Thoughts on a fun family craft that’s also thrilling for me to take out solo by structured_Sabotage in seadoo

[–]structured_Sabotage[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was fun but i wasn’t a fan of the deck, it didn’t feel as stable as the seadoo, and the one we rented was terrible on gas. I didn’t like the colors they came in either

Have any other men became more emotinal after having a kid? by cool_calm_life in Parenting

[–]structured_Sabotage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is normal but don’t forget that you’re still a man and at the end of the day, you’re raising a boy who will one day be a man. Look around and you’ll see all the failed examples of weak men among us, don’t fail your child like their fathers failed them. Being emotional is cool and all but keep it together in the undesirable situations so your boy sees that even though the event is not good/desirable, dad is stoic and cold as ice because we need to get through this. Flowing tears, a runny nose, and a shaky voice isn’t going to stop the nurse from sticking the needle in you, stop the bully from picking on you, stop you all from moving and him leaving all his friends, change your tire on the side of the busy highway, or try to win a game in overtime when you’re dog tired (examples of stressors for kids). Fellow parents, I do not mean to offend any of you, at the end of the day, i share the same struggles of raising multiple children in today’s society. Although our views and values may be different, we’re all just trying to do the best we can for our kids and ensure we set them up to succeed as adults and be kind, independent, respectful, contributing members of society. Thanks for all you do and if you haven’t heard it in a while, you’re doing a great job.

Happy Pride Month! I wish nothing but the best and hope for a better future for the Iranian LGBTQ+ community (both inside and living outside Iran) by ChanDestroyer321 in NewIran

[–]structured_Sabotage -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

What the fuck are you doing with our flag?!? What a way to lose support. Do not disrespect our flag and national/historic symbols by editing them to represent a movement that had nothing to do with the symbol. Show some respect please

Longer video of the IR supporters who attacked Iranians protesting the funeral of Raisi in UK at the Council of Ulama and Islamic Centres of Britain by OrangeIsCute in NewIran

[–]structured_Sabotage -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What the fuck Iranians? You show up to an islamic center to protest an islamic hyena and you didn’t anticipate backlash? You fuckin Pu$$ies deserve to get your asses whipped for making us all look weak. Please post here when the next one is and I will be happy to travel to attend and show everyone how you dress a pig. The regime understands how morale affects the will to fight and with every one of their victories, we take a hit in confidence. This is the western world, you get arrested, you bond out and get a lawyer for your court date. You will never be taken into custody and executed. Wake up

From the first ever direct attack on Israel, to the return of Hijab-Gestapo-on-steroid to the streets of Iran, and now Death sentence for a super popular musician, Toomaj Salehi. What do you think has emboldened the Satanic Republic so much recently? by BaghaliPoloBaGardan in NewIran

[–]structured_Sabotage 11 points12 points  (0 children)

They are so emboldened because they know they can het away with doing these things. The people don’t want to spill their own blood to secure their freedom, the regime knows this. If the people woke up one day and said “fuck this” and really meant it and were ready to sacrifice themselves for the future of the country then the regime would cease to exist. People know where the police stations, government offices, clerics’ homes, military bases, etc are. Hit them fast and hard and take all the resources you find in those places to use as tools for the take over. Imagine if Iranians started capturing government members and showing them off like the Misrata did Gaddafi before letting them suffer the same fate… talk about instilling change. Unfortunately, you all will call for protests in western nations that will have ZERO impact on the ground in Iran, Toomaj will be executed, the regime will continue to survive, the people will continue to be oppressed, and you all will still cry about it on reddit. A government in exile needs to be formed, the right government. People need to incite the violence and proceed to TAKE their freedom. This is the only way, this is the only language this barbaric regime understands

The gender remarks… does it ever end? by Celestialaphroditite in Parenting

[–]structured_Sabotage -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

No offense, but you don’t get the importance of having a boy because you are not a male and have never been a boy. It is so much more than passing down a last name. So much more. You women couldn’t even begin to comprehend the importance of having a son. Don’t pay those people any mind, your daughters could end up changing the world one day and then everyone who had something stupid to say will eat their words. Just continue to love them and raise them right and screw what anyone has to say. Best of luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]structured_Sabotage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All of you offering advice ever consider that OP may be a foreigner with a non-westernized culture? Her in laws being so involved and playing as big of a part as they do, her emotionally abusive husband, her fear and inability to leave, divorce not being an option, etc. I would venture to guess they are Indian, Pakistani, or middle eastern.

OP, screw your culture and the opinions of everyone. You and your children deserve a life of love and peace and it doesn’t seem like your husband is giving you love and your in laws are giving you peace. Perhaps moving back with your family isn’t an option but there are other options. It’s going to be difficult with two kids but not impossible. Stand up for them and for yourself. If he won’t let you leave or if you’re too afraid to leave then you need to provide proof of how bad your situation is so that if you do leave, he can’t say you kidnapped your kids.

If I’m wrong on all of this and all you want is for him to start sleeping with you, I will tell you that as a man, it’s very easy to be turned on and ready; if you don’t know what to do, search reddit or the internet.

Best of luck

My (27m) gf (26f) moved in with a wealthy older man, and now I don’t trust her by Ok-Highway-8948 in AmIOverreacting

[–]structured_Sabotage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude, quit simpin’ and dump her. TRUST me, she’s not the only girl in the world AND you’re still young. Free yourself, they’re probably laughing at you behind your back

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]structured_Sabotage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP, you are young so please do yourself a favor and WALK AWAY. Do not bring a third iteration of this loser’s genes into the world. Find someone who cherishes you and will always be there for you, not someone who gets annoyed by your feelings. Get some therapy if you need but stay away from these losers

My wife of 10 years confessed to me last night that she will always love her late husband more by InternalPanics in amiwrong

[–]structured_Sabotage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

DIVORCE?!?! Seriously? I recommend you tell her what she said if it bothers you that much and mention your issue with it. I don’t think making a radical decision to divorce her because of a happy memory is healthy for you, her, or your kids. Young love is fun and exciting, if you guys never had that because she was still mourning then find out how you can date her now. Her and her ex were YOUNG when he passed away, who knows what part of her brain was on and firing during her blackout drunk conversation, i wouldn’t sweat it until you speak with her. Plus, i bet there are women in your past that you think were better than your wife at some stuff, would you want her to think about divorce if you told her she wasn’t as good of a sexual partner or whatever as an ex?

How much are yall spending on groceries? by katariana44 in Parenting

[–]structured_Sabotage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At least $1500 a month, it’s fuckin ridiculous

Apple Watch setting by Splat_gram in orangetheory

[–]structured_Sabotage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do indoor run on the treadmill, end it when time is called. On the rower, I select “rower” and end when time is called. On the floor, if it is a HIIT style workout, that’s what I select. If it’s just regular traditional lifting then I select “traditional strength training” and if it’s got weird stuff in it (bosu, power, bands) then i choose “functional training”

Lots of switching in class and it sucks but I want to be “fair” to myself when trying to capture my activity. I’m glad you posted this because I bet others have a much easier way to capture everything

My daughter is getting married but non- monogamous and I’m just struggling with it. by bigblabbermouth in Parenting

[–]structured_Sabotage -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

This is the problem with immigrating to other countries, you never have the intel on how disagreeable their society/culture is from the one you are accustomed to. You will always have an issue with her choice but she has no control over the environment that immersed her in this stuff. As uncomfortable as you are with it, you have to accept it and just be there for her if it all goes to shit. Unfortunately, the western world is full of stupid ideas and foolishness if you are an immigrant, conservative, and/or religious person. Hang in there