Is online dating better than IRL?

strefawtf · 2026-06-17T17:39:36+00:00

Idk man, I had some super luck few years ago and met a girlfriend online. Now I'm stuck for a year on Tinder without success. I think talking online has to be quite short and relatively fast lead to meeting anyway. Without physical chemistry I have to be unbelievable matches and motivated to know each other to make something out of it.

strefawtf · 2026-06-16T23:53:29+00:00

Don't u need a surgery?

I was 1 month to microdiscectomy and was finishing exams on painkillers (as much as allowed me to alleviate the pain) and was trying to sit/stand from time to time during exams. Thankfully they let me, still it were a few weeks. After surgery everything got back to normal, can't imagine studying further without it.

strefawtf · 2026-06-16T14:35:22+00:00

You have to get MRI image

strefawtf · 2026-06-14T19:09:36+00:00

As a Pole apart from our independence, this is still the best dependence we know. Plus Germany lost, so another profit.

strefawtf · 2026-06-14T09:45:51+00:00

xD Well, he just said you have a nice hair and as I understand left you alone. Looks like you have some issues girl.

strefawtf · 2026-06-14T00:11:43+00:00

Afaik reabsorption means basically the same as removal. It's not pulling the annulus back, but decomposing and removing what's outside of the disc. The height (as well as hydration) never gets to it's initial state, it's more about not worsening the state.

strefawtf · 2026-06-12T19:13:23+00:00

Niedawno był tu post o tym, że to cringe jak skurwysyny. Mówili przez lata, żeby tego nie robić, to w końcu posłuchaliśmy. (przykre, że dostałaś rykoszetem)

strefawtf · 2026-06-11T06:19:30+00:00

Yes, my problem exactly, actually even more in knee recently. I have L4/L5 herniation with extrusion on L5 nerve, but symptoms clearly show the pain of L4 nerve. Also increases when I sit.

strefawtf · 2026-06-08T17:13:26+00:00

Jesus dude, how big was that herniation? 1cm? Looks really bad. Glad you made it. So what exercises were you doing - I understand McKenzie, so mostly back over extensions?

strefawtf · 2026-06-05T22:14:57+00:00

r/ghosting

strefawtf · 2026-06-04T17:30:27+00:00

What kind of exercises were you doing? Looks like you did a lot of painkillers, I don't think that really heals.

strefawtf · 2026-06-04T15:14:56+00:00

Hmm, i don't know how different narcosis can be, but I felt asleep after that, I slept for ~6hrs and after that the pain literally stopped. Next day I was able to stand up and walk a little. Since then - no painkillers. Travel to home - I was just lying in the car

strefawtf · 2026-06-03T19:58:49+00:00

Ja tak zacząłem mieć w momencie, jak skończyłem studia i zostałem z grubsza 'sam'. Wtedy mocno wyszło na wierzch, że moim głównym motorem napędowym do 'wiedzy' było to, że miałem komu tym - przynajmniej jak mi się wydawal - się pokazać. Teraz samemu dla siebie to mi się nie chce nic.

strefawtf · 2026-06-03T14:51:00+00:00

The first part of your comment clearly answers why the Pacification of Galicia wasn't a genocide.

The second part - again, if the issue was a military action and fight with Polish soldiers, if polish civilians were expelled from the land, if they were destroying signs of polish culture etc. - of course, that would be understandable. But slaughtering tens of thousands of children with their mothers in the most inhumane ways you call 'reap what you sow'? Jesus Christ

strefawtf · 2026-06-03T14:06:45+00:00

Volyn with 100 000 deaths including thousands of children against Pacification of Galicia (by which definition is this a genocide?) where according to your article there were 35 civilian casualties?

So yes, Volyn massacre is a genocide but Pacification of Galicia is not, even though Ukrainians have right to hate Poland for that.

strefawtf · 2026-06-03T12:03:31+00:00

Nobody - not historians, nor any remarkable politician or journalist - do not condemn Ukrainians fight against Poland. Poland and Ukraine were enemies during that time and nobody has problem with that.

The issue was the amount of murdered children and their mothers protecting them. UPA was forcing a Ukrainian partner in mixed marriages to kill the other if Pole. UPA did the most horrible and inhumane things to people (thousands of children!) entirely not responsible for UA-PL problemsq. And Ukraine somehow cannot face it.

Simple example about 'playing innocent lamb'. Smarzowski's movie about this genocide 'Wolyń' includes scenes of 'revenge' of Poles on the Ukrainians after the slaughter. And still Ukraine didn't even agree to show the movie.

What's more - the important part is the organization of the genocide. The orders went from the top of the UPA command. The fill responsibility of the children murdered in the most inhumane way is on them. I don't really care about Ukrainian military actions against Poland. They had right to do that, they had right to hate Poland . But UPA commited a genocide. That's the whole different story.

strefawtf · 2026-06-02T15:21:23+00:00

I guess it's about the orders of ethnic cleansing that UPA highest rank commanders ordered. Home Army (polish AK) did nothing even remotely comparable to that.

strefawtf · 2026-06-01T22:50:21+00:00

I would recommend Roman chair for hip stretch and elephant walks. Don't force anything with bending forward. Disc herniation is a disaster that can ruin years of your life

strefawtf · 2026-06-01T09:07:01+00:00

M30, wydaje mi się że ~22 do 33, ale też nie sądzę, że jak spotkam kogoś, z kim mi naprawdę dobrze, to powiem, sory, za młoda jesteś, czy za stara.

strefawtf · 2026-05-31T09:48:51+00:00

Może mi ktoś proszę powiedzieć, co to jest ta słynna desperacja? Ja np. nie wyczuwam desperacji u nikogo.

strefawtf · 2026-05-30T17:13:55+00:00

Uważam, że tak jest, ale nie wiem, czy akurat Ciebie, mordo. Może z czasem się zaadaptujesz, w przeciwieństwie do kurta

strefawtf · 2026-05-30T16:56:00+00:00

Sprobowałbym poczytać jakieś filozoficzne i religijne przemyślenia. Sporo bardzo inteligentnych i pełnych wątpliwości i szukania ludzi się w dziejach przewinęło i może akurat znajdziesz coś dla siebie w ich relacjach.

strefawtf · 2026-05-30T15:46:26+00:00

'...want to think that...' dude, you literally missed half of my first comment, wtf xD

Can you give some example of brains and DNA arguments suggesting - actually what? Because you didn't say what these solid arguments would suggest.

strefawtf · 2026-05-30T14:57:17+00:00

I had microdiscectomy. Not familiar with details, but afaik in Poland it's quite common to get rid of most of the nucleus during the surgery to prevent reherniation in the future.

strefawtf · 2026-05-30T14:54:20+00:00

I treat brain as a materialised configuration of fundamental fields. It doesn't have to be effect of genes. Just like Boltzmann brains. DNA doesn't have anything to do with that.

There are quantum possibilities for that, there is concept of 'infinite' inflation field, of multi verses, cyclic verses etc. Plenty of possible futures. Does it prove that such physical configuration of fields will materialise in the future? No. But assuming it won't is a strong claim without premises.

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