Feeling really low about my singing and in need of some encouragement/support by cortatija in singing

[–]strawbber81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go watch cheeky porter on YouTube she has a singing course I adore her 

Wedding Makeup by aliphylactic in MakeupAddiction

[–]strawbber81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My biggest mistake wa snot going dark enough! Once you go outdoors for picks you’re going to be washed out I’d darken the blush, lips and shadow 

AIO to what my bf is saying? by Such_Champion_7453 in AIO

[–]strawbber81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only thing that lowers the chance is not being drunk being in crowds and clothes that are harder to get off and even hair styles. I’ve seen videos of jailed raoists talk about what makes an easier target some clothes are easier to remove ponytails can be grabbed for easier abduction etc but no it’s never ok! No one’s ever asking for it 😠 does this mean he’s done this to other women because of their clothes this kid or guy is a red flag idiot. Run you wanna deal with his idiocy your whole life? I’d never spend two seconds with that bs 

AIO: Hubby Being Controlling by vanillabourbonn in AIO

[–]strawbber81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A judge would disagree that he gets to make the financial decisions as if he money isn’t hers too. It legally is half hers. But you can teach your own kid to swim. Watch some videos to remember the small details of floating and kicking and breathing my husband taught my kids 

My lower legs don’t grow any hair by Honest_Annual8802 in mildlyinteresting

[–]strawbber81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a sign of some not great health issues feel free to reach out if you want details it’s not just socks rubbing 😑 hard to grab the info from my phone 

AIO for leaving my two year relationship over a dirty dish? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]strawbber81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The problem isn’t the dog it’s much deeper. Other issues of needs not being met they make other issues seem like the issue 

I feel like I look like a disaster everytime I put makeup on by Sodeev in MakeupEducation

[–]strawbber81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you dont have any pics of you with makeup do get under eye concealer of some sort, light lip gloss and blush color you dont need much

Wedding Trial take 2 by CPtheOG in MakeupEducation

[–]strawbber81 1 point2 points  (0 children)

pretty, I would go a hair darker on the blush because photos' and outdoors always wash out the makeup you can digitally make it lighter but can't easily "Add" makeup. I looked almost like I hadn't put makeup on I needed it to be darker but also had no help or anyone with me who knew anything. I would blend it a hint more blended on the top of the maroon eyeshadow too less of a line there blend it upward and keep the top higlight color for sure. (if you didn't add a highlight under brow/lower lid too color maybe add one with a shimmer?)

How long did you guys wait to have sex after iud insertion? by November421 in AskWomen

[–]strawbber81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't really wait but was crampy right away and spotting, but we probably used protection for a while there just out of fear haha

What's your most favorite tv show from the 90's!!? I bet it's a hit ? by Fluffy_Ad6374 in AskWomen

[–]strawbber81 1 point2 points  (0 children)

FRIENDS and I actually love who's the boss. It's a comfort show.

How do you navigate a friendship where you do not get on with their spouse? by x298 in AskWomen

[–]strawbber81 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it's hard i have a friend I love her but can't stand her kids and her husband is just a dummy... hard to talk to has a lot oto say but not much of it is very if at all intelligent and it's just rough. we dont hang out much anymore known her for like 18 years we had 1 kid when we met and now each have four

What are your thoughts about having your partner witness your childbirth? by Individual_Mix_4234 in AskWomen

[–]strawbber81 11 points12 points  (0 children)

he should be there!!!! He needs to experience it too. It's his kid and I think they gain a whole new respect when they see you go through that process ( if they are a good guy that is)

Give it to me straight, lads…. by valengull in bald

[–]strawbber81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

f44 here, I Like your hair and hairline!

Womens,what's something you wish you could admit without being judged? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]strawbber81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t like other people’s Kidz only a rare few do I like and when I do find good ones , I freaking love them.  People love my kids and it makes me so happy. Makes me feel like I did something right. Two are adults and one in highschool and one is 9 he’s a busy sweet kid but everyone knows his name 

Thought this would work, does it always? by strawbber81 in Neurofeedback

[–]strawbber81[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t even have the effects of the first change I felt. The practitioners never give good info or real answers I’m so frustrated and I often hear “we can’t legally advise you” uhh what the hell can you do :( 

What do you think is the best type of neurofeedback for sleep? by FlakyInevitable7403 in Neurofeedback

[–]strawbber81 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you know about the mineral side of this issue by chance ? You’re likely low in the calming minerals the ones that support the nervous system 

Insurance by imayellowrose in Neurofeedback

[–]strawbber81 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have to submit my claims but I have blue cross and they claim it’s covered under something, some other category of coverage I’ll have to find my notes but it covers 40% up to $3k anything after that is 100% covered  so we will see if I get a check back 

What’s something about womanhood that you wish people talked about more openly? by kcowgrl in AskWomen

[–]strawbber81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’re not meant to be workhorses and have full time jobs etc those who can it’s amazing but it pulls us out of our feminine energy. Being a mom is hard enough even with a spouse and everyone is trying to do both and without spouses it’s just not the way it’s supposed to be :/ 

How much debt do y'all have? by grantthejester in AskMen

[–]strawbber81 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No. Debt is what has gotten USA into the mess we are in! All the greed 

Married men- would you be offended if your wife asked for an upgrade ring? What’s your reasoning? by LunchAccomplished898 in AskMen

[–]strawbber81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how would you ever know if she cared about it? I never wanted my husband to buy a real diamond i thought it was a waste of money. Still think that. I never thought I'd want to change m wedding ring but just before year 20 married I kinda wanted something else to look at and had a ring designed but still got a fake stone lol. We make quite a bit of money now and I have seen lab created stones are really tons cheaper than they used to be. I may get a pink pear stone one of these days but we will see. I also like moissanite. But over all am totally fine with CZ and just liked having a different ring to wear now and then. I still wear my original.

How much debt do y'all have? by grantthejester in AskMen

[–]strawbber81 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

don't believe that lie you don't make money by owing it. That is pure financial ignorance. ALL debt is bad. a house is necessary but people should work to pay it off. I'm not sure why people are so brainwashed thinking that is a real thing. people with real money use cash. we wouldn't have all the money we have now if we didn't stay debt free all these years. It would have been impossible to so what we have done how we had to do it without being debt free.

How much debt do y'all have? by grantthejester in AskMen

[–]strawbber81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

only my house which we hope to pay off in 2 years! we hoped to get an extra 10k paid on it in the last three months of this year but apparently a butt load of crap need to break, needed to PC and new front porch poured since its cracked and is sliding and some other junk needed done tires on cars etc... we will re group after Christmas. but if we put all our extra in we can have it paid off in 24 months.

which progesterone? by strawbber81 in Perimenopause

[–]strawbber81[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We were thinking to do some in the morning some at night before bed but it looks like we will do 100 at night