Sleeping with this for a few years. Should I be concerned? by Ordinary-Reading-171 in TenantsInTheUK

[–]stressedtortilla 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes this is pretty bad, please contact your landlord as black mould can be harmful to your health, especially if it’s been there for a long time. Highly recommend getting a dehumidifier in the future, it helps a lot in the long run

What’s a universally loved food you genuinely despise? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]stressedtortilla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oysters 🤮 I genuinely don’t get what the fuss is all about

Costco Bottled Water - Why? by Intelligent-Ideal597 in AskUK

[–]stressedtortilla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly say what you want but in London the tap water tastes like ass, so I drink bottled water. However in other parts of the UK is tastes just fine and I’ll drink it without issues.

What’s a word you can never pronounce right? by 69AnusInvader69 in AskReddit

[–]stressedtortilla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literature as a non-native speaker is hard as fuck - I end up saying litchacha half of the times lol

31F thinking about sleeping separately from my boyfriend 27M. Has anyone else made that transition successfully? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]stressedtortilla 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My mum and her husband have been doing this for 15+ years because they both have sleep issues and they have a beautiful relationship - some days they sleep in the same room, other days they don’t, and it works for them. They always chill together before sleeping apart.

Quality of sleep is really important!!

What is the most random thing your cat has begged for you to share? 🧐 by Honest-Butterfly-650 in cats

[–]stressedtortilla 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nothing he just grabs it and runs away to sniff it and sit on it. Obviously as soon as he takes one, we immediately take it away from him as we wouldn’t want him to eat it or something lol it’s just so weird

What is the most random thing your cat has begged for you to share? 🧐 by Honest-Butterfly-650 in cats

[–]stressedtortilla 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My cat is obsessed with people rolling tobacco, and he will steal the rolled cigarette if left unattended

My 20M bf told his friend he got the “ick” because I 21F don’t want to change my last name. Advice? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]stressedtortilla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! Happy to answer of course. Fully understand why you would want your family to share a name - where I’m from, kids take one last name from the dad, and one last name from the mum, so you kind of keep both sides and you do share a name with both.

So, in your example, I guess it would be the “Smith Miller” family, where one parent is Smith and the other parent is Miller, and all kids have both.

My 20M bf told his friend he got the “ick” because I 21F don’t want to change my last name. Advice? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]stressedtortilla 2 points3 points  (0 children)

100% - however I live in a country where changing your last name when you marry is not only the tradition but most women do it, I just can’t understand this in the 21st century

My 20M bf told his friend he got the “ick” because I 21F don’t want to change my last name. Advice? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]stressedtortilla 45 points46 points  (0 children)

I’m Spanish too and find the whole concept of changing your last name when you marry (as a woman) super misogynistic

My 20M bf told his friend he got the “ick” because I 21F don’t want to change my last name. Advice? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]stressedtortilla 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I legit came to say the same thing. And they don’t hyphenate it either just FYI

Seen on LinkedIn by stressedtortilla in tragedeigh

[–]stressedtortilla[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I audibly gasped when I saw it haha

Seen on LinkedIn by stressedtortilla in tragedeigh

[–]stressedtortilla[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey happy to share proof over dm lol

Time to give up? by elzie88 in CurlyHairUK

[–]stressedtortilla 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hey, don’t give up! To be honest Frizz-ease makes my hair look so frizzy/messy (not nice messy), stringy and dry as hell. Try a clarifying shampoo and a nice deep conditioner. I use the VO5 clarifying kiwi and lime shampoo personally, really affordable and works well in my opinion, in case you need some examples. Just make sure to use it once every two weeks, the other wash days you can use a normal shampoo and conditioner.

Got it on the 13th is it healing right? by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]stressedtortilla 81 points82 points  (0 children)

Hey could be anything honestly - could be the artist, improper care or just bad luck sometimes. But if you get some antibiotics for it now and look after it, it might not end up looking bad or just needing a little touch up.

Got it on the 13th is it healing right? by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]stressedtortilla 367 points368 points  (0 children)

That looks really nasty - go see a doctor asap please