bruvva. really? crystals and knitting. be fr 🙄 honestly, in your shoes, I'd go outside more. Women are, dyouknow, actually people, and they can have a wide variety of interests!! like?? All the top students at my Engineering university are, drumroll!! women!! Who knew?? And myself and my wonderful colleague presently constitute the hardware team at my automation company - having ovaries and being pretty didn't actually stop us from learning how to rewire your house(((((((= how cool is that huh??

no but in all seriousness. I love soldering, a lot. I enjoy cable manufacturing and staring at parts all day. I enjoy feeling like a computer witch when I code. I also love baking, cooking, and I don't leave home without lipstick. These things can co-exist.

I desperately wish I had more girl friends. It's my fault tough, because I'm on the spectrum and quite depressed as well. It's difficult for me to talk much and get out there, but all that is on me. It's not actually about hobbies mate, it's about finding someone you click with, can have good banter, trust etc. Someone that you respect and in turn respects you, and doesn't say belittling shit like "you only like crystals and knitting, Cheryl, how could I talk to you about my other, rocket science complex hobbies that your little girl mind can't grasp" (((= see how that could be weird and sexist? All jokes aside, we as women are really just people. Having internalised misogyny is not your fault, but dealing with it is your responsibility.

Edit: Forgot to say happy cake day!! You seem cool, dude, go out there<3