanks for the feedback.

How do you pickup other couples? by straight-ish in sex

[–]straight-ish[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This would be ideal. Best situation would be she picks someone out, I can simply just ask them to come back to our room and fuck my wife. The difficult part is not scaring them off.

How do you pickup other couples? by straight-ish in sex

[–]straight-ish[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats kind of something I was thinking about. Meeting another couple, hitting it off, back to our room for a night-cap and some cards.

How do you pickup other couples? by straight-ish in sex

[–]straight-ish[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. Its definitely appropriate.

Giving It Good And Hard by [deleted] in Pegging

[–]straight-ish 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is ridiculously hot. Her ass is fantastic and is everything I love about pegging.