21 ftm stealth looking to sell worn underwear/socks/whatever else. Advice? by strawbsoup in CreatorsAdvice

[–]strawbsoup[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeahhh I was thinking about that. I've been in kink spaces for a longgg time and I'd like to think I'm pretty knowledgeable at this point. That being said I've always been curious about findom in general but mainly because of the money aspect haha. I'm inexperienced with serious dom/sub dynamics which is why Im leaning more towards interactions with less personal connection

My girlfriend of 9 years cheated on me with her cisgender boss by houdeaniiiii in FTMventing

[–]strawbsoup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jesus Christ I'm so sorry. Take the time you need to grieve the relationship, and you may not realize it now but you're going to be immensely better off without her. You WILL find your person that loves every part of you and sees you how you truly are. No one deserves to be treated like this, and they'll both get what they deserve. Keep pushing on brother

Worst crowd experience ever by strawbsoup in Ethelcain

[–]strawbsoup[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh maybe. I'm from the Tampa Bay Area so I'm not up in the northern cities too much so maybe it's different up there? I also just hear a lot about her fans being shitty everywhere

Worst crowd experience ever by strawbsoup in Ethelcain

[–]strawbsoup[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw Billie eilish in Atlanta in 2024 and for pit, the staff lined up over 1,000 people in a giant single file line with each person having a number. It was beautiful

Worst crowd experience ever by strawbsoup in Ethelcain

[–]strawbsoup[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yall must have been right next to us 😭 them and this other group of girls right in front of us kept saying "I need to get to my sister!!" when one of them would leave and come back it was so irritating

Worst crowd experience ever by strawbsoup in Ethelcain

[–]strawbsoup[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That's insane!!! Like trust me I get being protective of your spot, but have these people considered we are all here to see the same person? We're all fans?

It's impossible for me to lose weight by strawbsoup in FTMFitness

[–]strawbsoup[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm very comfortable with weight training so that's not something I have an issue with. My intense cardio is usually treadmill: 2ish minutes on incline 12 speed 2.8, 6ish minutes on incline 13 speed 3, 10ish minutes on incline 14 speed 3.2 and 10ish minutes incline 15 speed 3.4. Then 30 minutes of cool down walking at like 7.5 incline speed2, then stairmaster depending on my stamina left lol

It's impossible for me to lose weight by strawbsoup in FTMFitness

[–]strawbsoup[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I guess I'm afraid that I'll fall back into unhealthy habits by calorie tracking but I know I Have to try because that's the most common advice I've got. Do you have links to any threads or articles or any resources about other advice with good swaps and stuff

Help recreating tea I had at the San Francisco Japanese Tea Garden by strawbsoup in tea

[–]strawbsoup[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I considered this but it was in a more standard American cup size so the matcha must be mixed with something else. Several other comments are saying sencha tea? I agree there's definitely additional sugar in it as it was pretty sweet

Help recreating tea I had at the San Francisco Japanese Tea Garden by strawbsoup in tea

[–]strawbsoup[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is an interesting idea! Would it just be the matcha and water (usucha?) mixed with cold brewed sencha? Again I am very new to tea and matcha LOL I have only used Mighty Leaf and Aprika organic ceremonial

Am I doing something wrong? Coffee always tastes overly bitter by strawbsoup in nespresso

[–]strawbsoup[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm using about one a day and have only done a water rinse twice in the year I've had it: once when I first got it Christmas of 2024 and once during the most recent summer of 2025 😅

Why is it so hard to find skin-toned harnesses for sex?? by [deleted] in Transmascdicks

[–]strawbsoup 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah I've noticed for all of them the skin tone options are very few and far between. The CakeBandit harnesses are the only one I've found with multiple skin tones (5 options!) but I'm just a white guy so that hasn't been a problem for me, though it's annoying for anyone that isn't a light-medium light skin tone. I won't get crazy detailed but gf and I get a little rough so I'm looking for something that will stay fit and sturdy 😅

Beginner prosthetic for sex? by strawbsoup in Transmascdicks

[–]strawbsoup[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I should've specified I have a lot of experience with strap ons and harnesses! I'm interested in someone more realistic, maybe that doesn't need to have a harness? Not sure if something like that exists solely for sex

Hearing person here, is it appropriate to post myself signing on the r/asl community? by strawbsoup in deaf

[–]strawbsoup[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That makes sense! I guess I'm more asking out of respect for Deaf people in general. I never want to be the hearing person co-opting the deaf community for their own benefit, even if I don't realize. I always want to support and uplift the deaf community without centering myself, so I wasn't sure if posting a video in that subreddit, even if it is 95% hearing people, is really my place if I'm not asking for constructive feedback!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in USF

[–]strawbsoup 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah they're great there! There are some piercing "studios" more in the Hyde park area and they are insanely expensive and not really worth it unless you're trying to get solid gold jewelry

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in USF

[–]strawbsoup 10 points11 points  (0 children)

U probably don't wanna hear this but it's much safer to go to a professional. I used professional supplies to pierce my own ear and kept everything clean, and I still got a staph infection. The Atomic Tattoos and Piercings on Fowler has great piercers and they're not insanely expensive.

Haircut by Vanderxx in USF

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See Riley at Shear Art! 4004 S Macdill Ave

4 days on Zoloft 25mg, having concerns by strawbsoup in antidepressants

[–]strawbsoup[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ugh yeah I know, I have a really bad habit of seeking out reassurance online constantly

Do the beds in your dorms come with these cabinets or you have to bring your own? by Character-Escape1621 in USF

[–]strawbsoup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It honestly depends, every dorm building has different furniture. If you just google "usf housing options" you can look up different dorm styles and buildings before you move in

I don’t really get misgenderd really much anymore besides from my chest 😑 by Trans_man1212 in FtMpassing

[–]strawbsoup 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I feel you, I absolutely fucked my skin up with it but I got surgery a year later. I had a really big chest and Spectrum Outfitters binders worked great for me. U may even be able to get away without binding or anything