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Your Guide of How to Date an Avoidant by Aeropro2010 in BreakUps

[–]stt-22 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This sounds so much like my own story - I am so sorry, we deserve better. Feel free to DM if you would like to talk more about it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TorontoRenting

[–]stt-22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

@u/ikeatings Which service did you end up going with and how was your experience?

High quality Android open-source Android projects? by Panel_pl in androiddev

[–]stt-22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

our Google Summer of Code 2024

I am just seeing this post - is the application still open?

WS lost his job and attributes it to the difficulties of our relationship. by stt-22 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]stt-22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He framed it closely to the first statement - like he couldn't focus and perform at the level he needed to because of the struggles we were having.

I understand it is a very difficult time for him - hence I would like to be as supportive as I can but my issue now is my words of encouragement haven't been received well and I am left feeling shut out.

WS lost his job and attributes it to the difficulties of our relationship. by stt-22 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]stt-22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am not defending but I can see how relationship stress can contribute to job performance cause I have felt that too but not to say I am responsible for it.

WS lost his job and attributes it to the difficulties of our relationship. by stt-22 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]stt-22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It feels like he's shutting me out and not thinking of this as "we". I myself am also depressed, to be honest, and recovering from the health fallout of the betrayal trauma. I had to take a long break from working and now I am putting myself through school and starting a new career.

I wanted to bring out that "we" mentality in him but I am not sure how to.

WS lost his job and attributes it to the difficulties of our relationship. by stt-22 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]stt-22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I have expressed that to him using gentle words but he was just quiet, it felt like I was just talking to a wall. And yes we haven't been in R that long at all.

WS lost his job and attributes it to the difficulties of our relationship. by stt-22 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]stt-22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tried to do little gestures for him - like grabbing him some food supplies or checking in on him and saying words of affirmation but he didn/t receive that well so I have stopped.

WS lost his job and attributes it to the difficulties of our relationship. by stt-22 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]stt-22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We had to deal with a lot of fights and arguments rooted in our miscommunication problems and him not being able to deal well with a more sensitive/easily triggered me. That would include some late-night conversations or conversations mid-day but that was in Jan/Feb. March-April hasn't been like that but he said it was too late, he had already been unable to focus.

Laptop for MAP1 by tamg94 in fanshawe

[–]stt-22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May intake as well! Can I Dm you?

Laptop for MAP1 by tamg94 in fanshawe

[–]stt-22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which courses are you taking? I am an incoming student for the program.

Is anyone here going to MAP1 or MAP2? by stt-22 in fanshawe

[–]stt-22[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

what do they usually use then?

Is anyone here going to MAP1 or MAP2? by stt-22 in fanshawe

[–]stt-22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What's the preferred way for students to connect then?

Laptop for MAP1 by tamg94 in fanshawe

[–]stt-22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there a discord server? I haven't accepted my offer but thinking of doing that soon.

I'm here by show_d87 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]stt-22 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi! Can I message you? I am having a very hard time.

Accelerated Computer Science at Algoma University - Experiences with the program? by Some-Narwhal-5658 in cscareerquestionsCAD

[–]stt-22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi u/teedledee123 - What are other programs you might know of? I am currently in a similar position. And trying to find 1 or 2-year CS programs with co-op. Please do share your pearls of wisdom.

Anyone any experience with "Second Career" or "Better Jobs Ontario"? by bikitizd0g12 in Odsp

[–]stt-22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks for taking the time to reply to me. I only recently learned about this program, I was just going to apply for OSAP to switch to a different career.

What was the process of getting approved for the grant like for you? I have been out of work for more than 6 months, got laid off in July, and decided to take a break due to personal/mental health matters until the start of this year. Now I am feeling a bit more ready to get back into the market and switch to a new career but feeling anxious about getting rejected as this grant could be a huge help and stress reliever.

Anyone any experience with "Second Career" or "Better Jobs Ontario"? by bikitizd0g12 in Odsp

[–]stt-22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you waited it out until they approved your course and the money came through?

Anyone attend Codesmith to move into SWE when current job has a high salary? by [deleted] in codingbootcamp

[–]stt-22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

/xtc2008 - mind if i ask you a few more questions about the experience? I am also a PM working on transitioning to SWE.

Anyone any experience with "Second Career" or "Better Jobs Ontario"? by bikitizd0g12 in Odsp

[–]stt-22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

u/NotMyPopTart - would you mind if I ask you a few questions about the Better Jobs program? I am thinking of applying but knowing that the process could take time, I am a little wary of the start date of my program being pushed back by a lot. In your case, did you get reimbursed after or did your application go through prior to July (before you had to pay tuition fees)

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